The Unexpected Closeness!

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Day by day we meet different people. Started from knowing each other until it will jump for closeness. I know all of us we don't expect that this people will became close to us.

Time passing by, different scenarios happened. We don't know. We cannot predict what will happen. We must be ready anytime.

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"Hello I'm Chae. I'm 23 years old. I live in a province but I'm here in the city because of my job. I need to work for my family. I want to help them and to sustain their needs. Before I got this job, there are a lot of challenges I face before I am officially hired with this company."

As a flashback, I applied a lot of companies. I rejected many times but I never surrendered. I still continued what I'd been started on applying for work. Until this company, hired me. I was so blessed. I was so happy. I couldn't explained the emotions I had that time. I am really grateful to God that he given me with this kind of opportunity. I love my work a lot.

When it was my first day of work, I met already my workmates. I was so happy since they were all kind and approachable. We were all four with having the same ages and the others were like a mother to us so we we were the one who became close to each other. During lunch we were eating together at the restaurant. Sometimes we only buy foods and eat in the office. Every vacant time, we were talking and laughing. We were all 3 girls and 1 boy. Every 5 pm, we were going home together. We became close each other. We were became real friends.

Until one day, we were so sad since one of us passed a resignation letter. We were shocked because why all of a sudden she did that, what could be the reason. She said there was something she needed to do regarding with her review. She wanted to focus on that. She said sorry to the three of us. We were really sad but we were all understand to her. She had an important reason why she needed to resign to the company. We were all three left. Everytime we eat, something incomplete but we need to adjust and accept the truth.

Back to normal again, we were all happy. Continue our bonding moment together. Talking a lot of random matters. Sometimes we went into the mall to have an enjoyment. Sometimes we buy some things we want. Sometimes we eat a dinner together before we went home.

Until one time, bad news again. One of my friend which was the boy talked to us and explained everything. He needed to passed a resignation letter also because his brother wanted him to travel to other country because there was a good opportunity there. He was offered a greater opportunity so he didn't wanted to waste it. When we heard it we felt very sad. We didn't know what would be our reactions. I wanted to cry. It was really painful but we didn't have a choice but to accept, be happy and give him a biggest support to his journey.

The two of us only left. We felt sad everyday even we were laughing but deep inside we felt lonely. It was a new for us. We were only the two of us went outside. It was really sad moments but as time goes by everything back to normal again. Our friendship became strong. We were always seeing each other. We were always went outside every vacant time. We were like a sisters. We were comfortable to each other.

Until unexpected day happened, she walked nearly towards at me. I was so confused because of her facial expression. She secretly talked to me that we need to talk. She said she was going to resign since she has a personal problem. I suddenly having a tears. I didn't what would I response to her. I hug her because of my sadness since I was surely missed her. I didn't want to but it's her life and I don't have a right to stop her. I comforted her. Spending time with her on her last day of the company.

"Now, I am alone. We are still communicating through social media applications like Facebook and messenger. I really missed them a lot. I hope one day we will gonna see each other to have a bonding moments. I don't any expectation that we became close. They are one of the most precious things came in my life, the unexpected closeness."

This is only a fictional story.

LIFE THOUGHTS:

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Sometimes in life, there is what we called "The Unexpected Closeness" we became close those people without any expectations. These are the people who had been part of our life journey.

There are times, unexpected situations happened. We need to be ready anytime. Still continue going to look forward with positivity. We must always be ready for any scenarios exist.

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Thank you so much everyone. I hope I give you some thoughts with this article of mine.

God bless everyone.😇 Stay safe always.🙏

-JRamona20 💜

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Life is full of surprises but we can always treasure the most important memories of our lives. Remembering them will make us feel like we are reliving the scene.

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3 years ago

Yes ma'am you're right. Everyday has a full of surprises. No matter just continue and treasure those memories...

