Tolerating mistakes is really getting into my Nerves

5th of August 2021

Last two days I wasn’t able to published an article because I wasn’t in my mood. Even now, I’m still not in my mood to make an article because my mind were blocked by anger and can’t really focused on writing.

But since, I have a goal to accomplished that’s why here I am writing this article since my fingers also were very opposite to my mind and it’s working hard typing in the keyboard.

Another thing is that, I felt that my day will be wasted if I can’t able to published an article since I’m already used to it and since I really tried to maintain my goal to be able to make an article per day. But since, I don’t hold my time I can’t avoid such instances that there were days that I don’t have article being published.

So much for the chit chats, in this article I just want to shares what I really felt on someone in my surroundings that tolerates mistakes which getting into my nerves and which I really hates the most.

Last Tuesday, it was really a terrible day. My partner and his cousin were fighting. His cousin can’t hear. In other words, his cousin is a pure deaf. But why is it my partner were fighting with him?

This deaf cousin of my partner were really is a spoiled brat. He was spoiled by his father. To the point that, this cousin of him had the guts to kill and did things that aren’t good. Even it’s his cousin’s fault, his father will go to his son's side. That is why his son will not be afraid of doing such bad things because he knew that his father will be at his side. What a spoiled deaf kid he was.

So, this was what happen last Tuesday that was really gotten my nerves.

At 8AM that day, after I and my partner finished doing our son's bath. He carried our son inside the house to have him dressed and I was left outside because I'm washing our clothes. Then while I'm hanging our clothes outside I heard my partner voice in an intense sound. It is because he scolded his deaf cousin because his cousin were just throwing out his saliva inside the house and it was spreading in the floor. He told his cousin with action of course because his cousin as what I've said can't hear. He told him not to that inside the house because we had a kid and will throw his saliva outside the house. Then after my partner said that to his cousin he got inside our room to put a clothes to our kid but he heard his cousin throwing again saliva in front of our door's room. That is why, he got outside to scold again his cousin. Then after that, since his cousin is afraid of him, his cousin got outside and my partner secured his bike since he knew that his cousin will surely do something with it because his cousin were like that. So, my partner put his bike inside but then he put his bike near the window not knowing that his bike tire were near to the window as well. So, without my partner knowledge his tire was already being flatten by his cousin by putting a thumbtacks on it.

Fast forward.

Because of my partner's anger he also killed his cousin's rooster since he knew his cousin were also valuing that rooster. He killed it in front of his cousin and his cousin since his afraid with my partner. He does nothing but looking at his rooster died. Then, his cousin were just hiding in their house and afraid to go outside. But still he will sneak out and throws a stone to my partner and even my hanging clothes outside he puts dirt on it.

I was really angry as well, because why is he like that. His deaf right? We really tried to understand him doing such things but is it our fault to or my partner's fault to scold him by throwing his saliva inside the house and knowing our floor is tiles? Were just trying to correct his mistakes but then he won't accept his mistakes instead will do another mistakes again. That's how he spoiled he was and it's because of his father because even it his son's fault he will still tolerating it. That's why his son were like that.

Then, what I hated the most is that he scolded my partner for killing his son's rooster because he said his son's were not normal ( in our term "way buot"). That's why my partner also argued with his cousin's father and explaining his side.

That is why, I'm really wondering. Is it okay to tolerate the bad doings of his son it's because his deaf? Even if his already attempted to stab with a knife to someone still his tolerating it?

Until when are we going to just understand that bad doings of his son? Until he will hurt one of us. THAT'S A BIG NO for me. I won't allow that and my partner won't allow that to happen as well. That is why, if we seem his not doing right we will disciplined him so that he will knew his mistakes. But everytime we does that his father will gets angry. That is why I hated his father the way he tolerated his son's mistakes. Because of him, his son were acting like that. Sorry for the term but I really hate that fact.

Can you enlighten my mind? What should I do with it? Should we just allow that deaf cousin pf my partner to do such things to us? Because for me I won't allow that especially I had a son here.

It's not his totally abnormal because he can understand well especially talking to him in sign language. His totally normal if your looking at him, the only thing is that he can't hear.

So, that's how tolerating mistakes were getting into my nerves nowadays.

That's all everyone. I apologized for some terms because I don't like someone who will just tolerates mistakes because I knew there's nothing good results for it and it is seen already in my partner's cousin.

Tell me if I'm wrong on how I reacted to the situation. I will be willing to accept that and will appreciate to learn from you all.

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