Your Enemy: High Expectations I have a relationship. In the beginning, we often expected each other. On things to do that need not be said. We used to fight a lot because we didn't cheat or lie. Our former opponent in our relationship is expectation. I admit that I was expecting people but as the pain kept getting worse and worse I realized that I did not need it. Because our expectations of people, co-workers, boss or whatever, when your **expectations increase**, you will be hurt.
But some of them the expectation is have a good effect for them. In this article let's talk about the pain of expectation in every thing. ***Nothing kills us but our own minds can kill us.*** When you've got expectations of others, and people expectations don’t materialize, that’s while troubles begin to arise. When you've got too excessive or unrealistic expectations of human beings, you place your self at a excessive danger of having upset and hurt. An unlucky pitfall of getting excessive expectations is that it prevents you from simply playing the experience. One of the largest demanding situations in existence is getting to know to just accept people for who they sincerely are, however after you understand that your expectations can't change humans, the higher off you'll be.
It's a good thing I avoided expecting it because it doesn't really help me and our relationship. When you expect too much from someone you are lacking in what he or she is doing. There are many possible side effects of high expectations. Now we have been together for a few years and I am proud of it because of the problem that we are going through, we are talking about and let us understand it, it is better to make a way than for the **person to stay away from you.** **Accept what you can give to each other and do not expect too much.**
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Nice nice totoy, so dapat don't expect too much, kasi, oo basta yon na yun. Magaling yan totoy, ilang years na kayo ngayon?
Hahaha nice talaga ate. 2 years na hehe 🥰
Woww, Sana 🦉, at sana ay tumagal pa kayo, kaya wag kang magloloko ha totoy, payong ate lang 😉
Sa 2 taon ate hindi pako nag loloko sa mga susunod na taon pa kaya? Haha salamat po ❣️
Very good very good, dahil jan, may JOWA ka, na man talaga 😂😂😂✌️
Ikaw nalang wala ate. Hahaha
Ay di naman kasi ako naghahanap totoy, masaya pa ako sa pagiging singol y'know
Hahaha osige ate. ☺️
Hihi 😉
Having high expectations also give pressure to every individual.They might keep on thinking how to reach this expectations.But we should always remember that having high expectations will just make those person around us away from us.Because they will always think that if those expectation of yours didn't meet you might be in pain or hurt your feelings.So,we should avoid having high expections.Dont always expect higher from others
Indeed buddy. ❣️ Thankyou for sharing your thoughts. Also to participate my question. I hope some readers here read your comment. ❣️
Expectation vs reality makes someone so upset so don't expect to much and you might get hurt always remember you won't always get exactly the things or even love you expect to someone that they will gave it back to you