What Makes Us Cry?

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October 7, 2020

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There are thousands of reasons why a person cry, but a basic explanation to this is because it's our natural response to emotions triggered by a feeling of sadness, empathy, surprise, happiness, anger, pain, and grief. It is also our natural response to eye irritation and dust that goes into our eyes. Once we cry, tears roll down on our face, and its an indication that there is some crucial problem that is beyond our capacity to withstand.

How tears are formed?

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Our Lacrimal system is responsible for tears production which is located next to our eyeballs. The system consists of a secretory system (responsible for producing tears) and an excretory system (responsible for draining tears).

For example, you broke with your boyfriend/girlfriend, the tears production will begin and will go down to your lacrimal system. Tears will then formed in your lacrimal gland that sits in-between your eyelids and eyeballs. Your eyes will start to blink spontaneously which causes the spreading of tears across your eyes. Your tears will drain-off down to your lacrimal punctum (tears collector produced by lacrimal glands which can be found on the margins of the eyelids) but because you cry so hard during your breakup, your drainage system cannot hold the volume of tears so the excess fluid will now spill over your eyelids down to your cheeks. And you will cry and cry until you moved on from your breakup.

And by the way, there are three types of tears:

  • Basal Tears - eyes' lubricants that keep it moist and clear of dust. This also fights against bacterial infection and important to ensure good visual acuity.

  • Reflex Tears - irritants remover (like dust, dirt, pollutants, and other foreign particles that enters our eyes)

  • Psychic or Emotional Tears - tears that are associated with emotions brought by intense emotional sensations such as joy, anger, pain, grief, fear, and sadness.

Tears only show that we are vulnerable and we are not capable to deal with all problems which provoke our eyes to cry. The same as through with surprising circumstances and occurrences that trigger our emotions which stimulates our tears to roll down our cheeks. However, according to medicine, our brain actually can not always determine the distinction between sad and happy reactions. Our tears are a reflection of unexpressed feelings through different behaviours.

Our tears also reflect our spiritual and psychosocial development. We cry when we are feeling sad due to the loss of a loved one or someone important in our life, it can also because of divorce or breakup. It is our behavioural response to sadness as well as to loneliness, desertion, or rejection. We also cry when we hurt others and this displays our feelings of regret which is a response to our spiritual principle of how we should behave toward people. We cry when we cannot tolerate the pain, for example when we got into an accident, or when we cut our finger or scraped our knee. We even cry when we are carried away by the intense drama we are watching. And crying may also be a symptom of depression that needs further treatment from a professional or even from the loved ones or family members.

For babies, they cry when they are hungry, or if they feel uncomfortable, sick, or in pain. It is also their way to convey something or catch the attention of others. Perhaps, a baby wants to be hugged or cuddled by parents.

But why do we cry when we are happy?

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"The hypothalamus, an almond-sized part of our brains, simply responds to the strong, neural signals from the amygdala, which is in charge of registering our emotional reactions. And this response involves the activation of the body’s parasympathetic nervous system, which helps us calm down by releasing the neurotransmitter acetylcholine that leads to tear-production."https://theswaddle.com/why-do-we-cry-when-we-are-happy/

Research shows that crying helps to control intense emotions. These extreme emotions are sometimes unmanageable and overwhelming, even if it is about joy, gratitude, or euphoria, so we cry to release these emotions immediately and initiates the process of hushing.

Crying isn't only a way to suppress tears triggered by different emotions, it also has beneficial factors which are surprisingly good to our body.

  • It allows us to release our emotions or pain and hopefully feel relieved and comfortable after too much sobbing.

  • It releases toxins and relieves stress. Crying helps to release stress hormones and other chemicals in our body which could reduce our stress level.

  • The endorphins and oxytocin in our body which we released when we are in pain enhances our mood and make us feel better.

  • Crying gives self-enhancing effects which aid the babies to sleep as well as to adults.

  • Crying can kill bacteria and keeps our eyes clear due to lysozyme fluid in our tears which is said to have powerful antimicrobial properties that help to reduce risks from foreign particles or terror agents that go into our eyes.

  • Crying can helps improve our vision. The lubricating effect released by our basal tears keeps our eyes moist and prevents from drying out which helps people to see clearly. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/319631

So when you are crying, always remember that there are benefits of it that are good for our body.


Do you know why we cry when cutting onions?

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Tips to avoid crying when cutting onions:

  • Wear goggles - you may look a bit silly wearing goggles in the kitchen but it will trap the sulfur gas from entering your eyes, therefore, will prevent you fro.m crying while cutting onions.

  • Freeze onions - place the onions inside your freezer for about 15 minutes before cutting. It might be hard to peel off the skin and cut the onion, but it is working. However, this might not be recommendable to people who don't want to change the flavour of onions affecting the taste of their cooking.

  • Cut the onion under the ventilation fan - do this technique by placing the cutting board on your stove and turning on the overhead vent. It will help to redirect the eye-irritating gases away from your eyes.

Written By: @Jane

I got the idea of writing this article when I was chopping onions last night. It didn't really stop me from crying and I was curious why we do cry while chopping onions. And then this article was formed. 😊

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Great article! :-) Thank You and Regards.

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4 years ago

Tears as stated is a response to emotions triggered by various fellings.

I cut son onions today, the tears didnt fail. Also some health conditions could trigger uncontrollable tearing from the eyes.

