Revealing some facts about my Marital Status
8th of August 2021
*As what I've said in my previous* *article,* *I still have lots of questions to be answered as having in a relationship status. Since I'm having fun answering all of it, thus I'm going to continue answering those in this article.* https://read.cash/@Janz/random-questions-in-a-relationship-status-91dcb6ce
*Again, the questions were taken randomly through this link* *https://www.mantelligence.com/relationship-questio*ns/ https://www.mantelligence.com/relationship-questions/
**Without further ado, let's rock 'n roll.**
As far as I remember, I guess it's "Hi". Haha I had nothing more to say at all since were not close, were board mates though but I am not really that friendly to guys.
I asked my partner of what is the first word I said to him. He said, that was when I asked for a water. Haha I asked him of a water to drink. Then, I remember were not yet in a relationship that time.
But when were already boyfriend and girlfriend, he asked me to have a talked and I said yes. Our first talked together were really awkward. I remember that were sitting with 1-meter distance haha. Then just amazed with him because his the one whose very talkative and his not even out of topic and what I did was nodding, saying Yes and just agreed on what he said. Haha I'm shy that time. Of course, I never knew him much that time so it's kind of awkward for me to talked and talked.
The best advice that I received in terms of relationship was the advice of my mother.
One time, I and my partner had arguments because of some misunderstanding and I get back home to my family's place because of that. Due to my anger and pride I was planning to leave my partner that time and won't come back here in his place. But my mom, advice me to **not let my pride ruined the relationships we had because we already had a son. She then added, that it's normal to have quarrels but we should knew how to fixed it immediately and not letting our pride hinders the reconciliation and we should always put in mind that we already has responsibilities to take care of and that is our SON.**
So far, my mom did a great job for that. Lol
Well, my mother were right when she said that because we knew were not a teenager anymore and we already had a child. If we let our pride dominates between our misunderstandings then our child maybe at risks. So that is why, we tried our best not to make the fuss big and will fixed that immediately. I'm just lucky as well since my partner will not allow the day to end if we can't fixed our fights.
Friends with my exes? I don't think so. From the definition of friendship, I don't think I am friend of any of them. Because when we said FRIENDS, you can share to him/her your sentiments and worries and that wasn't applicable to my exes. Maybe a casual talked, or if I had something I need to asked to them and beyond that nothing more. So, I can't say that I am their friend and vice versa.
No. I don't think so.
In our case, I and my partner were very transparent. I knew his past relationships and everything happens to them since his sharing that to me as well as he knew also mine. He always said to me that it should not be kept hidden since it was the reason why he or we are able to kept our relationships more stronger since we learnt more lessons from our past relationships and we already applying that in ours. That's why, it somehow helped us to be more matured in terms of staying or being in a relationship.
Woaahh. Such a deep question. Honestly, it's so hard for me to answer this question since happiness is what we need in this life. But to compromise happiness just for the success of a relationship then maybe if it's feels like the right thing to do, so be it. Just make sure that you will still be happy in the end and had the feeling of fulfilment. Since, it seems unfair in our part as well if not.
In our case, we just put together our money and everytime he had money he will just gave that to me as well. But if we both need to buy something, we both talked on that and agreed on that as well. If one of us, won't agree then we won't buy it. It's just like that.
So, this is the last question I had randomly picked for this challenge.
Biggest fears in a relationship. Maybe it's the fear of losing both of us. I had fear of losing him since we had already a child. I won't be fear of this if we don't have a kid. But since we already had, it made me fear in some way. Because, I can't imagine and can't endure the pain my son would feel if ever he will grow up without a father. That's totally a No No for me. I don't like also the fact that my kid will sees us both broken, a broken family to be exact. I don't want our son to experienced that since we both have a complete family even though my partner doesn't have parents already since they were already in the other dimension of this life but still they wasn't a broken a family. That's why we won't let our son experience that since we both being raised with a complete family.
**That was it everyone.** My response to the challenge initiated by @Eybyoung for the taken.
Hopefully you'd also enjoy reading this trying hard piece of mine. Lol
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Random Questions: In A Relationship Status
7th of August 2021
***Are you in a relationship? How do you feel to be in a relationship?***
Yesterday, I've been reading some articles regarding a challenge of answering questions but that challenge are for those singles or not in a relationship status. So I can't able to join the challenge since I'm taken or in a relationship status. ***(chaarrsss, wag muna mag sana all okay. Lol)***
Good thing, earlier today @Eybyoung published an article about answering some random questions as well but for those who were taken. Then she allows also those taken to do the challenge. Of course, since I don't have any topic to write that's why I'm grabbing the opportunity to have a topic to be publish today since I can able to relate to this one as well. I can surely share some of my experiences of being not single.
So, let's start.
*By the way, the questions were taken randomly at* *https://www.mantelligence.com/relationship-questions/*
*You can also pick your questions in that link as well. That is also the same link of where* @Eybyoung *took her questions.*
Same as Miss Eyb, I'm also irritated to those couples that always rants to social medias their misunderstandings or fights. Some that I observed on social media were even fighting through social medias by exchanging harsh comments. For me, that must not be done that way since it's a private thing that needs private attention to both couples. There were lots of eyes on social media, so by doing that way misunderstandings might not be fixed easily because there were already lots of people being involved and will be ranting as well. Both the reputation and dignity of the couple will surely be at risks.
My partner, also hates that way. He doesn't like that other people will know were not in good term. He always wanted to have private relationship and so do I. So, for my friends here on FB as you can observed we just rarely posts some pictures together because we both don't like it. Thus, ranting our misunderstandings on social media is also a big NO to both of us.
Since were already a parent. As parents we really tried our best to practice the authoritative parenting style since it really gives better result for a child. All we want for our son is the best and to mold him with good values and have fear with God. As what I observed for both I and my partner, we both set rules for our son but not to the extent of being strict.
**Further research of what is an authoritative parenting style for those who doesn't know.**
*According to Katherine Lee (2020), she stated in some part of her article "Why Being an Authoritative Parenting Style is the Best Approach" that*
*This style of parenting is the "not too hot, not too cold" porridge of the parenting styles.*
*Authoritative parents give kids respect and listen (and expect kids to do the same) and encourage kids to be independent thinkers, but they do not give in to kids and expect cooperation and good behavior.*
*The authoritative approach to parenting has been shown to lead to the best outcomes in kids, including better emotional health, social skills, more resiliency, and more secure attachments with their parents.*
Source https://www.verywellfamily.com/are-you-an-authoritative-parent-why-this-is-the-best-approach-3964005
If I'm having a bad day, my partner would always knows how to handle it. He just don't asked me and will just wait for me until I'm cooling down. Then, that time he will already approach me. Because he knew that if he will interrupt me in my bad day I will be easily angry to him even just in small things. So, to avoid fights he will just distance himself from me.
Before when he doesn't know me that much especially on how I get angry. We always have fights since every time I had a bad day I really wanted to be alone or every time I'm super stressed out, I wanted to be alone. But then, he will annoy me more which leads to fights. That's why when he knew already, he will just distance himself and will just talked to me when he feels I'm already okay.
Well, non-sexual or sexual affection I'm always contented with it. I guess that's love. If we will not be contented both, then probably were not already being together now. Because, I believed that to have a successful relationship, contentment is one of the key. ***(Just my own POV, I don't know if this is also the same to other couple.)***
Well, since we don't have enough for now. Even if we wanted to spend our special day to somewhere where we can also unwind but then it's not yet part of our budget for now.
So, we just spends our special day at night. ***(Charrooott, bawal green okay. Haha)*** Of course it's at night since that's the time that we can talked deeply and talked our future plans because during daytime were both busy attending to our 1-year old son. Therefore, we just usually talked to each other, greet each other in our special day like Monthsary, Anniversary or whatever occasion it is. Having cake or so whatever it is were not present in our special day. My partner also don't like that, he just prefers if we buy viands instead. He just told me, to have such cakes or anything that made the day more special if we already both have enough money. Also, greetings for him is enough and he said being with me is already enough for our special day. ***(Sweet right? Lol)***
**That all everyone for now.** Actually, I still have lots of questions to be answered but I will just write another article for that because I don't want you all to get bored reading a whole chapter of a book. Lol
Hopefully, to those singles out there that you'd enjoy some of my revelations. To those taken, you may now write your own version for this challenge then just tag Miss Eyb.
Now, I will tag my taken friends here to do the challenge as well @Zhyne06 @renren16 @Marinov @Proud-me @Yzza0625 @ThisisGrace21. Sorry guys but you need to write your versions too. Haha
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Unexpected Blast in a Wrong Time
6th of August 2021
***Have you experienced a sudden happening in a day that you never expected?***
Last Wednesday, as what I’ve shared in my previous article. I wasn’t in the mood because of someone who just tolerated a mistakes. You can check the article here. https://read.cash/@Janz/tolerating-mistakes-is-really-getting-into-my-nerves-8056b387
Then, another unexpected happening added on that mood and it worsen my mood. An unexpected happening which I don't have an idea that it will happen that day. I really felt sad. As if I don't know what to do next because I know that this time it's so hard and pandemic brought many limitations.
**Maybe your already wondering why?** But it's all about my online work. As what I've also shared in some of my articles here. I shared that I work online. I work as an ESL Tutor or shall I say I teach online to Chinese students from kids to adults. **But unfortunately, I was terminated. My account was being terminated last Wednesday (Aug 4) .** Without further noticed from the company I was just shocked on what happen to my class table wherein all my open slots were locked. I was really curious and wondering why it was being locked in fact I don't have any penalties or absence prior to that.
I chatted directly my friend whose also a tutor of the same company I worked for since she's been part of the company for 3 years already. Every time I had problems in the technical I'll just chatted her to assist me. So, that day I also chatted her about what's happening in my class table and she told that she's afraid of what will happen to me. I was curious so I said Why? Then she said, she already seen some posts on our fb page about sudden locking of slots and it's not a good news. So, what I did was to checked immediately our fb page and voila. I've seen posts that same as my case where their open slots were being locked even though they don't have any absences or penalties. Then, I found out that the company were terminating many tutors especially those under probation and those regulars that has bad records because of the new policy of the China Government regarding Online Tutoring.
**So, what was the new policy of China Government regarding online tutoring?**
Last August 4 which is Wednesday, was the implementation of the new policy of China regarding cracking down or limiting students to do after-class online tutoring and they strictly implementing it. Resulting that most of the ESL companies catering Chinese students were also doing such actions parallel to the policy. Some were being banned for operation.
As further research about it, according to James Palmer *( a deputy editor of foreign policy)* in his article entitled **“Why China is Cracking Down Private Tutoring”** he said in some part of his article.
*The Chinese government has issued stringent new regulations for the private education industry. The rules include requiring tutoring and education services firms to convert to nonprofit status, banning core-curriculum tutoring—aimed at passing exams—during weekends and vacations, and forbidding foreign curricula or hiring foreigners outside of China to teach remotely.*
Source https://foreignpolicy.com/2021/07/28/china-private-tutoring-education-regulation-crackdown/
After I’ve seen some posts about it on our fb page. I then message my TM (Tutor Manager) about my case. Then, I was right. What I thought about my case after seeing some posts were right. Knowing that I am still under probation. My TM responded my message that she will be terminating my account in response to what their company’s head told them that all tutors under probation will be terminated and I was one of them. This is so sad for me because I didn’t expected it that day. I had no choice but to accept it.
There were actually lots of changes in the company that I worked for 4 months. Aside from they terminates all the under probation tutors and those regulars with bad records. All bonuses and incentives to those remaining tutors in the company were suspended. They can no longer open their own slots but only TM can open their slots. All absent students will not be credited in their service fees unless they can report it immediately to the CS assistance and many more. That is all because of the strictly implemented new policy of China government and knowing that their students were mostly all adults only and those kids were not already allowed to do some online class after-class. Therefore, the students enrolled in the company that I worked for were mostly adults and that policy brought huge loss of students especially kids students. That is why they terminates tutors and mostly of the ESL companies catering Chinese kids suspended their hiring as well.
Unexpected Blast in a Wrong Time.
