Hello People!
How was the weekend? You had fun or you attended to piled up work? Mine went well, I enjoyed the weekend football and there was rain yesterday that made the weather calm. I had a funny encounter at night, a s3x worker got angry because she was referred to as a s3x worker🤣. I'd write on the full story tomorrow or next.
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"I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having s3x with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have s3x. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago I heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's more than a month when last i had s3x with my wife.
I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour is burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advise me on what to do as I am pained and confused."
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I saw this on nairaland this morning...
The rate of cheating in relationship and Marriage is increasing on a daily basis in this our current era. Both genders cheat, there's no need to argue on who cheat the most but that doesn't mean that everyone cheat.
I'm not trying to boast or be proud, I detest it and can't stand the scene of being cheated whether in relationship or marriage. If it happens by mistake (as people often tag it), that relationship or marriage is ending that day. The first thing is to send her back to the man's house or the father's house.
Looking at the story above, it's very clear that the lady is cheating no matter how she tries to cover it. The man has gotten all the signals but still "soft" to function as a man. I know he must have been considering the welfare of his children but...how does some withstand it when they know their wife is cheating? I can't even imagine it.
According the write-up, it's not that it's the wife that's providing for the house or paying the house rent, I wonder which type of love that's making him to still stayed put and watch things go haywire. Maybe that's the agape love they're talking about lol😂.
Also, I know the wife's phone is her privacy but to this extent, the wife needs to prove herself, if she can't or submit her phone, then the man should send her out with no hesitation.
I know it's not easy to do that because of what people would say or the news that would noise abroad, but standing the sight of a cheating 'smart' wife is even worst because you'll be taken as a fool. She'll be behaving as if it's her right to cheat, wtf!
Marriage is for better for Worst? So this warrants all manners? No it can't be!
Some may say it's not easy as I'm saying it, but let's be sincere, anybody leaving you to another guy or girl doesn't value your feelings or respect you, you're just an option. So let them be with the people they value.
Just like what we usually see in movies especially in Nollywood, there's every tendency that the person they're cheating with is taking them as options too and sooner or later, everything will scatter, and by then they don't know where to go.
These are the reasons that people don't give value or give in real affection to ordinary relationships these days because of things like this are bound to happen.
I don't know how people will handle such a thing but to me, it'll be end there once I notice that I'm being played.
Thanks for reading💝💝💝
10th October 2022
Right many people I'm scared of breakups and cheating in the relationships nowadays I actually had a friend who is scared of getting into a relationship with the guy she likes because of breakup