Be kind to unkind people too

Our elder ones always give us an advice to be kind with everyone. It is one of the most precious advice we have ever got from our elders, right? And why precious? Because with our kindness we can do anything, we can change the world in a positive way, we can turn a bad person into a good one and we can do many more effective yet positive things. But have we ever wondered to be kind with unkind people too? If you have not then don't worry as we all have never thought I guess including myself.

We love to judge others and sometimes to be judged too by others for everything, we start blaming others for their unwanted and unexpected behavior.

Have we ever thought why they are like that?? Why they are behaving so badly? Never , we have never wondered about it. There is a hidden reason behind everything. If you can't find that reason then you shouldn't talk to them badly either because our bad behavior will work like a fuel which would encourage them to become more fearful, more brutal, kore bad person.

Some people says 'Treat People the way the treat you'. Maybe they are right but I'm totally against of this rule. Just think__ Can you put out the fire with the help of fire??...... absolutely not. Then how can you change a bad and unkind behaviors of others by treating them in the same way, just think about it. Trader everyone specially the unkind people much better than they treat you. If a person's bad behaviors leads you to do the same then how can you say that you're better than them???

You don't have to listen to their every word, in the same way you don't need to answer them back in their own tone. If some person disrespect you, talk to them with respect, this simple act of yours can change a person's perspective for lifetime.

Always try to be that person who struggled yet still inspires their worst enemies. always try to be a little kinder than someone needs.

In a world where so many are trying to hurt others ,Be the one who can comfort them.

Be kind wherever you go because some strangers somewhere still remembers you just because you were kind , nice and polite to them.

Try to treat each and every people with kindness because behind every happy and smiley face is a untold and unwanted stories that could use more love, more kindness.

I know you're getting and dealing with lots of hurtful words, disgrace and negetivities but make sure that you are not returning any of these to anyone.

Have you heard that___ speaking kindly to plants and animals helps them to grow beautifully and wonderfully then imagine What speaking to Humans can do in actual.

One can never know from what someone is going through so don't make the false judgment about others. Every single person you meet is fighting their own battle silently you know nothing about them. But remember, in the process of being kind to others Don't forget to be kind to your own self.

It is true There is never a better time to show your kindness, to console someone. Every moment is the perfect time to create an unbreakable, eternal bond of love and kindness for yourself as well as others which can't be broken by the unkind words and behaviors of others.

If you can't be kind to someone then you can maintain your quietness instead of hurting others with your unkind attitude and words.

Be kind to yourself first then share this magic with the whole world coz if you have no pity,no love for yourself then how can you share with others? We can't share what we don't have. So don't forget to be kind with others...

Closing thoughts:-.

This is the last day of January and naturally tomorrow we will enjoy another new month, the month of love.. In this upcoming special month don't forget to tell your wish and show your love to that special person who is living in your heart. Confess your love before getting to late. All the best to all of you.

I hope you're having a great day with a fit body and cheerful mind.

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