It was really sad for me knowing that I’m depending on it. Depending on my son’s needs weekly and depending it for paying our bills. It was really unexpected and it was totally happening at at wrong time where I badly need income this time because of my son. Knowing also that it’s difficult to find job nowadays because of this pandemic we are facing today.
But of course, I never lose hopes. As what my partner said to me, “I should not be sad because if that wasn’t for me then there were other opportunities will knock at my door and that will definitely much better than the one I’m being terminated.” I’m somehow enlightened with his words. Hopefully, I can find another job today because I badly needed it.
**Thankful for this platform read.cash because without this platform I won’t have any penny left as of now. Good thing that I could able to save some amount for me to be able to still provides our needs daily especially our food, my son’s food while I’m still looking for a new job.**
Now, this is what I learned from this experienced.
I should not be depending on just one online job for I knew it was not stable. I am not working for it regularly. There were times or happenings that are unexpected just like what happen to me now. Where I really thought I will lasts longer in this company because I knew I did my best to worked hard and to teach as much as I can. I can’t say that I’m nit teaching well because if I don’t why is it I have lots of regular students who always booked at me. Which means they liked the way I teach them. So I can’t say that I didn’t did my best teaching in that company. The only thing is that I’m still under probation which leads me to be terminated. Which also for me, so unfair. Terminating without further noticed is nit justifiable for me. But what can I do, I’m not the boss. ***That is why, I’ve learnt that I should not be depending on just one but I should also seeks that time another job aside from it. In case, I’ll be terminated I still have one to depend on.***
That’s all for today everyone. Hopefully you’d be able to understands my sentiments.
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Tolerating mistakes is really getting into my Nerves
5th of August 2021
*Last two days I wasn’t able to published an article because I wasn’t in my mood. Even now, I’m still not in my mood to make an article because my mind were blocked by anger and can’t really focused on writing.*
*But since, I have a goal to accomplished that’s why here I am writing this article since my fingers also were very opposite to my mind and it’s working hard typing in the keyboard.*
*Another thing is that, I felt that my day will be wasted if I can’t able to published an article since I’m already used to it and since I really tried to maintain my goal to be able to make an article per day. But since, I don’t hold my time I can’t avoid such instances that there were days that I don’t have article being published.*
*So much for the chit chats,* ***in this article I just want to shares what I really felt on someone in my surroundings that tolerates mistakes which getting into my nerves and which I really hates the most.***
Last Tuesday, it was really a terrible day. My partner and his cousin were fighting. His cousin can’t hear. In other words, his cousin is a pure deaf. But why is it my partner were fighting with him?
This deaf cousin of my partner were really is a spoiled brat. He was spoiled by his father. To the point that, this cousin of him had the guts to kill and did things that aren’t good. Even it’s his cousin’s fault, his father will go to his son's side. That is why his son will not be afraid of doing such bad things because he knew that his father will be at his side. ***What a spoiled deaf kid he was.***
**So, this was what happen last Tuesday that was really gotten my nerves.**
**At 8AM that day,** after I and my partner finished doing our son's bath. He carried our son inside the house to have him dressed and I was left outside because I'm washing our clothes. Then while I'm hanging our clothes outside I heard my partner voice in an intense sound. It is because he scolded his deaf cousin because his cousin were just throwing out his saliva inside the house and it was spreading in the floor. He told his cousin with action of course because his cousin as what I've said can't hear. He told him not to that inside the house because we had a kid and will throw his saliva outside the house. Then after my partner said that to his cousin he got inside our room to put a clothes to our kid but he heard his cousin throwing again saliva in front of our door's room. That is why, he got outside to scold again his cousin. Then after that, since his cousin is afraid of him, his cousin got outside and my partner secured his bike since he knew that his cousin will surely do something with it because his cousin were like that. So, my partner put his bike inside but then he put his bike near the window not knowing that his bike tire were near to the window as well. So, without my partner knowledge his tire was already being flatten by his cousin by putting a thumbtacks on it.
Fast forward.
Because of my partner's anger he also killed his cousin's rooster since he knew his cousin were also valuing that rooster. He killed it in front of his cousin and his cousin since his afraid with my partner. He does nothing but looking at his rooster died. Then, his cousin were just hiding in their house and afraid to go outside. But still he will sneak out and throws a stone to my partner and even my hanging clothes outside he puts dirt on it.
I was really angry as well, because why is he like that. His deaf right? We really tried to understand him doing such things but is it our fault to or my partner's fault to scold him by throwing his saliva inside the house and knowing our floor is tiles? Were just trying to correct his mistakes but then he won't accept his mistakes instead will do another mistakes again. That's how he spoiled he was and it's because of his father because even it his son's fault he will still tolerating it. That's why his son were like that.
Then, what I hated the most is that he scolded my partner for killing his son's rooster because he said his son's were not normal ( in our term "way buot"). That's why my partner also argued with his cousin's father and explaining his side.
**That is why, I'm really wondering. Is it okay to tolerate the bad doings of his son it's because his deaf? Even if his already attempted to stab with a knife to someone still his tolerating it?**
**Until when are we going to just understand that bad doings of his son? Until he will hurt one of us. THAT'S A BIG NO for me. I won't allow that and my partner won't allow that to happen as well. That is why, if we seem his not doing right we will disciplined him so that he will knew his mistakes. But everytime we does that his father will gets angry. That is why I hated his father the way he tolerated his son's mistakes. Because of him, his son were acting like that. Sorry for the term but I really hate that fact.**
Can you enlighten my mind? What should I do with it? Should we just allow that deaf cousin pf my partner to do such things to us? Because for me I won't allow that especially I had a son here.
It's not his totally abnormal because he can understand well especially talking to him in sign language. His totally normal if your looking at him, the only thing is that he can't hear.
So, that's how tolerating mistakes were getting into my nerves nowadays.
*That's all everyone. I apologized for some terms because I don't like someone who will just tolerates mistakes because I knew there's nothing good results for it and it is seen already in my partner's cousin.*
Tell me if I'm wrong on how I reacted to the situation. I will be willing to accept that and will appreciate to learn from you all.
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Goosebumps brought by Nightmares!
2nd of August 2021
Woohooh! ! !
***It's the 2nd day of August and this article supposedly published yesterday but since I was so sleepy last night I wouldn't able to published this one. So, I'm gonna do it today instead.***
So, it's another month to start or to continue the goals that we've started. Some goals were able to achieved in the previous months but today is another month of setting new goals or as what I've I said another month for us to continue those unfinished goals. **It's the start of the month, so let's be positive in looking forward of what this month will bring to all of us.**
*I really hoped and pray for all of us that we may gain more blessings this month. A blessing from the bch community.*
Goosebumps brought by nightmares.
**Do you think there's a person that never experienced to have nightmares**? **And**
**What is nightmares?**
***According to Asleigh Frank,*** *nightmares, or bad dreams, are a type of dream that causes you to feel anxiety, fear or terror. Typically, a person will wake up during or just after having a nightmare and he or she will be able to remember all or part of the bad dream clearly (2017).*
Source https://www.everydayhealth.com/healthy-living/decode-your-nightmares/
***Then by the Merriam Webster Definition:***
*Nightmare is an evil spirit formerly thought to oppress people during sleep.*
*It's a frightening dream that usually awakens the sleeper.*
*Something (such as an experience, situation or object) having the monstrous character of a nightmare or producing a feeling of anxiety or terror.*
Source https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/nightmare#:~:text=1%20%3A%20an%20evil%20spirit%20formerly,feeling%20of%20anxiety%20or%20terror
Who experienced nightmares here? How was it? Does it brought goosebumps to you?
When I was in my elementary to high school days, I always had a dream but this dreams were mostly a nightmare. I even comes to a point that I hate sleeping because I always had nightmares. I don't know why, because before if I had a dream it's always starts with a beautiful dream but how come at the end of my dream it always shifted into a nightmare. I even cried out every time I woke up because of that. I just found myself crying because of such bad dreams.
**Here are some of my nightmares that really brought me goosebumps:**
**A coffin whose following me with someone beside it without a head**
When I was in my elementary years to high school years, I sometimes walked when going home from school. I always dreamt that while I was going home walking I always feel that there’s someone whose following me. So, to find that out. I looked back and I was shocked and afraid for it’s a coffin with someone beside it without a head who keeps following me.
*So, imagine how nervous and afraid I was in my dream.*
I wanted to shout so loud in my dream but I can’t it seems like my tongue were being cut because I can’t utter words and can’t shout. I wanted to run fast as I can but then I can’t even move as in I’m totally stuck in place. While the coffin and that someone without a head is approaching me. I cried and cried because I can’t do nothing in that dream and I am so afraid already. When that coffin and someone without a head were already standing at my back and wanted to touch me I really cried so loud and shouted so loud knowing that I really did cry and shout while sleeping.
Then, I just realized that I woke up because my parents woke me up. I cried at them and told them about my dreams and they just told me that it wasn’t real and it’s just a nightmare. So, I then calm myself and sleep again.
**Dreamt of Snakes**
It was Christmas time, I attended a mass and right after the mass I’ve seen that all people inside the church became snakes even the priest an I was only human left. All the snakes were crawling towards me and again I cam’t move and shout for help. Then all the snakes were in my whole body already. I was really afraid and who would not be afraid of snakes and it’s all in your whole body right?
So, again my mother this time wakes me up and thankful that my mom did, because I can’t breath properly already. Again I cried and told my mom about my dream and she said maybe there’s traitor that surrounds us that’s why I dreamt of a snake. I don’t know if that’s true.
**A white lady who wanted to kill me while holding my neck**
This dream of mine were seems like true for me. Because while dreaming I felt I’m in my right track. I mean, I’m awake and not sleeping.
This happen ma when I was in my teenage years. I guess I’m 16 years old that time. Before, I fell asleep I’ve been changing positions on how to comfortably sleep. I even changes places in our house were I can be comfortable sleeping. First, I’m in my room. Then, I go out in my room and slept in the sofa. But then, I’m no comfortable in the sofa, I then slept in the floor. Then go back again to my room. I don’t know why am I being like that before.
So, when I was already fell asleep. The dream came. A nightmare to be exact. I dreamt of a girl whose on top of me while I’m lying. She’s wearing a white dress and she had a hair that covers her face. Then she hold my neck and tried to kill me. I fought back but I can’t move and I can’t say. There’s no sound that came out to my mouth. I even lost my breath for real. Because it seems like real to me. Since I knew what I’m doing. Then when I almost out of breath I then woke up since my hand were being tapped by the sofa and my father also woke me up since I’m already crying loudly as what my father said.
I knew that it was just a dream, but I really felt that I almost died because of I almost lost my breathing.
**So, that was some of my nightmares that really gives me the goosebumps. But, luckily I'm not having nightmares already for almost 2 years now. Hopefully, I won't experience it again because it's really not healthy for me.**
*Now, how about you? Do you have some unforgettable nightmares that you wished you won't dreamt it again? A nightmare that gives you the experienced of having goosebumps all over your body*.
That was it. HAPPY READING!
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When the bull is running but I still don't have enough
31st of July 2021
***“Hello everybody! How are you doing? Hopefully you’re all doing great today.”***
This past days and up until now I noticed that the value of BCH (bitcoin cash) were already increasing. I should be happy by this progress the fact it's value were already big in my currency which is the peso. But why is it, that I felt sad and a little bit afraid if this continues to increased. Then I reflected it myself, ahhh it's because I still don't have enough bch in my wallet that I tried to HODL. It's because, I'm afraid I couldn't be able to reach my goal to have 1BCh in my wallet for at least in that amount I'll be feeling secure for I know that having at least 1BCh is already an assurance for me to gain more profits in case it's value increases bigger and bigger. I must say my hard work will be totally paid off if that's the case.
You know what I'm thinking right now. I hoped that bch value will not yet increased so big so that I can easily HODL bch coins and then will just prayed that it will increased higher when I had already HODL 1 bch. ***Am I selfish of saying this?*** Because I'm aware that a lot here also wanted the bull to run fast especially those who had already a lot of bch in their wallet. But for me, I'm not yet wishing for it as of now since I still wanted to HODL more amount of bch until I reach 1bch. Then, I must say that's its okay for the bull to run faster or the value of it will gets bigger and bigger.
