When you are betrayed, your ego turns into a monster. It takes over every thought, every feeling and every prospect of your future scenarios. It tells you that you will never trust again, that you will never open your heart to anyone again, that you will be cautious about everyone now. If you are betrayed by someone, who was part of your life since you were born and grew up with them, the betrayal cuts deeper than ever before. It leaves scars on your mind that no one but you can understand. The betrayal left me broken, disappointed and heartbroken.
Getting betrayed by someone you trust so much can be devastating. When a person betrays you, they can make you feel like you are worthless and have no one to turn to. It feels like the world is ending, and all you want is for them to apologize and make it all better. The only problem is that they’re probably not going to do it. But there is something you can do about betrayal: bounce back from the pain and betrayal. Getting over betrayal takes time. Give yourself space so that you can deal with the pain inside. Don’t try to push it down, or else it will surface in other ways and eventually explode in your face.
People are partial to being betrayed because it is temporary pain that makes them think they were right all along. Being betrayed triggers a response known as betrayal trauma which is when one doubts themselves and their principles. Betrayal trauma has other symptoms such as anger, fear, sadness, and depression.
This didn’t happen to me, but to my friend, who had an online store. She was almost done with her fifteen minutes of fame when, before she could mail out her final products, her website and her brand was stolen by someone she trusted. She found out when customers started to message her asking why their orders went unfilled, and their money went unrefunded. She was devastated, and so were her fans, family and friends.
Friends - It's something great to have friends but keep your circle close. Having a lot of friends isn't bad, but try to know those that have your back. I know for a fact that it's hard to be all alone all the time. You can say one thing and the next day, they'll say the opposite. You can give them love and they'll return it with hurt. I'm not sure where they get off! Anyways, you may want to do this exercise. It goes like this: count how many people are in your phone book where you're actually in contact with them. If they're not in contact with you and they just show up out of nowhere when they need something, then you don't really need them.
The message is there is a difference between a friend and just a friend. Sometimes you can need someone more than they need you. Be brave enough to walk away from the ones who don't know how to love you.
Sometimes it's best if you only trust a few because if you are being hurt by someone that is supposed to be in your circle it can be hard to get away from them if they are always around. It's okay to have a lot of friends, just don't get too caught up.
Don't trust anyone too quickly, take some people too much at their word and believe everything they say. Trust is earned and often takes time to make sure that trust is real. In any kind of relationship, trust is what helps when things get tough. Trust will help you get through rough patches and trust will help you make it through to the end of the relationship with a smile on your face. If you're just starting, don't let someone talk you out of trusting your instincts about a person or situation. Don't let someone talk you into believing that you're overreacting because something in your gut tells you that things aren't right. Remember once beaten, twice shy.
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Definitely. Nothing angers me a lot than betrayal. Why act nice when you have hidden agenda or anger towards me. We don't want that right? We don't want our trust to be broken.