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4 years ago

That cutting of onion is really challenging 😅 you can actually do if you want tobfelease your emotions without others noticing that , you can cry while cutting onions 😂

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4 years ago

You are so right. When people notice and inquire, you blame it on the onion. 😀😅

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4 years ago

Exactly. Haha. So you can apply that technique if you want to release your emotions against them 🤣🤣

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4 years ago

Emotional

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4 years ago

Tears coming from different emotions or are triggered by different neurotransmitters are fascinating though. They all form different crystalline structures when you look at it through TEM

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4 years ago

I was like, whats TEM? 😅 Then i searched it, transmission electron microscope.. Oh now I know 🤣🤣

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4 years ago

Look for that, different tears coming from different emotions under a microscope, i think you'll find it cool too because of how much the structure gets changed

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4 years ago

I think it's cool, just imagining how it looks like under a microscope, maybe like crystals

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4 years ago

Kind of? They end up looking like different kinds of salts kasi iba iba yung cleavage formation on the salt

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4 years ago

Really,? Never tried using microscope.. 😅

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4 years ago

Yes! But I've been using a different microscope since i got into chem, a more high resolution one

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4 years ago

🙂🙂

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4 years ago

tI cried when Im sad, happy and angry. I even cry on commercials on TV or whenever I heard a song.

Earlier this morning as I was drinking my coffee. Our neighborhood played a christian song entitled 10000 reasons. I sang the song and started in tears. Ewan ko ba. Bakit gganon

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User's avatar Yen
4 years ago

Haha..same tyo.. Kht emotional tv commercials naiiyak ako.. At yang 10000 reasons narinig kona yan..kakaiyak namn tlga

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4 years ago

Oo tapos kagigising pa. Parang reminder sakin ni Lord kanina e.

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User's avatar Yen
4 years ago

Sensitive person k dn cguro.. Gaya ko.. Simpleng patalastas iiyakan 🤣

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4 years ago

Oo hahaha. Mababaw luha ko

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User's avatar Yen
4 years ago

I think that onions make us express all sadness that we have inside of us. 😒😒

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4 years ago

Haha... Really? Actually yes, if youre sad or angry to someone, just cut onions to express your emotions 😅😅

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4 years ago

Yes sometimes is better because you can hide that you are really crying 😂😂😂

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4 years ago

Exactly.. They won't know that you're actually crying for real 🤣

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4 years ago

Sometime I cry whem I am so mad talaga, yung grabing galit na galit, sa sobrang galit ko napapaiyak nalng ako, at pag nagbabasa ako sa wattpad o kaya ng ebook, tapos may mga scene talaga na nakakaiyak ay umiiyak talaga ako, nakakadala kasi, tapos yang sibuyas na yan, may kasama pan ring uhog pag napaiyak ako 😂😂

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4 years ago

Haha.. Actually yang uhog yan yung luha na hndi lumabad sa mata mo napunta sa lacrimal punctum.. Yung parang butas sa gilid ng mata natn, tapus dadaloy sa ilong kya my running nose tyo kpg umiiyak 😁

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4 years ago

Ahh, kaya pala so malinis yun pwd kong dilaan nalang pag naluha ako ulit, 😂

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4 years ago

Haha.. Kaloka ka...parang nung bata tyo 🤣🤣

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4 years ago

Ayos naman lasa ay, maalat alat kalasa ng luha 😂

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4 years ago

Sabi ni jabs maalat dw luha kpg galit tyo.. Nabasa nya sa isang quiz,..pro parang lahat nmn ata ng luha maalat haha.. Try mo tikman ang tears of joy bka matamis, haha..at kpg sa baka bitter and luha 😅

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4 years ago

Ahahah, masaya o galit ako maalat pa din naman ee hahaha. Pero dipa naman ako naiyak dahil sa kabitteran, baka yan lasang ampalaya na 😂😂😂.

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4 years ago

🤣🤣🤣 maalat kc pati sipon mo natitikmam mo ma 🤣

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4 years ago

Ahahahaha, oo ay di naman maiwasan na madilaan ko yun kasi haha, naagos ee, wala pati panyo di saluhin nalang ng bunganga 😂

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4 years ago

Sabay lunok 🤣🤣

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4 years ago

Ahahaha, nyayyy 🤢🤢, sarap noon 😂

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4 years ago

Interesting...

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4 years ago

There is also a life hack about chopping onions, to avoid in tears while chopping it chew bubble gum, I didn't know if it works because I usually don't cry while chopping onions 😆😆

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4 years ago

Yeah i read bout that too,.i wanna try nxt time if its working..haha

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4 years ago

Yeah try it if it works and let me know 😆

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4 years ago

Haha.. Sure

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4 years ago

I cry when I watch anything that is moving, be it drama, a talent show, a reality show, a documentary, anything! Haha. Oh yes, onions, I just cried the other day from that. I used to wear goggles but the rubber has melted in the kitchen :D

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4 years ago

Haha.. I cried watching drama.. I easily get touched with touching advertisement too 🤣 Never tried that tips actually.. I have goggles here for covid 😅

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4 years ago

I'm a crying lady.haha. I can easily cry for simple reasons.haha yet onion makes me cry so easily.haha

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4 years ago

I have sensitive eyes and feelings.. I even cry when watching drama 🤣 how much more on chopping onions lol

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4 years ago

Haha. Isa pa lang nahihiwa ko yung mata ko naluluha na.

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4 years ago

My glasses na nga ako ganun pa dn. Haha

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4 years ago

True.haha

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4 years ago

We mostly cry when we could not control our feelings. Thanks for sharing a great article

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4 years ago

This reminds me of something, tears has different taste depends on our emotions. When we are angry, tears is salty.

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4 years ago

Really? But I guess its always salty 😅

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4 years ago

I only knew it recently upon watching Idol on Quiz. I also thought the same.

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4 years ago

So what's the other tastes of tear?

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4 years ago

They only mention three taste, salty, sour and sweet.

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4 years ago

I guess its sweet for tears of joy, bitter for sorrow then the salty one for anger..

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