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3 years ago

Nakakalungkot tlaga pag bigla nlang nawawala ung mga kaibigan natin, tapos ang tagal na ng samahan nyo.

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3 years ago

Yes sis tama. Sobrang nakakalungkot talaga.. Pero kailangan natin tanggapin and I treasure yung mga memories.

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3 years ago

Iwan ko sa iba ha. Pero sakin kaso ayaw kong inaattach ang sarili ko sa iba at masakit pag oras na ng kanilang pag alis maiiwan akong mag isa at ako na nasanay na sa presence nila ang mas masasaktan aigooi.

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3 years ago

Yes sis sobrang sakit yung nasanay kana na na andyan lagi at isang araw mag aalisan nalang. Sobrang sakit sis...

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3 years ago

I know and many many people with whom I got closeness. Especially, on social media, we get close to others just by their talking style, etc. But I don't like personally being closed to another person because in the end, they hurt you.

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3 years ago

Yes niazi but we need to accept it since it's part in our lives. They definitely hurt us but no matter what happened still continue and treasure those memories you had.

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3 years ago

Indeed.

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3 years ago

People comes to our life and leave after. They're just part of the story we are making in our book named (our names) Unexpected people Gaves unexpected joyment to our life and we will cherish is forever, it's just sad knowing that people will gonna leave us, but that's life and we must accept that thing.

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3 years ago

Yes snail that word story and our names.❤️ Story made of words have been part of the book. Sometimes people will gonna leave us and that words will scratches from the book. Yes snail we need to accept it and that's one of the definition of life. Just still continue and be positive.

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3 years ago

It happens often. This situation occured to me last two years, in the midst of beautiful resemblance, we felt the absence when we all dispersed to another different states. It's so painful but we can't avoid it.

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3 years ago

I'm sorry for that friend. I know until you continue your friendship even you're only communicating in social medias app.

Yes we can't avoid it. We must always be ready for it. Anytime it will make happen to us. It's part in our life. Whatever happens just continue..

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3 years ago

Sanaol close.. Ayss.. ("Charriiisabble!"XD) Bitaw...Di jud na nato ma-expect nang mga ing-ana nga mga panghitabo mamsh noh? Pareha gud nato. Charss.. (Feeling close ra man diay ko XD) ...HAHAHA

But there are times man jud lagi naa pu'y mga sitwasyon nga dili maayo, pero we need to accept it..

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3 years ago

Hahaha alegre man gayud ka mamsh uie.😄 Ahat dili sad mamsh uie. Comfortable lang gayud cguro ta sa usag usa.🥰

Yes mamsh. Dawaton nato. Parte gayud nas atong life but continue the friendship parin...

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3 years ago

Iba-iba tayo ng path na tinatahak pero the friend and closeness remains kahit walay communication. That is so rare to be found yung iba nga ate kung sino pa yung hindi natin iexpect sila pa yung naging super close.

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3 years ago

Yes it's really true Maryel. There are people whom we didn't expect na maging close sila and it's a blessings na naging part sila ng life natin. They give us happiness na hindi masusukat. Thank you Maryel..❤️❤️

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3 years ago

Unexpected thing brings so much happiness ate❣️. Always welcome ate❣️

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3 years ago

Yes Maryel. Without any expectation, that's a precious one.❤️

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3 years ago

Sabi nga hindi habang buhay nandyan sila. Kasi nga iba iba din yung path na tinatahak natin. Masakit pero need natin tanggapin at magpatuloy. Kasi yun lang din naman option natin.

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3 years ago

Yes dzi tama ka. Iba-iba tayong tinatahak sa buhay. Minsan kailangan talaga tayo mawalay sa mga taong naging parte sa buhay natin...

Kumusta kana dzi?

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3 years ago

Minsan panga kung sino Yung Hindi mo akalain na magiging close mo e yun p tlga makakaclose mo

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User's avatar Yen
3 years ago

Yess miss yen tama po. Yung hindi mo inakala tas sobrang labo at napaka imposible tas magugulat ka nalang maging close pala kayo....