I will be more happy if I had already at least 1bch in my wallet. But of course, I'm still happy that I could able to have income in this platform which really helped me a lot in my expenses and our daily needs especially in my son's need. If I left no choice I will just withdraw an amount of bch in my wallet and will convert it into fiat money which I used to buy something important.
That's also the reason, that it's kind of hard for me to save 1bch because I can used my hodl bch as fiat if I already don't have money left to get in my pocket.
**As of now,** I only had PHP8,856.22 in my wallet. As you can see, I only HODL an amount of PHP6,630.78 and the rest of that were saved for my son's 2nd birthday this coming December. I'm still hoping that I could still save more for my son's birthday because this is the only source I had for his birthday. Of course, I don't just skip my son's birthday without even just having a simple celebration that is why I'm really eager to save more for it.
I knew that being a user for 4 months, I should already have more HODL but since I stopped and just active for 2 months I'm still so thankful that I could able to save this amount as of now. Furthermore, the rusty is not also consistent to me but still it's for at least he will still gave upvotes on my articles.
**My HODL bch is 0.2plus** and I knew that it is still far for me to be able to reach that into 1bch but I really wanted to. But since, I also need to withdraw some of it so, it's not that easy for me to reach my goal. I had still lots of challenges to surpass before I'll be able to reach it. That's why, I'm still hoping that value will not yet increased too high so that I could easily accumulate more bch.
**Hopefully,** this platform will still lasts longer because we also knew that this kind of platform will not be staying forever. So, while it's still here then I will be grateful for it everyday.
Forever thankful and grateful to this platform.
Yes, I'll be forever grateful and thankful for this platform read.cash since it gives me income passively by just writing. Also, thankful for all the people that behinds this platform for they really gave an opportunity to all of us to be aware and have knowledge in the crypto world specifically the BCH. Thankful for they also, allow us to HODL bch and sees it's value in the near future.
**In addition,** I'm very grateful for I was able to have back up money in case my pocket will be zero. Actually, because of this platform, I able to sustain our needs and I was also able to buy headset for my online work and now I'm also planning to withdraw some amount because I had bills to pay and my income in my online teaching is not enough. So, sad thing my hodl amount now will be lessen again. But besides that, I'm still forever thankful and grateful for I able to save our electric bills and other things that are needed especially for my baby. Just also hoping that I can able to replace in a short time all the bch that I converted into fiat money even before this year ends. **HOPEFULLY.**
**How about you? What was your point of view in the increasing value of BCH right now?**
*You can share your thoughts in the comment section and I'll be happy to know your side as well. Also, I'll be grateful to talked to you all even in this type of environment. Happy to have you all as my virtual friends.*
**So, that's my POV (Point of view) in the increasing value of bch right now were I still hoped and wished that it will not yet increased so high.** ***Please wait for me to HODL first 1 bch. Hehe***
That's it. Happy reading!
***"For my sponsors and those who upvoted my articles. I would like to say my deepest gratitude and happiness for you all since you always keep me inspired and motivated. Thank you so much. More blessings to all of us here. Love you all :) -*** @Janz
Special mention to @Eylz2021 my newest sponsor. Thank you so much for appreciating my works. God bless you sis.
Just want to greet a happy evening and thank you as well for the sponsorship @Eylz2021. More bch to come and have a blessed day of you. Thank you soooo muchhh :)
The Value of Friendship
“A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.” — Walter Winchell
“Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It’s not something you learn in school. But if you haven’t learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven’t learned anything.” – Muhammad Ali
***Those quotes above really touches my heart when I remembered things on how did I cherished friendships. Friends are everywhere, we can have friends whenever we are, we can have friends in school, in the workplace, in our places where we lived in. But finding real friends are quite difficult to have. The real friends that will stays by your side whenever you are in your downfalls and will help you to stand up and pushed you up and not those who will just pull you down. Those real friends that will not just stay with you when you have enough to give but will still be with even when your nothing to give as well.***
***Are there still friends like that? Well, of course. I have friends that I considered real and I'm going to share it in this article.***
Today, I was being tagged by @whitney123 to do a challenge. It's a challenge wherein we are going to write an article about our certain friends that we cherished and the experiences that we had with our friends. Since, today also as what I've read in Whitney's article is a celebration of the **"International Friendship Day"**. This might be a tribute article to all friends I had. Real friends to be exact.
The value of friendship.
When I was in college, I met lots of friends but only few of them which I considered my real friends up until now. We had this so-called circle of friends when we were studying. **In my 1st year to 2nd year college**, I had this circle of friends and they really are my real friends. They were the first I met when I started my college days. We are four in a group and we had the same course which is education but I am the only one who had a different major since they were English majors and I am a Math major.
Since I don't have pictures with the four of us, so I just have this instead. A picture of me with each of them. Actually, one of them were active here in read.cash and that is @Yzza0625. *(Madam, looking back this pictures, Haha)*
All of them are actually my real friends. They all supported me and vice versa. We supported each other. Even up until now, we still have communication with each even though we had our own family except for the one that wasn't in the yellow t-shirt picture. But she's also working now and she's in Cebu.
**But when I was in third year, I already part ways with them.** As what I've said, I had different major of them and since 3rd year, mostly of the subjects were majors and that time I wasn't with them already since I taking Math major. But of course we never stop seeing each other as well since were just in the same school though.
The start of my 3rd year college. I had another circle of friends and that are my co-majors. We are also four in a group. We called our group ***"FAJJ Team"*** that stands for our name ***(Florina, Aljomar, Janice, Joanne).*** We also are groupmates in our research subject before and that also helped build more our friendship. But before 3rd year I already known the two ***(Joanne and Aljomar)*** when I was 1st year since were classmates that time and we first had our friendship. Only Florina, adds up the team when I was 3rd year but I must say that I and Flor had the deepest friendship up until now. She's actually the one who introduces me to crypto world since I've known her before that she's depending mostly on her online works just have allowance. She's addict with captcha before and that she's also the one who introduced me in this platform as well.
Flor aka @Zhyne06 among all my friends I mentioned had the most adventures together. I even became a third wheel before of Flor hahaha. We go out but with her boyfriend, his partner now. So, of course I used to be their third wheel. Haha
Actually, I remember that we had misunderstanding before and I really thought that it will be the reason that we won't be friend anymore. But of course we both cherished our friendship and we tried to reconcile after and yes we did.
After that, we learned from that misunderstanding and that was the first and hopefully the last misunderstanding because I don't want that our friendship now even we already had our own family will be ruined just because of misunderstanding.
**Everyday, I cherished all the friends I had because they were my real friends.** They're always by my side willing to listen to my worries and I can definitely lean on them as well. I cherished them, because the time that I was in my depressing moment they really tried to lift me up and encouraged me to move forward. With that I'm very thankful of them and very happy that I met such wonderful friends. A friend that will never pull me down but instead pushed me up.
Final Thoughts
Friends are everywhere as what I've said. But real friends are really hard to find and I was very blessed since I had real friends like them and I found them while I'm in my journey towards betterment. Same as they as well.
Actually, I'm a bit picky in terms of finding friends. I really choose whom to be with and to go with. I definitely choose those who had same level of my craziness. Of course, for us me to get along together and for me to get along with too.
Happy International Friendship Day also to all my virtual friends here in read.cash. I'm also very happy to have you all here.
*By the way, you can also do the challenge. Just share your experiences with your friends and your thoughts on friendship as well. You may just tagged the one who initiated this challenge and that is* @whitney123. You can also check her article on that here. https://read.cash/@whitney123/happy-international-friendship-day-readcash-e69618da
Happy reading!
***"For my sponsors and those who upvoted my articles. I would like to say my deepest gratitude and happiness for you all since you always keep me inspired and motivated. Thank you so much. More blessings to all of us here. Love you all :) -*** @Janz
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Really? I’m afraid of what?
30th of July 2021
***“Hello everybody! How are you doing? Hopefully you’re all doing great today.”***
*This past days and up until now, I’ve been seeing many articles regarding the things they’re afraid of specifically their fears in life. Even my friends here who were part of our group chat the* ***“BCH BEAUTIES”*** *were also sharing an article regarding the said topic. Then I’m wondering, what if I will try this as well since I don’t have any topic though. So, for the one who initiated this challenge as well, Thank you. Since, it allows me to write something and published it here at the same time sharing my own thoughts of this and experiences.*
***So here we go.***
Everyone of us had fears. But that doesn’t mean that my fears are same as your fears since we had the so-called individualities. We are not the same, maybe there are some fears that might be the same as yours but not all of it.
So, I’m gonna share now the things that I’m most afraid of.
**Afraid of cockroaches**
I don't know why, but every time I've seen a cockroach roaming around near me I felt tense and nervous and I even shout when I see it. It really makes my heart beats so fast. I felt like horrible every time cockroaches were in front of me.
What I did when I encountered such thing is that, I usually stand on a chair or table or whatever is it that will just made myself elevate from the floor. Haha I'm really afraid of it. I don't know why. Haha Even though they're just a small insect but they will make me horrible.
**Afraid of frogs**
So, aside from cockroaches I am also super afraid of frogs. I hate seeing them just like the cockroaches.
There was one time that I washed clothes during evening since it was said that during day there will be power outage. So, for me to be able to used the washing machine I washed at evening. But in the middle of my washing I’ve seen one frog jumping in front me and I was like shouting and to find out that it’s not only one frog. I was surrounded by many frogs. Imagined how afraid I am this time (hahaha) knowing that I had fear on frogs.
What I did is that, I called my partner and asked him to let the frogs disappears in front of me.
**Afraid of snakes especially those venomous ones**
Who would not be afraid of snakes? Right? I’m also afraid of snakes even by just seeing them.
I never been bitten by a snake but my cousin was and sad to say she died because of that. That’s why I hate snake as well.
**Afraid of heights**
This is one that I really hate as well. Whenever I’m on top of a hill something like that I really don’t like seeing the bottom part of it since I also felt like vomiting if I did such thing.
Even just by jumping from a higher ground every time I will go for a swim it really takes so much time for me to be landed on water since I’m afraid to jump in an elevated part of it. But in the end, I jump so that means I conquer my fears here but it just takes time for me deciding whether I jump or not.
Now, let’s move on to a little deeper fears of mine.
**Afraid of losing loved ones**
By just thinking of losing someone whom I cherished the most: my family, parents, siblings, my little family, my partner and mostly my son. I really don’t know what to do if this happens to me. I’m totally afraid of this because I’m not yet ready for now.
I know that we don’t own our life that there’s an end of it since were just humans and were not immortal. That anytime, we won’t be able to used this life that we had. The only thing is that I’m not yet ready for now because I still have lots of dreams to my family and to my own family that wasn’t accomplished yet. That’s why.
**Afraid of death**
I knew in myself that I shouldn’t be afraid of death because we will be going on that track in the end and we also don’t know what lies ahead of us.
I will not be afraid of death, if only I already fulfilled my goals in life. But since not, I’m afraid that I’ll be leaving my loved ones without accomplishing my dreams for them.
**So, these are the things that I am most afraid of. I’m actually afraid of many things but what I mentioned above are the things that I’m mostly and usually fear of.**
Final Thoughts
We all have fears and we can’t deny that fact. Even if we looked brave outside but deeply we had things that were afraid of. Even those toughest people, I don’t believed that they don’t have fears. We are just humans and not robots, we had feelings and for sure we felt not most of the times but sometimes the fears on something. The only thing there is that, we should not make that fears of ours hinders our goals in life. We should not make that fears dominates us and ruins our life. We must put limitations on such things and we knew also that fears can be overcome depending on us.
**As what Aristotle said,** ***“ He who has overcome his fears will truly be free*****.”**
That’s it. HAPPY READING!
