There’s no amount of things in this world that’s worth your sanity, you’ve got to choose the right people to hand around with and you may think you do it wouldn’t take long till you realize that. Friendship see you win and be happy, they see you make everything in life and still stay wish you more, they don’t get okay if you ain’t okay. So you would say it’s too much and you don’t have anyone who would want that for me, you have to realize that you’re in the wrong zone.... Just as a relationship gets, friends could be that close to you as well and just when things gets uneven you’d see them comforting you.
You can have just few of them, with the same mindset towards each other.. it then becomes your views and equals out and that’s how you two just keep growing together and really there’s nothing that could cause either of you to go wild. That will lead to things that would open up so many wounds leading to so many things, it’s all about going through the same thing and operating on the same level of trust... Having someone who wouldn’t go on to tell the world lies about you, that is the kind of person you should hang with...
I guarantee you, when you don’t have a close attachment to anyone really is the best but you can’t run away from friends coz you come across with a lot daily and they will want to know more of you and even even become your best friend... An article of @Infinity did so much justice to that and even gave so many attributes regarding who a true friend should be..
Having a good friend is the real price because you are really just happy being around that person, their words serves as healing to yourself, you can tell them life huddles that you can’t tell your siblings or your parent and feel comfortable about it... They are rare to come by, but not impossible to and if you see your friend as being toxic or people see you as one... then this is the moment to remember the harm you’ve caused and try to make things right. It will go a long, you may see them as being irrelevant in your life but when you literally see what they do for you behind your back you’d be amazed.
Our friends could be our way of escape, you can have someone who prays with you and even take up your problems to God and it goes being that... They make a commitment to God about your problems, that’s the friendship... I over head my sister praying for her friend and after interceding she committed a great seed to God to completely help her out of it.. that is true friendship, with the growth mindset set for each other..
Our friends could be our way to financial freedom, a childhood friend told me about how his mom accepts IT students and would tell his mom to help me when it’s about time... I didn’t ask for it but he went further willingly to help me, you could see that happen with some testimonies of how some users got into read.cash... How a close friend wouldn’t just stop but keep pushing you to opt into things that will be beneficial and keep on assisting till you get better, I equally would really thank someone really special for every help he has rendered to me so far...
There are several other beautiful benefit of this, but with this little points I hope the message have been passed... It could be you who needs to be more caring, give back the love you receive and if you want to keep hanging around that individual you’ve got to do the same. Take on the person’s burden as they to you, show your support when they are down and if there’s an opportunity for them make it aware. Do not always be on the receiving end, share the same common attributes.
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November 2021
Real friends are so hard to find these days. Fake people were scattered everywhere and continues to disguise as a real one. Choose your circle wisely, as they say.