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3 years ago

People come and go man lagi Lang. Wa jud tay mahimo kay we have different lives. Pero ang importante is the friendship remains. Atu na lang itreasure ang mga good memories nga nakauban natu sila. 😊

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3 years ago

Mao gayud ato. Basta ang friendship naa ra gihapon always dili ma fade. I treasure nalang ang mga memories. Soon magkita-kita din balik te...

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3 years ago

This is the reason we should be prepared whenever as a result of something like this. We won't ever be together perpetually, everybody would find their methodologies, sometime whenever there qill consistently be a progressions.

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3 years ago

Yes sis. We should always be ready anytime. Be open for this. It's part in our life. We need to face the truth and accept it. We have our own different lives.

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3 years ago

Friends give unforgettable memories and bonds but it'll not last forever, sometime we need to separate our different paths and meet new people but we will never forget the ones we treated as family they always have and always been a special place to ourself.

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3 years ago

Yes indeed friend. It's part in our life. We face the time that we have our own separate ways. It's truly hurt but we need to accept it and continue to walk forward. Never forget those people who've been part in our lives. Thank you friend.❤️

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3 years ago

Eto iyong panahon na sasabihin nating goodbye friends mo na, dahil may kanya kanya na tayong responsibilidad at hangarin sa buhay.

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3 years ago

Yes sis. The time na kailangan natin tanggapin na may kanya-kanya tayong tinatahak na landas...

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3 years ago

Never give up. Always is best option of rejection. Look at home you are earning enough mashallah. So almighty id with you and helping you.

Good company always give good vibes. If you are traveling or living with those people who are not to your taste than you would stuck . Good friends with similar nature always make our lives more pleasant.

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3 years ago

Thank you so much Aasi. Thank you for your support always.

Yes having a good friends make us happiness. Wherever we go, if we are spending time with them. Everything is priceless. Goods friends are one of the most precious gems we have.💛

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3 years ago

You are very welcome 🙂

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3 years ago

I have a reason too sis why I resigned in my work. I feel like I am not growing anymore. I made friends and close friends through my year on that company. Well, I guess that is life.

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3 years ago

Yes it's life. It's the meaning of life sis. A lot of situations happened to us like that scenario. Despite of everything still continue to walk sis. Fighting always!

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3 years ago

Ito yung masakit Sis no, yung di mo mapipigilan ang tadhana. Although gusto mo stay lang yung friendship and closeness, yung magkakasama lang kayo pero di talaga e. Unti-unti ko ng nararamdaman to, dahil ibang friends ko may anak na, yung iba pumunta sa ibang lugar, then ang iba busy na sa trabaho.

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3 years ago

Yes sis. Hindi talaga natin maiiwasan ang mga ganyan. Masakit man na magkalayo layo pero kailangan tanggapin natin at ipagpatuloy kung ano ang nasimulan.

Yung mga friends ko din sis. Miss ko na talaga sila. Sana magkita-kita kami sis balang araw..🙏

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3 years ago

This is why we need to be ready anytime because of something like this. We will never be together forever, everyone would find their ways. But what matters is to be good so we can always enjoy chatting and communicating even when we are not together.

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3 years ago

Yes princess. You're right. We must be ready anytime because there are times people will not stay forever to us. We have our own life paths. No matter what happen we need to accept it and still continue what have been started. Thank you princess.❤️

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3 years ago

I am used to be like this too J. I got my first job last year and then I am also connected to my workmates. We have many memories together that I would never forget.

I believe that being connected to our workmates will surely has a big impact in our life since they are already in our hearts.

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3 years ago

Yez kleh, that is one of the most happiest memories we have. To meet someone whose special in our hearts. They are the people like as a treasure.❤️

You're right kleh. They give us a biggest impact in our life. They give us happiness and enjoyable times that never been forget...❤️

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