***"For my sponsors and those who upvoted my articles. I would like to say my deepest gratitude and happiness for you all since you always keep me inspired and motivated. Thank you so much. More blessings to all of us here. Love you all :) -*** @Janz
**Lead image were taken from google as well.**
What a day for Me
***Time check. It's 10:45PM*** *and I'm still floating. Haha, Yes. Floating since up until now I'm still thinking on what to write. Actually, I had an idea on what to write the only thing is that I don't know how to write it. I always had struggles on what to write first or shall I say the struggles on how to start my article. I guess, thinking on what to write first or how I should I start my article. I really wanted to publish one article per day. But, since there were times that my mind won't process at all and I just left my day without publishing article on that day.*
***Ohh no! I accidentally published this one even though I'm not yet done.***
*While making this article, I'm really so sleepy to the point that I able to tap the published button which supposedly I'm planning to just save this as drafts first and jus continue this tomorrow. But suddenly without noticing it, since I'm really sleepy I tap the publish button. Therefore, I had no choice but to just continue this instead.*
*So, so much for the chitchat. I need to continue this article now because I published this accidentally and it's just a 1-minute read*
So, for this article. I'm just gonna blog of what I did today because I still don't have any topic to write.
***Waking up at 4:00AM***
I able to woke up 4AM today but I stood up from bed at 4:30AM since my son as usual woke up early as well.
I did woke up that early because I was planning to do biking which I really did. I do biking every morning but for tomorrow I can't since I my menstruation is with me.
So, at exactly 5AM I started to go on biking. I did biking as well since I'm also planning to lose weight because I'm so big already. Lol Well in fact, I asked my partner to help me disciplined myself in eating. I asked him to refrain me if ever I eat to much of rice since I'm planning to have just 1-cup of rice in every meal up until my stomach can adjust to it then to no rice at all and I was planning to start my diet tomorrow. Hopefully, I'll be able to achieved it, to lose weight.
I did biking for almost an hour. I really wanted to go far but my knee won't cooperate. So after 30 minutes I already get back since I cannot endure already my knees.
It's really nice to bike since all the sweats will come out. But, for me I still need to practice more for my knees to be strong and then I could able tor ride much more longer.
***Washing of clothes***
When I arrived after biking, my partner cooked our breakfast, and while his cooking I also put white clothes in washing machine. Then, when my partner was done cooking. We then eat our breakfast.
So at 11AM, I'm done with washing our clothes.
***Taking a nap***
I really felt so tired with what I did, That's after washing clothes I then take a nap. At 3PM, were planning to go to a cemetery to visit the mother and father of my partner since today is also the birthday of my partner's mother.
***At evening***
So, after all of the things I did during the day. Still, during night also I'm still working up until 10PM. Since, as what I've shared in here, I worked online as an online English teacher. Therefore, I can be abele to somehow totally rest after all my classes done. But sometimes after my class, I still browse on my read.cash and even write an article, just like what I did now.
Which I said, that this article were supposedly published tomorrow.
So, that was it everyone. That's how I'm so busy today.
**How about you? Do you keep your day busy as well?**
Happy reading!
***"For my sponsors and those who upvoted my articles. I would like to say my deepest gratitude and happiness for you all since you always keep me inspired and motivated. Thank you so much. More blessings to all of us here. Love you all :) "*** @Janz
**All images were taken by me except the lead image which is taken from google.**
When my parents visited Us
26th of July 2021
*Last week, my parents were planning to visit us because they said they really missed their grandson. But that was postponed due to conflicts of time that's why yesterday they were here which supposedly the planned to be here last week. At 2PM yesterday, my mother chatted me that they're on their way here in my partner's place and I wasn't expecting it sin my mom chatted me the other day that they will come here supposedly today. Maybe they were really excited to see their grandson again since it was 4 months already when they last visit us here. That's why I was kind of excited as well when they chat me that they were already on their way here yesterday.*
***I don't know exactly what really the feeling of a having a grandson or a granddaughter, like the feeling of eagerness to see again your grandson since I'm not yet a grandma. But I really felt the excitement of my parents and their longingness to my son because I saw it in their actions and their faces when they sees my son yesterday.***
**So, I'm gonna share in this article today some happenings yesterday when they're here and as well as today.**
*So kindly fasten your seatbelt and let's start. Haha (kidding aside)*
**At 4PM yesterday, my parents arrived here.** That time were in the balcony with my kid. I really saw in my parents faces that they really missed my son that's why when they arrived they hugged my son immediately but my son won't let my mother hold him. That's why you can see in the picture the face of my son which signifies that he don't want to be hold by his Lola or grandma.
When they arrived, my son was so happy when he saw his Tito and Tita which are my younger siblings. My son automatically played along with my two siblings and my son were laughing and shouting while playing with them. He automatically recognizes them, that's why my son was so happy when he saw my two siblings.
My son also went to his Lolo/grandpa and his asking my grandpa to carry him. But when it comes to my mother, his grandma he won't really allow my mom to carry him and even my mom asking him to go to her, he really won't. That's why every time my mom carry him secretly, my son's face cannot be drawn. Haha
**My son at this time, were not tired playing along with my siblings up until night.** He runs, he laugh, he shouts, he ride his bike together with his Tito and Tita. My son was so happy and I can felt it that he also misses my younger siblings because when my son was still months old, start from he was born up until he became 1-year old, my younger siblings were the one looks for him too and play with him. That's maybe the reason why my son does not forget my siblings and every time he will saw them again he then recognizes them. I witnessed that yesterday because when my kid saw my younger siblings he smiled and the jumped as if he was really excited to play with them.
**Introducing my two younger siblings.** We are 6 siblings and I am the oldest. *(but of course baby face pa rin naman haha feeling)* These two in the picture were my younger siblings. The girl beside me is the youngest among us. We are the only girls among the six. The oldest and the youngest. So these two, were the one who played along with my kid and my kid as what I've said were very happy and my son was really enjoying playing along with them.
These two also, were the one who always asked my parents to come here because they also missed my son. Actually, I still have a brother who was being left at home. My mom said that, my brother who is the third next to me, also wanted to come here but since they have a horse that gave birth and a pig that needs to be feed. He wasn't able to come since he was in charged for it. But, he wanted to come with them since he also misses my kid but since he had no choice that's why he was left at home.
**So, at 9AM today.** My parents went home. I really wanted them to stay for one night but my mom said that they were being allowed to stay here one night as what the Brgy. Chairman said to them because of the arising numbers of COVID cases and of the new variant of the said virus.
This is also the limitations that this pandemic brought to us. It's just sad because everything gets affected, everything were limited. Just like the time that my son would spend together with his grandma and grandpa, his Tito and Tita.
**So, when my parents left my son really cried a lot.** He even shouted when he saw that the motorcycle were leaving. My son looked at them leaving while crying so loud, my partner were the one holding him. My son doesn't stop crying even though he can't see already the motorcycle of his grandpa. So, of course we did everything to make him calm and stop crying. In the end, he stop crying since he also drank his milk in his bottle. But, then if he remembers my parents leaving he will then cry even though his drinking his milk. His really sad because he don't have playmates since he likes it much when he played along with my siblings.
So, that was it. The moment were my parents together with my younger siblings visited us here yesterday. A moment that will be cherished forever.
~the end
***"For my sponsors and those who upvoted my articles. I would like to say my deepest gratitude and happiness for you all since you always keep me inspired and motivated. Thank you so much. More blessings to all of us here. Love you all :) " -*** @Janz
Spending our Time with our Kid
25th of July 2021
***"Good day fellas! How are you today? Hopefully you've start your day with a smile and begin to think positively as the days goes by. Have a great day ahead."***
Actually, this must supposed to be published yesterday because this happens yesterday. But since I felt so tired after everything we’ve done, I wasn’t able to make this and I just felt asleep immediately after my classes done.
Now, I’ll have it today instead. I’m just going to share what we’ve done yesterday together with our little boy. Since, we’ve been to a city yesterday. **Our first go out with my partner and my son.**
*Last week, we planned to go to a city to buy toys for our son and other things. Since, he will be claiming his scholarship stipend and he claimed it last friday as what I've mentioned also in my previous article. Furthermore, we really wanted to go out because were stuck here in the house and we wanted our son to explore as well. So, it's actually a double purpose roaming around in a department store while buying things and then to eat in a fastfood even just once in a blue moon. Haha* ***(Just once in a blue moon for now though because we still don't have enough money for it.)*** *That's why yesterday, we've been to a nearest city in our place. It's very enjoying since it's our first go out together with our son because usually we just go out together with my partner.*
**So here's what we've done yesterday.**
***As usual waking up early as 4AM***
I don't know maybe my son knows that we will go to a city because he really woke up that early. Of course, both I and my partner woke up as well. So, what I did was played a music in the computer while letting my son drank his milk in a bottle because every morning he wakes up he wanted to have his milk.
Then at 6AM I started to prepare our breakfast. After that, I take a bath first since I'm still going to a store to buy a diaper for my son since I don't have any stock of diaper because I already stop using it for him. I just used a diaper every time we travel and not using it when were just at home because my son is prone to rashes and he also notifies us every time he wanted to pee. So there's no need to used a diaper for my son everyday.
So, it was almost 9AM that we able to leave the house. Since we still don't have our own motorcycle, we just commute a motor cab going to the nearest city.
***First-off at J&F Department Store***
So, in this store we let our son to roam around and what we did was to put again the things that my son would grabbed. Yes, because he will get the things that he seems to be attracted with and sometimes just threw them all. So, we his parents were the one who will get back the things he gets and put it again to it's places.
We bought him toys. He chooses all the toys that we bought for him because everytime he likes the toy he will get and he never wants us to get it back from him. So, we thought he likes it much and that's why we just bought it for him.
We also bought a shoe for our son. So, for him to allow his father to put the shoes on him to find out if it suits him. We let him watch because he don't want to wear the shoes.
*See picture below.*
Another is that, we also bought a foam, play mat or puzzle mat and a pillow. Since, we just slept in the floor and the one that supports us from the coldness of the floor was only a cartoon and a mattress or "banig". ***(I don't know what's the right term. Pagpasensyahan na ang "coldness of the floor" hindi ko na alam ang term paano kasi hindi ako nakinig nito noon sa guro ko. 😅 Basta para hindi tatagos sa likod namin ang lamig na dala ng sahig.)*** So, that is why I really bought a foam and also a play mat in exchange of the cartoon were using.
***Next-off at NOVO***
Here in NOVO, we bought something like a toy vehicle for our son. I don't know what kind of toy vehicle is it. Since, his aunt which is my partner's sibling who also claimed her scholar stipend want us to buy it for our son and she gave us money for it. So, yes we of course bought a toy vehicle for our son and I felt that my son was really happy for it. He even ride it and roam around the store while riding it.
***Lunch time***
Of course. This won't be left behind. Haha. At almost 12PM, we did our lunch at "Mang Inasal". This was our first time also eating outside together with our son.
***Lastly, at Bohol Bike Shop***
It's one of our plan as well to buy a mountain bike. My partner asked me right before he claimed his stipend that he wanted to have a bike because he wants to lose weight specifically losing his belly since his gaining weight already mostly gaining more fats in his belly. So, of course I agreed on it as well since I myself need to lose weight as well and I also love to bike in the morning. So, we alternate days in biking since we only bought one bike. We don't have enough money for two bikes. Haha
After we bought all the things. At almost 3PM we rode home already and our son maybe were so tired since while we are riding home he fell asleep.
So, when we get home my son also woke up and his really happy I felt it because immediately he looked for his toys and played with it and his laughing while playing his toys. His really enjoying and my heart melts, our hearts melts to be exact when we see our son happy and excited playing along with his toys.
**So, that was our day yesterday. Even we felt tired after but looking with our son happy that he was able to go outside and enjoying his toys, all just fades away. It's really a fulfillment in our part as his parents especially in my part as his mother.**
Have a nice day readers!
***"For my sponsors and those who upvoted my articles. I would like to say my deepest gratitude and happiness for you all since you always keep me inspired and motivated. Thank you so much. More blessings to all of us here. Love you all :) " -*** @Janz
**All photos were taken and edited by yours truly.**
Hello. Good evening! I just want to welcome my cousin here @Proud-me . She just joined this platform today. Hopefully you’ll welcome her too. Aja!
