It's rare

I have been busy since morning cos I went out with my dad to where he will massage his body due to the nature of his sickness. When we got there, we met a lot of people there that has the same sickness as him, we picked a number and sat for our turn. While we were seated, we met a young man who told us about himself, I felt like crying when I heard his story.

He is a young man that got married early at his age and was lucky to have a child who happen to be a boy. So he fell sick and had a partial stroke, could you believe the wife left him all alone? The wife took his child and ran away leaving him to die of that sickness without anyone to take care of him.

I opened my mouth and I couldn't close it again cos I was shocked and surprised that his wife could do that. Thank God for the type of mother I have, my mom really stood with my dad, she took good care of him when he couldn't even walk at all. My mom stayed with my dad for roughly 6 months when he couldn't walk, she was there to do his cleaning and all. Thank God he can walk now, my mom is still there to run some errands while she tells us not to bother ourselves with our dad.

She is always available to take care of him but this man's wife surprised me. He said it was his brothers that stay around where he lives that do take care of him. Such sickness requires a partner to be by that person's side but his wife left him all alone. I didn't know when tears started coming out of my eyes cos I knew the pains he must have undergone.

This scenario has made me have deep thoughts about the ladies out there and concluded that only 5% out of 100 of ladies can stand with their husbands during times like this. The ladies we have now just stay with a man cos of what he has or possess, their love see based on material things. It's no longer a do or die affair any longer, they only love you when things are fine and smooth, once things turn the way round, they will run and follow a better man.

I am not saying all the ladies but I am sure most of the ladies that we have in this generation can hardly stand firm with their husbands. They don't want to suffer with the man at all. Is marriage no longer till death do us part? Cos I have begun to wonder if there will be a happy home later in this current generation cos divorce has become something very normal to many.

I will have to say it is rare to come by a lady that will love his man wholeheartedly and will stand with him while things aren't going smoothly for him, be it sickness, loss of job etc. The same thing applies to a husband too, we can hardly find a husband that can suffer with his wife, especially when she is sick and can't do anything. All I can say is pray to God to give you your better half.

Thanks for reading, I am sorry if I haven't come across your article today, today isn't funny at all to me, I have been busy, please bear with me.

Bye for now 🥰🥰🥰.