Sexuality stuff

6th may 2022

*To all my readers expecting the second part to switch it up tonight I hope you would forgive me I just had to publish this instead*

This is probably the most sensitive topic I would ever speak about here on this platform and I am only doing this because I honestly seek advice from the public about how to advice a friend. I recently received a distress call from a friend of mine that I met back in my first year in school. We became friends because we were in the same department but after a our final exams that year I moved up into the next level while he had to repeat because he failed but still we remained friends.

Now the following information I am about to share is sensitive and if you feel like you don’t have the stomach for it or you don’t have anything meaningful to say just ignore it and move on !!! Okay ? thank you( I would try to be as careful as possible)also I would like to state that I am an open minded person and I like to think I am not homophobic. Well here goes….

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So I just got off the phone with a friend like I said earlier and he was just telling me about how he ran away from home to escape depression. Apparently he is the black sheep of the family and his parents would say harsh things to his face just to make sure they spite him for not being straight.

He said he suffers from ulcer and they have refused to get him Drugs for it because they blame the reason for his sickness on his sexuality. I don’t know if it is something spiritual or I can’t even say what it is exactly all I know is he sounded like he was going to take drastic actions. Now as a straight guy, I don’t know how to advise him on what to do because this is something I have never and can never experience but he is my friend and because I consider him a friend I gave him the best piece of advice I could give while trying to understand him and where he is at right now mentally.

Currently he is staying at a friend’s place and trying to figure out his life. I honestly don’t know what more to say to him because I don’t know if my advice would be doing him more good or harm. Now the sexuality spectrum is a bit confusing and not in the sense that I don’t know my sexuality believe me I sure do 😂( and wipe that smirk off your face I am not a womanizer) I am just saying the sexual spectrum seem to have gotten very wide nowadays people are calling theirselves different thing and adding “-sexual”to it.

For those of you who don’t know the LGBTQ community is illegal in Nigeria. Well you can’t marry same sex here in Nigeria you will be arrested and jailed which is understandable because our heritage and culture doesn’t support it but tell if you were the one in my shoes and you wanted to encourage this rouge friend of mine what and what would you say to him. Because To my greatest knowledge I have said all I can to him but something tells me I would have to talk to him again soon on this topic. So let me know in the comment section and please no judging just keep an open mind and if you have nothing to say please just ignore.
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