Mother’s Duty: A day with my Son
23rd of July 2021
***"Good day fellas! How are you today? Hopefully you've start your day with a smile and begin to think positively as the days goes by. Have a great day ahead." Actually, this was a good eve already and have a good night. Hehe***
*Anyways, I don't have any idea on what to publish today. But since it's really an incomplete feeling for me if I can't able to write an article for today since this kind of thing already part of my daily routine which I really need to fulfill. So, for this article I'm just gonna shares what I did for today. Actually, I'm just in the house for the whole day but what's more pleasing and enjoyable to me for today is that I had a whole day playing around with little boy.*
***As a mother****, it is such a wonderful moment playing along with our son especially if we hear them laugh, smile at us and give us a kiss.*
So here's what I did for today.
**Woke up at 5AM.** Even if I really wanted to woke up late like at least 7AM but I really can't since my son really is an early bird. He woke up early, mostly 5AM and sometimes 4AM. Of course, if my son woke up already I and my partner woke up also. At 5AM my partner goes to a store to buy viand for our breakfast. Then, my partner did the cooking for what he usually does and I did fixed our pillow and blanket while my son is already watching a nursery rhymes. The at exactly 6AM we ate our breakfast already. Since today also, my partner will go to their school to get his scholarship stipend because today is his schedule together with his sister as well since they both were a scholar. That is why I'm the only one that will look after our son for the whole day today. I used that, I had with me my partner during the day that would helped me with our son and mostly his the one that will looked after our son since I had also a work to do during the day.
*My partner and his sister left the house at almost 9AM. So after they left, my attention were already in my son. And this time my moment with my son starts. hehe*
**My son's bath**. While my son were playing the water in the tub, I also washed our clothes. *(the power of multi-tasking hehe)* Yes, I did washed our clothes before I attend to my son's bath. I just let him play with the water first after I did all the white clothes soaked in the washing machine. Then, waited for 15 minutes for it to be done. Then, I followed the colored clothes. I soaked them all in the washing machine also. Then, while waiting for it I now attend to my son and finished his moment playing the water since his already playing it for 15 minutes. Then, I let him dry and after he takes his bath he asked me to get him some milk. So, while his drinking his milk in his bottle I left him in our room and I continue my clothes washing. The after his done with his milk, he went outside and looked at me washing the clothes. Since, he will attempt to play with the water again so I just let him go inside the room and I let him watched nursery rhymes. That's why I was able to finished washing our clothes. Then, after that when I wen to see my son in our room since I'm also done with what I did outside I saw him lying already. So, I get him some milk again and he drank his milk in his bottle while lying up until he fell asleep. He fell asleep at almost 10:30AM and then woke up at almost 1PM already.
**Cooking viand for lunch.** While my son was asleep, I also cooked already our viand so that when my son woke up his lunch were ready already. I just cooked an scrambled egg because that's my son's favorite. So, after eating our lunch my son were totally and super active. He played and grabbed every thing he saw and make it his toy.
**At 2:00PM.** I decided to turn back our computer so that it will served as TV since his asking again my cellphone to watch a nursery rhymes and since my phone was low battery so I just make used our computer to let him watched nursery rhymes. Then, I also able to relax since when my son is watching, he will just sit and watched seriously. He actually sit on my lap. Haha
Then, if he likes to dance he will dance as well at the same time he will sing if he sees someone is singing in the video.
Then, if he gets tired watching the videos. He will then grab my hands asking me to get his father's chess pieces and he will play with it. He will play it like what I showed in the picture. Then, he will asked me also to play with him. Of course, just so happy that I had to play along with my son.
So, that's what I did together with my little sunshine for today. Just a very fulfilling moment for me as a mother seeing my son exploring on things at the same time learning new things.
**That's it for today. Happy reading!**
~the end
***"For my sponsors and those who upvoted my articles. I would like to say my deepest gratitude and happiness for you all since you always keep me inspired and motivated. Thank you so much. More blessings to all of us here. Love you all :) " -*** @Janz
To sis @Bloghound thank you for renewing your sponsorhip to me. Very well appreciated. More blessings to come to you sis.
Reminiscing: When I was Kid
22nd of July 2021
***"Good day fellas! How are you today? Hopefully you've start your day with a smile and begin to think positively as the days goes by. Have a great day ahead."***
We have lots of challenges in the past days here in this platform and for sure we are having fun accepting the challenge by writing also our own version of that challenges. It's very interesting to write since we were able to know ourselves and to bring back the memories of us from the past.
Yesterday, I've read an article of Miss @bmjc98about her upcoming anniversary in this platform. To be exact she will celebrate her anniversary this coming August 6. Part of her celebration is that, she initiated another challenge and then she will randomly pick a lucky writers through a random generator and showers a giveaways for those who will be joining the said challenge.
The challenge was actually, **Getting To Know You More Challenge: When I Was A Kid.** https://read.cash/@bmjc98/getting-to-know-you-more-challenge-when-i-was-a-kid-6c5daa12
*Well, I'm not into the giveaways actually. Because I knew that I'm not so lucky in things like that. I had joined a lot of raffles before and I even bought many entries for me to have a lot of chances to win but sad to say I never won in that kind of raffles haha, I don't know why?* ***Maybe, Miss*** @bmjc98 ***is my lucky charm this time. Haha (charrooot parinig ahh hehe*****)**
*Actually, I joined the challenge and accepted it because I really love reminiscing my childhood memories. I want to know also if I still remember those times when I was still a kid that has no problems and never felt stress and still have the innocent look. Also, this kind of challenges saves me from thinking of what article should I write for today.*
So, enough for the chitchats. I've shared a lot already. Lol
**Let's start the challenge.**
**When I was a kid, I like playing around with my siblings.** I don't like playing with other kids before I just like playing around with my siblings. Since, I'm the eldest and I had two siblings next to me. Were actually like a consecutive siblings. I remember one time we played hide and seek inside the house and while playing that I carried with me my brother whose next to me in my shoulder and the other one will be the one to find us with his eyes covered by cloth. But while carrying my brother, I slipped andy brother fell since I was carrying him in my shoulder which was the reason also that my brother's joints in his elbow was dislocated and up until now it was not back to it's normal position that's why my brother's left arm was not straight. We called it ***"singkaw"*** in our term.
**When I was kid, I don't like going outside and interact with other kids.** Yes, you read it right. I'm really a shy type kid before. I don't know why. I had fear of interacting with others that's why I just chose to play around with my siblings. I again remember that there is this one man who always teased me every time he will saw me when I go to school and get home fr school. At first, I just cried when he teases me and then it came to the point that every time I saw him I just hide in my mother's back instead. But when I was high school, I'm not already a shy type girl that was only when I was a kid.
**When I was a kid, I used to play "bahay-bahayan" with my siblings.**
We lived in a mountain when I was still a kid since my father is a farmer and we had rice fields there. So, in the mountain I and my two siblings next to me were usually playing ***"bahay-bahayan***". We used to gather leaves and woods then make a little house out of it. I even artificially cooked a leaves specifically a banana leaf and I just cooked it but of course without fire because my mom won't allow us to used match sticks or anything that produces fire. Then we used to do a role-play, I'll be the mother and my siblings were act as my sons. That was just an amazing memories though.
**When I was a kid, I tried smoking using a paper or a leaf.** This was due to curiosity because I've seen many people smoking and I was curious of what the smoke taste. Haha That is why, I tried the paper or a leaf. I formed them into like a cigarette form and then put fire on the tip of it then tried smoking. I even hide when I've done this because I'm afraid my mom or my father would caught me and they will scold me.
**When I was a kid, I like seeing myself with my hair was being fixed in a sleek ponytail style**.
Since I had a long hair before, my mom will always fixed my hair in a sleek type ponytail and I really like it when my hair was fixed that way. I felt I was cute. Haha
**When I was kid, I used to play with the waves in the seashore every time we go for a swim.**
Yes, I love playing with the waves before. That was actually my favorite part when we go for a swim in the sea. I even felt so excited everytime the waves were approaching already in the seashore then I will run back for the waves not to catch me. Haha I think I put a life already on the waves in this part. Haha
So, I guess that was all the things that I remembered when I was still a kid. I know that there are still lots of things that I usually did before but I can't remember the other things already. All that I shared above about my kid's life are those things that I still clearly remembered up until now.
**NOW,** I want to challenge my co-bch beauties here to participate this challenge as well. But of course, this is not a compulsory though, if you just want to share also your childhood memories. Then feel free to do the challenge as well. @renren16@Yzza0625 @MissJo@Marinov@ThisisGrace21 @JRamona20 and of course I won't forget you, @Zhyne06. Haha ***(Gora na mga beauties.)***
If you will join the challenge then here's the rule:
Tag in your article Miss @bmjc98
Link in to your article the article of Miss bmjc98 about **"Getting To Know You More Challenge: When I was a kid"**. Here's the link of that said article, https://read.cash/@bmjc98/getting-to-know-you-more-challenge-when-i-was-a-kid-6c5daa12
Comment down your article link to this article of Miss bmjc98. https://read.cash/@bmjc98/16-days-before-my-1st-year-anniversary-on-my-first-bch-platform-ever-52fd13ce
***So, that's the rules.*** *For those haven't mention you can also join the said challenge* *freely.*
That's it.
Happy Thursday everyone!
***"For my sponsors and those who upvoted my articles. I would like to say my deepest gratitude and happiness for you all since you always keep me inspired and motivated. Thank you so much. More blessings to all of us here. Love you all :) " - Janz***
**Lead image:** taken from Unsplash
Foods that I missed Eating
21st of July
***"Good day fellas! How are you today? Hopefully you've start your day with a smile and begin to think positively as the days goes by. Have a great day ahead."***
*Actually, I was planning to make this article yesterday after my class but sad thing after my class at 10PM there's power interruption that's why I wasn't able to make this article. Then, today since I'm done washing our clothes I now can able to make this because I really felt sad if I can't publish article for a day. But because of my busy days sometimes I can't able to publish an article which I really wanted to. Another thing is that, aside from my busy days, I'm also a full time mom and due to that my mind were being occupied which leads me to not also know on what to write. As in, I'm totally blank.*
*Well, I just share my thoughts though but this has nothing to do with this article haha. I just really need to share what I feel and I don't think there's something wrong with it.* ***Just Love no Hate.***
*Okay, so much for that.*
Do you missed eating some foods nowadays especially those foods that you usually eat before?
Well, I really felt this feeling right now. I really wanted those foods that I tried eating before but I just can't.
**I can't because of the limitations that this pandemic brought to us.**
**I can't because there are much more important of buying than buying the foods I wanted to eat.**
**I can't because the foods that I missed eating isn't available in my area.**
**I can't because I don't have time to go to the city just to have the food that I wanted to eat.**
***And lastly, the truth is....***
**I can't because I don't have enough money to buy for it and if I have money I just bought what my son's needs and just disregards my wants. Since, what's important for me now is my SON that I can able to provide everything he needs.**
**But I just want to share the foods that I really missed eating nowadays.**
SIOMAI
When I was still in college, I always eat this siomai every time we are going to the canteen. This was one of my favorite snack and I really loved the taste of this. Actually, I love all the flavors of siomai. Also, when my board mate before also became my Instructor in Math. When he asked me to go with him to buy things he need and goods he wants, we always go to a siomai snack house to eat this said food. I just really missed eating this, since it's been a year that I haven't taste this again.
DUNKIN' DONUTS
I remember the last time I ate this one was 2019 when I was one of the participants of our school to attend the Annual Regional Congress of Student Teachers in Tacloban City. I bought one box of donuts before we left the city. This is also one of the food that I'm craving for now. Since I also love sweets. ***Sana may magbibigay sa akin ng donut dito, haha. Ano na my cousin*** @MissJo**. Lol**
PORK SISIG/ SIZZLING SISIG
Before, when I was in college every time I go to a department store *(Gaisano to be exact)* to buy something. I always went to a certain restaurant within Gaisano, it's restaurant name is ***"May Abohan"*** if I got hungry. The food that I always ordered are sizzlers specifically the "pork sisig". It really taste good for me. ***Sa totoo nga kulang lang yung isang order ng sisig ehhh, hahahah takaw ko kasi kaya nahahalata sa katawan. Lol***
MILK TEA and ICED COFFEE
Actually this two, milk tea and iced coffee are drinks but I just include this two because I also missed both of this.
