November 27, 2021. No. 79.
Today, November 27, 2021, exactly 6 years ago my life took a 180 degree turn towards happiness. Speak the words to the question that everyone expects to hear at least once in your life, logically if you want to get married one day. 6 years ago I joined my life with a special person in every way and from there, the relationship that we had for several years, was completely consolidated.
Marriage is like living two souls in the same body. It is to make the thoughts are one, and that the causes of the river, go to the same place. It is guiding our sailing ships of life, through a sea of hope. It is to make sure that nothing is missing day after day, that about love. It is delusions of grandeur and constant hope that a better future is possible. It is to become emancipated at a level never seen before, achieving efficiency in each household task. It is to achieve that each action has a clear objective and thinking about the future. It is to make life make sense, that the smile becomes perfect, and that the cry is not so bitter. It is trying to grow and feel that you are on the right track. It is full equality, and absolute trust. It is energy, it is feeling. It is to achieve that there are not two worlds, only one. It is 100% love.
Throughout these years, not everything has been rosy. I'd be lying if I said so. When there are two, diversity of criteria and opinions is inevitable. Sometimes a middle ground is not always reached and misunderstandings arise. The arguments, the misunderstanding, the timing. But there is no doubt that when you really love, everything can be overcome. A marriage without reconciliation would not really exist. It is precisely to give in, to move forward. It is forgiveness for the words that should not have been said. It is to be silent when you want to say something that should not be heard. When you understand that you should count to 10 and avoid talking when you are upset, then you will be a better life partner. We have learned that when you are upset for any reason, it is best to allow time to pass, to start a healing conversation and clarify the whole situation. You will avoid more complex setbacks than the problem itself.
My love, you and me have been together for several years, and I want them to be many more, until death do us part. I want to spend the rest of my life by your side. You are the best thing that has happened to me, and I have no way to be grateful for how happy I have been in all these years. You are my guide, my inspiration, my everything. You are the light that illuminates me inside at every moment. There is no darkness if you are present. You radiate greatness, understanding and tenderness. One look from you and you stop the universe. You make the Big Bang child's play. You understand every look, every gesture that we make to ourselves. I love how beautiful you are, what you carry inside. Every second, every minute, every hour that I am by your side, you make my life take on a little more meaning.
A month after we were married, the news reached us that we would be 3. After 9 months he arrived. That little person who came to fill our lives with joy. To make them something more perfect than it already was. A male, an angel fallen from heaven. When you look into your child's eyes for the first time in your life, you know the meaning of purity. Someone who bursts into your life so abruptly and subtly at the same time that it makes you want to eat the world to put everything at your feet.
Marriage is like an open book. There are no hidden secrets. Confidence is everything. It is living by the eyes of your partner, by their acts and their actions. I always try to make each day a new beginning. Sow to reap in the future.
Throughout these years I have seen couples succumb to their relationship and drown in monotony. We have managed, through thick and thin, to start this relationship to this day and with our eyes set on the future. New plans and goals to meet. New feelings to discover and make them grow together. Together always, the 3, and evidently hoping to want to be 4.
Congratulations @Diana_. Its have been 6 splendid years of marriage. You are the woman of my life. Time has taken care of showing me that I was not wrong. I will love you to Infinity and beyond.
marriage don't just seem to work out with some couples. i have known friends who's been living for several years and decided to get married. after a couple of months they broke and separated.
another friend was married for 13 years and yet the husband finds comfort to another.
i have been married for 15 years and counting and i can say that marriage is not that easy it is really a serious matter because we are building a family. we are like companies making our own brand and reputation.
good read. congratulations! looking forward the additional member of your family in the future.