I always wanted to drink milk tea especially if there's an ice cream on top of it since as I've said I really love sweets. It's been also a while that I haven't tasted this two drinks. Before when I ate in a fast food I always ordered a milk tea since it's my favorite too. I felt like my meal isn't complete without it.
Actually, I had lot of memories on the iced tea. Memories together with @Zhyne06. ***Diba, gurl?*** I and Flor, always made an iced tea if were wanted to drank it before when we were still staying in a boarding house since were also a board mate. We just bought a Nescafe creamy latte and put an ice on it. Then that's it, we already had the iced coffee. This is just easy to make, but I just don't feel it making maybe in some time I will try I just bought a coffee and put an ice on it. Haha
CASSAVA CAKE
It's been also a long time that I haven't eaten a cassava cake. Actually there were cassava cake in the market but I just seldom bought it or even never bought it because I don't know who prepared it and how it was being prepared. So, even I'm craving for it I just chose not to buy it from somewhere and from someone.
My grandma knows how to made this, that's why I just missed her cassava cake because before she always made this one since she had lots of cassava plants before.
FAST FOODS
Actually, these are available here near in my area but as what I've said also I don't have enough money for this kind of foods. Maybe if bch will pump to it's higher value then I never hesitates to buy this kind of foods haha.
I just remember, before specifically June 2019. I was one that was sent to my school were I worked for to Cebu City to attend a three-days seminar and my breakfast and dinner always had this foods since we always ate in a fast food because were also afraid to eat in a ***"karinderya"*** since were not familiar with the place. So we just prefer to eat in a fast food restaurants. I just missed those times also.
BIKO
It's also been a while that I haven't eat this "biko" or black sweet rice. Haha I'm not sure if it's the term of it in English.
I missed the biko of my mother. I've eaten a lot of biko which made by someone else but my favorite of all is my mother's version biko. I don't know there's something in my mom's biko that I really loved the most and it's been a while that I haven't tasted that.
So, that's it fellas. Those are the foods the I just missed eating nowadays and I'm totally craving all of this. But as what I've said also, I still don't have enough money for all of this. Lol Maybe one of this days.
***So, how about you? What are those foods that you missed eating nowadays and your craving for it?*** *(Let's talk about that in the comment section.)*
Have a nice day!
~the end
@Janz
**All images were taken from google including the lead image.**
Dig a Little Deeper
19th of July 2021
***"Good day fellas! How are you today? Hopefully you've start your day with a smile and begin to think positively as the days goes by. Have a great day ahead."***
This past few days, there are lots of articles about challenges and I myself were also publishing that kind of articles as well. I accepted the ***Never have I ever challenge***, ***Would you rather challenge*** and ***This and That challenge.*** I am really having fun doing that said articles because it reminisced my past and then I just came to end up laughing to some of the memories of me. Also, I able to shares my playful side and naughty side as well lol. So, that challenges really are fun for me.
**But for this time in this article**, I wanted to share a little more deeper side about me. So, there were random questions also that I found in google that's something like a deep questions that helps me find of what are those best things of myself.
I chose my questions through this link. https://www.pinterest.ph/pin/708120741412256330/?fbclid=IwAR2LG5CCuZH2sppEyNdaUZ74Vp9GLXkSIks37E_lJK2StdT2O18T8heNrSc
**So here it is.**
Am I having fun?
**Of course.** I am really having fun nowadays especially that I had my son that always makes me smile every time I felt stressed out. I'm having fun despites so many uncertainties that this pandemic brought us. I'm having fun with my little family especially with my son. I'm having fun here in read.cash writing and reading articles especially from the fact that I'm earning from this site. Well, I even felt happy in just simple things. With that simple things, I always have fun with all of that. But since were just humans, the fact there is not all the time were having fun. At least, in the end of the day we can able to reflect from it and translate that into happiness for us to be stress free at the same time.
What do I love about myself and my life?
**To be honest, what I really love the most about myself is that I never stop reaching my goals in life.**
When I graduated college, I had along with me a trophy. Do you know what I mean? A baby. Yes, I got pregnant already 3 months before I graduated. With that, I cannot avoid those people who talks about disappointments because why did I got pregnant easily. What will happen to my family? How will I able to find a job immediately? Others even say that, what's wrong with me, why did I allow myself to be pregnant that easily not thinking about my family who suffers a lot just to provide my studies? Things like that really upsets me and I feel very disappointed of myself every time I heard that from other people. But, I just convinced myself to just ignored all what they said because even my family, my parents never said things like that to me. How come others can easily said that, why do care so much about in fact it's not their lives though.
So, what I did is that. I talked to myself that, as long as I'm still alive I still can able to reach all my goals in life. My life doesn't stop when I got pregnant, where in fact that happening made me who I am now. A woman with strong determination to continue living and making dreams come true and in the end I'm still hoping that I can somehow repay my parents for their goodness. Well, they never asked that to me, it's just my way thanking them for giving me life and allowing me to see the world and it's my job as their daughter. Also, I love to see them smiling as well.
What am I grateful for?
**Aside from being grateful for the gift of life. I am now also grateful with gift of having a son.** I'm really and totally grateful when my son came into my life. Why? Because my son now is one of my happiness and when I felt the negativities I just looked at my son and everything will be fine especially if my son play along with me ang laugh at me. I really felt my hearts melting every time my son laugh and smiles at me. That's one of the reason why I'm grateful to have him. Another is that, having a son really changes me a lot. He changes my perspective in life and he made me more responsible and determined in life. Having a son is really a fulfilling moment for me and I'm so grateful for that.
Who are the people in my life who make me happy and loved.
I wouldn't be in this world without my family specifically **my parents.** So they're one of the reasons why I'm happy and why I felt being loved. Of course, my parent's love are unconditional and I really love that fact since I also felt giving that kind of love to my own son. **My siblings** made me happy and loved a s well, I always wanted them to be successful in their lives because I wanted them to not feel the hardship in life. **My grandma**, she's one also that made felt the love because she always took care of me especially if I got sick.
**My little family and my own family** were also the one that makes me happy and loved all the time. They're my strength and my hopes every time I'm sad and feel weary. I'm more motivated because of them more especially seeing my son grows older. They loved me as well and that's the best feeling for me. Being loved by the people whom I also loved.
Do I have positive mindset?
Well, I must say that not all the time I'm positive because sometimes especially if I'm experiencing troubles in my attitudes because sometimes I just felt lonely and thought of negative things out of nowhere. Then every time I felt that way, I'm just so thankful as well that my partner will always reminds me that I am being negative again and with that I will realized that I really am. So, I really tried to alter my negative thoughts into positive ones. But most of times, I will look into the positive sides because it's very stressful and we won't feel the happiness in this world if we always thought on negative things.
So, that's it everyone some deep questions about myself and my life. I guess I'm just going to shares five questions so that you won't feel bored reading this article hehe.
**Now, to the BCH beauties here** @Zhyne06, @renren16, @MissJo, @Marinov, @JRamona20 you can also try this one beauties. Another challenge for you all and another article for you *para hindi na kayo mag isip anong article ang i-publish niyo. Try nyo rin to,* then you can use same questions as mine or you may choose another questions to answer through this link https://www.pinterest.ph/pin/708120741412256330/?fbclid=IwAR2LG5CCuZH2sppEyNdaUZ74Vp9GLXkSIks37E_lJK2StdT2O18T8heNrSc or you can make your own questions as well. **Aja!**
Happy Monday, readers!
~the end
@Janz
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What would it be?
17th of July 2021
***"Good day fellas! How are you today? Hopefully you've start your day with a smile and begin to think positively as the days goes by. Have a great day ahead."***
**Another challenge unlocked**. For this article, I'm going to participate in the challenge that are also trending up until now. It was actually the other day that I was being tagged to do this challenge by @Zhyne06 and was also asked to do this as well by my newly virtual friend @mommykim. *(Hello there mamshie, here's my entry to this trending challenge. lol)*
**So here it is. Let's go!**
By the way, I generate my This and That Question through this link. 👇
https://lifehacks.io/this-or-that-questions/
This and That Challenge (A fast talk to myself)
**Online shopping**. I prefer buying online especially in this pandemic time. It's more convenient and hassle free. Aside from that, it helps me lessen the possibility to get infected by the virus that is very crucial nowadays.
**TV Shows**. I'm fond of watching tv shows nowadays than watching a movie especially comedy shows on tv and singing contest shows. Well in fact, ***KMJS (Kapuso Mo Jessica Soho)*** is what I'm always watching this past weeks.
Of course **Money**. Lol
I'll be honest, money really is important also especially that we had facing this crisis now because if we don't have money I don't think we could able to provide the needs of our tummy. We even worked hard for it.
**Singing**. But actually, it's both because I also love dancing. In fact, when I was in my high school days I always joined in dancing presentations ang always present a dance entry every time our school had programs.
**Snow**. Since I always experienced what it feels when it's raining then I wanted also to know what it feels when having a snow.
**Comedy**. Well, I also watched horror movies but I prefer comedy as always. Since, it somehow takes away my stressful days.
**Cake**. I really love cakes especially chocolate cake. I do eat cookies as well but it's not like cake that I really do love eating. In fact, I wanted to learn how to bake a cake so that if ever I craving for it I will just automatically make or bake a cake.
**Pop music.** But what I really like the most is an old music like 80's to 90's music since it's very pleasing to hear and I love it.
**Hot chocolate.** I always prefer a chocolate since I do really love sweets. I like coffee as well but if there's a chocolate in a choices then I'd rather always choose the chocolate.
**Call**. I love answering calls especially if it's from someone you love. (charoot) But if this refers on the situation that android phones were not yet that famous unlike today. Then, I prefer text messaging instead of calls.
**Money**. I'll be practical money is what we need today. Hahaha But of course, Love is a very beautiful feeling too. It's an amazing feeling especially if we are being loved by the person we love as well. So, therefore it's much more better to have both Love and Money.
Because, what is the value of money if love isn't present within you. Like you don't have to give love and you weren't being loved by the people that surrounds you. Then that's so sad, right?
**Dog**. I love dogs and I hate cats. I don't know I just don't like seeing the cat's eye I felt a goosebumps every time I see the eye of the cat.
Of course it's a **CAR**. In fact, that's my dream and my partner's dream as well to own a car someday. In God's will.
Well, it's good to choose both. But I'll prefer **FAMILY**. Because, whatever it takes in us our family is always there for us no matter what.
**Being too warm**. It's much more better than being too cold because being too cold make you look strict and it's hard to have friend if ever were too cold.
For an additional, just want to share as well. It's kind of a naughty question. So, for 18 years old below you need parental guidance for this.
**Sex or chocolate**
Even though I love chocolate, but when it's paired with sex. Then, I'll choose sex instead. Haha
Sex is a stress reliever too and we always felt stress so sex is one way to release the stress. Haha Right, gurl @Zhyne06?
So, that's it for the challenge. I now shares my point of views and my thoughts on it based on what I like and what I felt right for me.
Hopefully you'd enjoyed about some facts on me. Just disregard the naughty questions though. Just don't mind that as well.
Happy reading !
@Janz
My lovely sponsors, thank you as always. You always keep me on track. God bless all of you! Along as well, with those who always upvoted my articles. Thank you, Thank you.
Have a great day.
Before this day ends I just want to send my gratitude and deepest thanks to @Panky for renewing the sponsorship. Thank you, Thank you so much. God bless!
Read.cash, truly is a blessing
16th of July 2021
***"Good day fellas! How are you today? Hopefully you've start your day with a smile and begin to think positively as the days goes by. Have a great day ahead."***
**Time check, 12:55 midnight.** And yet I’m still awake. Why? Because my son woke up at 11:00pm crying and his still awakes up until this time. My partner and I just even exchanging in carrying him just to let him sleep again but he didn’t want to sleep instead he just cried and cried. So, what I did I just let him watch cocomelon instead just to stop crying and wait until he felt sleepy. Of course I need to watch him, that is why I’m not yet sleeping as well.
So for me also not to waste my time, I’d rather write an article and I’m gonna share in this article how blessed I am to meet this platform read.cash.
Let’s begin . . .
Read.cash - this is a site and a platform where we can able to write anything and publish our writings then earn bch from it. It is a legit earning site that allows us to earn bch and convert that into peso.
But before this said platform comes to my life, I had already joined lot of sites saying that it also pays real money. I installed a lot of applications with the thought of earning from it. I joined a lot of chatbots even though it requires a capital or investments. I still even risks for it because I am very frustrated to earn knowing that we are in the middle of this pandemic and I need to provide my son financially. With that, I also scammed many times and lost my investments, my effort and my time wasting it in the sites, applications and chatbots that don’t really give a penny. If ever it really gives an earning, it is also difficult to earn easily from it.
Until such time that this read.cash was being introduced to me by my friend @Zhyne06. This is the only site that I really earned a lot. Actually not to brag, I already earn more or less 13,000 pesos or that’s approximately $259 but since I already used and withdraw more of my earnings here I only have 6,000 pesos plus or $119 in my wallet as of now. But of course, I also knew that a lot of users here in this platform already earn more than what I earn in here.
Knowing that I earned already in that amount and still it’s in counting for already staying here in 4 months excluding the months for not being active here. So that earnings of mine, I guess for being active only for more or less 2 months as a 4-month user which I really regretted the time that I stopped because if only I was being active in that 4months probably I already earn more than 13,000 pesos already as of now. But of course, I’m still happy that I was enlighten and get myself back on track here and now still earning.
Read.cash showers me a lot of blessings
With my earnings here in read.cash, I was so blessed that I had earned at least a passive income from this platform because my earnings here serves as my back up every time I struggled on finances knowing that I had a son that needs me financially. I actually worked as online teacher but my my service fee in that wasn’t enough for me to sustain our needs especially my son’s need. So that is why I withdraw my earnings here. I really wanted to hodl bch faster but I can’t because most of the times I withdraw it. Still, of course I’m hoping that I still can hodl at least 1bch because I felt secure already if I can able to hodl that amount since I believe that one day bch will change my life and it will pump to it’s highest possible value.
Read.cash opens my mind in the crypto world
Of course since read.cash allows us to earn in bch and bch or bitcoin cash is one of the crytocurrency this said platform really opens my mind on how cryptocurrency works. With this platform as well, I learned a lot about crypto currencies from other users in this platform who shares their expertise and published articles about the world of crypto. With that as well, I was able to learned from it and I was amazed how crypto evolves especially bch.
Read.cash blessed me with virtual friends
Staying here in read.cash I able to have some virtual friends by simply interacting with them. This said platform isn’t just publishing articles and earning from it but it also allows us to meet new friends from different places and even from outside our country. It’s just so overwhelming as well knowing that we had known some virtual friends by being here in this platform.
Read.cash gives us learnings
Yes, by reading other users articles we will able to learn from their life experiences, we can able to reflect on their POV (point of view). This is also one thing that keeps me here aside from the earnings because I love to learn from others experiences as well because if ever their experienced happens to me I will already knew on what to do if ever it comes to me.
That is how this read.cash brought blessings to me especially in this time of pandemic.
Thankfully, that I was able earn extra income because of this and everyday learned different learnings, reflects on different views of the users/writers from this platform.
Long live read.cash as well as the people behind this platform.
*Actually, I was writing this one last night when my kid was not yet sleeping but I wasn’t able to publish this one because at 1:45AM my son got tired watching already and he just slept by his own. So, I also sleep when my son was already sleeping. And I will not edit my introduction too I just shared that as well.*
~the end
**Happy reading everyone!**
@Janz
Would you rather be?
15th of July 2021
***"Good day fellas! How are you today? Hopefully you've start your day with a smile and begin to think positively as the days goes by. Have a great day ahead."***
*Well, I'm just done with my online demo today. Yesterday, I received a phone call from the company that I applied for and did an interview because I'm applying for another online teaching job. Since, I passed the interview yesterday that's why I had my demo class today. Hopefully I'll pass the demo so that I can have another source of income this time of pandemic.* ***(Anyway, I'm just sharing my day today but this has nothing to do with my topic. So, just never mind this one.)***
Would you rather be?
Yesterday, I was challenge by @Zhyne06 to take part also on this would you rather be questions and since until now I still don't have any topic to write so I'm just gonna share my thoughts also on this challenge. So, for this challenge I generated my questions from the random generator again. Just like what I did also in my previous article entitled **Random Questions: A fun to answer****.** https://randomwordgenerator.com/would-you-rather-question.php https://read.cash/@Janz/random-questions-a-fun-to-answer-6d0bddda
***Disclaimer:*** *I will try to use tagLish (tagalog-English language) in this article. Hopefully you will read this up until the end.*
So, let's go...
Would you rather have long hair growing out of your nose or long hair growing out of your ears?
Parang nakakakiliti naman ito kahit sa anong part sa ears or sa nose. Haha But I guess I would rather have long hair growing out of my nose kasi naman pag sa ears parang peculiar siya. So, if ever it became long in my nose I will rather cut it instead. Haha. So simple.
Would you rather not have knees or not have elbows?
I guess I would rather not have the two of this. Haha It seems like I'll be a PWD (person with disability) if ever. So, I will not choose of this two, instead I would rather have both knees and elbows so that I can move freely.
Would you rather not be able to speak or not be able to read?
I would rather not be able to read. Because if I can't read at least I could still speak. Unless of I can't speak, then how can I read loudly. Diba? Parang lovelife lang minsan complicated. Haha
Would you rather watch a movie theater by yourself or with friends but as the third wheel?
Well, watching a movie by yourself is boring for me. So, I'd rather watch it with a friend and I don't care if I'm just a third wheel. (Bahala kayo diyan hahaha) All I care is to watch movie theater with at least having accompany and not to feel bored watching it alone.
Would rather be a God in an isolated island or an average person in the world?
To be a God is tempting because you can do whatever you wanted to do but in an isolated island it's quite lonely though. So, I would be an average person in the world at least I could make friends, I could meet people, loved and be loved by someone, and do crazy things with people.
Would rather wear all second-hand clothes or all designer clothes?
If only I was born with gold spoon in my mouth then I would rather wear those designer clothes because I can for sure afford that kind of clothes. But sad to say, I'm just an average person that can eat 3-times a day so I will just second-hand clothes. Well, it's still a clothes you know, what's important is to have a clothes to wear. Depende na lang yan kung paano dalhin sa nagsusuot.
Would rather have five feet or five hands?
I imagined myself having five hands or five feet, natawa ako kasi both are so weird for me hahaha. But still I would rather choose having five hands instead of having five feet. At least with five hands, I can able to grab and hold five things at the smae time than having five feet it's quite difficult to walk. Haha
Would you rather never be able to take a shower again or never be able to take a bath again?
Parang confusing to for me. lol, Is taking a shower not taking a bath? But I know that taking a bath is not taking a shower, but the other way around I guess it's just the same. haha Naguluhan ako rito, bahala na kayo umintindi. Haha
Would you rather have the power to fall asleep on command or have the power to wake up on command?
Pwede both. Hehe Para kasing unfair pag isa lang dapat both have command. Same as both of you, you must have similarities in some way. Haha Parang hindi related sa tanong. Kayo na mag judge nito, guys. lol
**Would you rather have constantly chapped lips or constantly stuffed nose?**
Well, I would rather have constantly chapped lips than have stuffed nose. Because having stuffed nose were so hassle and for sure irritating. Unlike chapped lips, I could just put something like in it to make my lips flawless.
***So, that's it. I had 10 random would rather be questions from the random generator. I really had fun writing this one. You can also try this one if you had nothing to write as well. Aja!***
~the end
That's it readers, hopefully you'd enjoy reading this one. Have a nice day!
@Janz
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Random Questions: A fun to answer
14th of July 2021
***"Good day fellas! How are you today? Hopefully you've start your day with a smile and begin to think positively as the days goes by. Have a great day ahead."***
A day passed, it was yesterday and up until today I don't have any idea on what to write. My mind isn't working well this past few days. I've been challenge by @Zhyne06 on the "Would you rather questions" today but I planned to do the challenge tomorrow if I will not be busy tomorrow. For now, so that I can be able to publish today because yesterday I wasn't able to write an article because my brain really stops working *(not literally though, it's just that I haven't thought of any)* and now I will try to answer some questions given to me by the random generator. https://randomwordgenerator.com/question.php
**I find it fun, so allow me to try this one. Let's go!**
What's your biggest world problem?
Well, knowing what we are facing nowadays I must admit that the first world problem that I knew and encountered in my 23 years of existence is the pandemic we had facing today due to COVID. This said problem really brought chaos in the world today. It brought a lot of uncertainties including finding a job. It affects many things in our lives specifically our health. Hopefully this pandemic will end soon since it already brought crisis to the world expecially to us people.
What's your definition of success? Has it changed over time?
**SUCCESS.** For me, it's when I already reach all my goals in life. I had goals towards myself,towards my family and to my own family. If all of that goals will already in my hand then that's definitely a success for me. If it changed over time, then maybe in some ways it changed depending on the situations and depending on what the time brought for me because we cannot predict the future as well so maybe as time goes by there will be changes of my definition of success and that changes of course starts from my goals. So, my goal was changed and so the success that I've been defining.
What bad decision did you make that actually turned out to be a good decision?
Honestly, in this question I'm really thinking deep if I made such bad decisions and then turned out to be a good one. I tried to open and browsed in my memory storage but I didn't found one. (haha) Maybe I didn't made such decisions or maybe I made bad decisions but never turns to be a good one.
***How about you? Maybe you had this kind of decision****. Feel free to comment it down and I'll be happy to learn it from you.*
If you knew you could live forever, how would you spend your days differently?
First and foremost, I will definitely work harder for me to have money because if I live forever then I need more and more money in my pocket to live the extravagant lifestyle forever. Then, if I had enough money already I will surely tour around the world without missing out any country. But of course, to live forever for me is a very tiring moment and a hurting moment as well. Hurting, the fact that if you live forever then expect that your loved ones will passed away, every person you loved will left you at the end of their existence and you living forever will surely be left behind again and again. So, this kinda' sad. Yes, you will have everything in this world but knowing that your loved ones will left you in the end is a heartbreaking part of your life and you will able to witness that moment repetitively.
What do you find is the most boring part of your life at the moment?
Well, as of the moment I don't really feel bored because I'm quite busy also. I had online teaching job and during the day my time also spent with my son ad it's not boring at all. If I don't have nothing to do as well for me not to be bored I browsed my social medias and of course browsing and writing here in read.cash which is very enjoying to do.
What's something that you believe you'll never be able to do well?
I guess as of the moment too, It's speaking fluently in English. (haha) I really do believed in myself that I could able to speak fluently in English without any grammatical errors but when I'm already talking the language it's quite difficult for me to do so especially if I was being asked in like an interview set up. But of course, this thing can be learn as well, nothing can't be done well if we're working for it to be done well. Am I right?
What's something in your fridge right now that should probably be thrown out?
We don't have fridge, so there's nothing in it to be thrown out because we don't have a fridge in the first place. (haha) But if ever I had or we had a fridge, then for sure there's nothing in the fridge that can be thrown out because I will make sure that everything in it can be consumed. I don't want to thrown away foods or whatever it's inside the fridge knowing that there are many people out there had nothing to eat.
What's the embarassing story that your parents used to tell other about you?
I guess the embarassing story of me that my parents especially my mon used to tell others is that, when I was 1 year old, my mom said that I used to touch and make circle the poop of my brother. (haha) Yes, I did that and when I heard that every time my mom told that to others I really felt embarassed and it's kind of awkward for me. Good thing I didn't eat the poop of my brother because if ever, that would be the worst embarassment I had. (lol)
So, that's it. 8 random questions from the random question generator. This really is fun and actually while I'm writing this one I felt like I was being asked in a pageant and for sure I'll win. *(haha kidding aside, but we don't know maybe)*
**So, how about you? If you don't have anything to write then you can also try this one. It's fun as well and at the same time you will be remembering some past memories of you.**
If you want to try then you can generate questions through this link here. https://randomwordgenerator.com/question.php
***Have a nice day ahead! Happy reading!***
~the end
@Janz
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Let me try: Never have I ever
12th of July 2021
***"Good morning fellas! How are you today? Hopefully you've start your day with a smile and begin to think positively as the days goes by. Have a great day ahead."***
NEVER HAVE I EVER
As I've browsed my timeline here all I can see and read are their ***Never have I ever*** entries which is very enjoying to read the fact that I will be able to know the other sides of the other writers. And now, I'm also going to accept the challenge since I was already challenge two times by other users here to shares as well my thoughts on this.
Of course, I am really happy to accept it because aside from it gives me idea on what to write. I also finds it very interesting and I want to shares my other sides as well and you will somehow know the things you don't know about me.
*Most of the writers that accepted the said challenge used the random word generator to generates random questions.*
*They used this link* *https://randomwordgenerator.com/never-have-i-ever-question.php* *. You can also used that link if you wanted to try the challenge.*
*But in my case, I just searched on google the different questions of Never I have ever then picked 15 random questions from it. Yes, it's 15 questions because I wanted to share more about myself. You can also picked some questions from the source where I able to get the questions that I am going to share in this article.*
*You may also checked my source of questions* *here.* https://www.teenvogue.com/story/never-have-i-ever-questions
Now, let's start.
**Never have I ever gone on a blind date**
**I have never**. Why? Because I'm afraid of a blind date. (haha lol) I am even a snobber before so what would I even go on a blind date. The most fear of me if I did this is that I don't know what to say if ever I met someone on that kind of date. Also, I am not really into this kind of thing before.
**Never have I ever creeped an ex on social media**
**I have never**. I don't care of my ex already after breaks up. So, why would I creeped right? It will just a waste of my time if I do so. I don't even beg on my exes to come back to me because I felt I'm losing my dignity if I did that. Also, I don't want to beg for love as well. This is just my POV though.
**Never have I ever been hungover**
**I have**. Well, this was just one time when I drank too much becasuse of heartaches. (haha) Because I thought I will able to forget the heartaches when I get drunk and if I woke up in the morning but I was wrong. Instead, I suffers hungover when I gets up in the morning. That's after that, I never let myself drown to alcohol. I drink but I don't drink those hard liqours. I just drinks beer instead like an apple beer and it's just one bottle. Then, I'm already enough with that.
**Never have I ever read an entire book in a day**
**I have never**. I'm not even fond on reading before. But I read novels though, and one book of that can't be finished by just one day. Mostly, I could able to finished it for two days but not in a day. The only thing I can finished reading now in a day is by reading articles here. Haha If you'd asked me how many articles I've read in a day in this platform. Well, it's more or less 10 articles if my day isn't busy.
**Never have I ever worn something I took out of my dirty laundry**
**I have**. Maybe not now but before especially if I don't have any clothes to wear and all are used specifically when I'm still staying in a boarding house when I was in college. I tend to wear clothes out from my dirty laundry but mostly are shorts and not the shirts.
**Never have I ever stolen anything**
**I have.** Well, don't get me wrong. It was before when I was a kid. I always get tempted to stole some penny from my mother to buy something to eat like candies, junkfoods. But it was jus a peso coin, and the biggest penny that I stole from my mother before were only 5 pesos because I'm scared if my mom caught me stolen bigger penny. And of course, if just a coins it was unnoticeable. But this was before okay, I change already. I stole much bigger mostly paper bill hahaha just kidding. I'm afraid my son would do this to me too, you know. That's why I regretted of why I did that before, maybe because my mom won't gave me.
**Never have I ever pretended to be sick to get out school**
**I have**. (lol) I admit I really did this most of the times before when I was in my 2nd year college especially those times that I sill not styaed on a boarding house. I will tell my mom that I'm not feeling well even though I just want to skip school. Because that time I really get tired of going home on lunch time then my afternoon class starts at 2:30. So, what I did for me not to get back to school is to do this alibi to my mother. Am I bad? HAHA
**Never have I ever cheated on**
Well, for this I don't know. Because there are different definitions of cheating. Cheating on what? Right? But if you'd asked me if I was being cheated by my partner now. Well, I must say not yet. Haha Hopefully not because if ever I will surely burried the other girl together with my partner. Haha Am I too harsh? Because as far as I know I'm not worth cheated on. (jemmss)
**Never have I ever used a dating app**
**I have.** Well, to tell you the truth when my lovelife were still boring before especially those times that I did broke up with my ex. The time when I was in my 2nd year college because when I was 3rd year I already met my partner now. Before when I didn't have someone to talk intimately I really had many dating apps in my phone. Right gurl @Zhyne06 you know this one. We even argued on someone right gurl? If you still remember, we fought on someone through whatsapp because of his rudeness. HAHA
**Never have I ever cheated on a test**
**I have.** Why would I not cheat on a test if the test requires the deifinition of the term and the terms are not common though and also it's definitions were long. OMG! What would I answer though. haha Well, it's not me cheating that test, I guess all of us my classmates cheated that test because we never expected the questions. We required to make a table for it and include there the definitions of the terms, it's uses and where it was originated. The fact that the definitions are not just one sentence but I guess it's a paragraph already also it's uses. So, what we did, we cheated that test for us to have answer. I guess our instructor that time knows that we cheated the test because we just put our notebooks on the floor.
**Never have I ever told my parents I was staying at friend's house but was really somewhere else**
**I have never.** I never done this to my parents because I'm not also fond on going somewhere else. I just prefer to stay at home and sleep than going somewhere.
**Never have I ever told someone "I love you" without meaning it**
**I have never**. Because for me this words "I love you" had a deeper meaning and I don't want to play this words because I'm afraid that it will just bounce back to me. So, every time I utter this words to someone, to my loved ones I did really mean that.
**Never have I ever had an alcohol drink**
**I have.** But just occasionally. I just drink alcohol if there's an occasion but not too much because I'm afraid of hungover haha. I just got drunk one time for my whole life and I will never repeat that. I learned from the hungover it brought every time we woke up in the morning. I just drink alcohol but only a beer and I just did that with my partner, the fact recently we bought 2 bottles of apple beer we just drank a bottle of it. That was also one of our bonding.
**Never have I ever kissed my bestfriend**
**I have.** This was an awkward feeling at the same time an embarrasing moment. Before, I had this childhood friend he's a guy actually. We graduated same year and school during elementary, high school and even college. Were in the same barrio though and we'd able to hang out and became a close friend the time that I was the one who leads the Youth organization in our barrio because he's the one that I can reach easily if I needed something regarding our organization. He's not also difficult to talked too. Actually, the time the kissed happens, I had a boyfriend that time and my boyfriend was also my friend's friend. Haha Did you get what I mean? Well, this happens because my friend talks about her girlfriend as well and he asked me how to kiss a girl. And I said I don't know but I was just shocked that he suddenly kissed me and then boomed voila I'd kissed a bestfriend. Actually we had silenced after that and he said I was his first kiss hahaha. As of now were still friend though and he's happy now as well and for sure sure he's expert of kissing already.
***Then, last but not the least.***
**Never have I ever been in love**
**I have.** Of course, it's a big YES. haha I'm in love with so many things actually and the feeling that you loved and being loved were very nostalgic. And, we all need this one. We need to be happy of course. But to give the genuine love we should start it to ourselves and then for sure it's an amazing feeling.
So, that's it. I finally made it. And it's quite long haha sorry for that. Hopefully you'd enjoy reading this and you already know something about me haha.
FINAL THOUGHTS
Never have I ever, I really enjoyed writing this one and I even laughed while writing this because I've reminisced some awkwardness moments of my existence. The fact that the past happening in our life brought us of what we are today.
Were just humans, we made mistakes but what's more important is that we learned from it. Also, we will not be of what we are today if we don't encountered things that happens in our past.
~the end
@Janz
My sponsors, thank you so much for keeping me motivated and inspired as well as to those who upvoted my articles. I Love you all!
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The things I did when I'm out of topic
10th of July 2021
***WRITING***, this became my hobby already when I started to be hooked in this platform and when I started to enjoy this platform as well. Before, I don’t like writing, I really don’t have the passion for it because I thought I can’t write such long article even with just a 4-minutes reading time. But, when I badly need an income and I need to have at least a passive income by writing, I totally grabbed the opportunity and that’s why I’m here in read.cash and already earning as well. At the same time, I able to know that somehow I had talent in writing though even if I'm not sure of it's grammar but at least I could able to write a minimum of 4 minutes reading time and that's already a success for me.
**Thanks to my friend** @Zhyne06 **who introduces me here.**
*(ayaw palabi ug stress gurlaloo, I know may pinagdadaanan kana naman. Remember that we cannot pleased someone even that someone is part of our bloodline. Pasagdae gurl until they realized their actions one day. Just thought of Zhynetot instead.)*
*So, let’s get back with my topic.*
Well, I somehow loved writing now but I cannot deny also that even if I enjoy writing sometimes my brain will not function and I don't have any idea on what to write. As in, I'm totally blank. That is why, there were days that I cannot published an article. **So, I'm gonna share in this article on what are the things that I did when I'm really struggling on it.**
The things I did when I’m out of topic.
We all have different styles on how we can be able to write articles daily for at least one(1) article per day. We may have many topics in a day but sometimes or maybe most of times we will be out of topic as well. We may encountered the writer’s block feeling. And, as for me as what I've said sometimes I had that feeling. The feeling that I really don’t have an idea on what topic to write and sometimes my brain isn’t working at all.
**Reading articles from other users**
I do readings when I'm out of topic. I read other user's articles for me to be able to get an idea on what I will write.
In fact, I did published an article here after I read the article of @Eunoia about a good reader. With his article I able to get idea and had published also something about becoming a good reader.
Honestly, I also hate reading before and this platform change that. I now love reading articles from different users here because with that I can also gain lessons, realizations and reflections from their articles especially if about their experiences.
Therefore, I'm so thankful as well that I joined here in read.cash because aside from I earn here, I also learn. It's something like hitting two birds with one stone.
**Browsing on Facebook**
For me, this is the best thing I did when I'm out of topic.
It is because, every time I browsed my Facebook news feed I can easily get an idea of a topic. I have many articles published already that came from the idea I get on Facebook. Some are about life, love, realizations and a lot more.
When I scroll down my news feed, I always see a posts from an individual, a group and a page, also a videos from Facebook talking about motivation, inspiration and many more. With that, I could able to formulate a topic and write an article on what are my own opinion about what I saw and read on Facebook.
**Reading quotes**
When I'm out of topic, I also searched on google some quotes about life, love, hatred, motivation, inspirational quotes and etc.
I did this because if I've read and seen a quotes which I thought I can give my opinion on it, then that own opinion of mine is my solution to be able to write an article and I will share my thoughts about a certain quote that I read.
This is also very helpful for me when I don't have anything to write.
**Thought of some experiences**
When I attempted to write a full article and nothing to write, then what I did also is to reminisced or remember my past experiences about my struggles, my life of course, and whatever that experiences is.
If I already had remembered some experiences then I will also think if with that experienced of mine, will I be able to give lessons to my readers. This is also the question that comes to my mind when I wanted to share my experiences and write it here because I also don't want to write articles if I cannot able to give readers a lesson and realizations from it. Also, I wanted my readers to reflect from it as well.
So, I really assure first if the experiences I share is worth reflecting.
**Thoughts of the day**
For me to be able to write something too.
Every end of the day, I will do some reflections on what I did in the whole day then if I thought of it as a good article to write then I will surely shares here as well what I did in that certain day.
Of course, to also shares some lessons from it as well.
We had really different ways on how we can able to published at least one article per day and all of what I shared are just the common things I did and what I usually do when I experienced the feeling of the so called "writer's block".
***Now, how about you? What are the things that you did for you to come up of a topic?***
You can share it at the comment section and I will be glad to hear from you as well.
~the end
Happy reading!
@Janz
To my upvoters and sponsors, my unending thanks to all of you. Have a nice day!
@Janz
