Human Substitution
Human Substitution
When I heard about this topic in the church, I was somehow having a second thought about it. I never knew that Daddy G.O. would have a better explanation to it. While explaining, I got to understand it better in a simpler way.
Substitution is the process of replacing something with another thing. When you have a chair to sit on but are looking for a bench, then you have substituted what you have for the other.
I want to eat rice but do not have money to buy it and I have spaghetti to prepare, then to make it clearer, I substituted spaghetti for rice because it is what I had at that moment.
In another way, human beings can be substituted without doubt. I knew of a native doctor who someone went to meet for healing. The person has been sick for so long now and has nothing to do and without remedy to his ailments. He was told of this native doctor and how he always heals people. This man went to meet up with him for healing but the unexpected happened. The native doctor told the man that he is going to be healed without doubt but with just one condition. The condition was not the best one as it is not the oath he must follow.
The native doctor told him that in order for him to survive, someone has to stand out as a substitute. This means someone's head must go for it. This is a fact which we must all be aware of.
Sometimes prayer is important. It is better we pray to God for forgiveness and to make us heal again instead of relying on some deities. The only one who cannot fail you is God almighty.
So, this man was so much ready to get revived and was ready to go for the doctor's words. The herbalist told him to bring the material of anyone he wants to use as a substitute. He went home to have a rethink. No one knew about it except the one who took him there. This was how he used his only child as a substitute. He was brought back to life and was normal again.
He lives in secret without letting his wife know about it. When he was dying, his death was a painful one. He confesses to all what he has done.
Human substitution is not the best. Why on Earth can someone be killed just for your place?
A king was on the verge of dying and the only way to save him was for someone to die. Who will that be? They were all contemplating trying to know who to use. All his subjects were not ready to give up their lives just to save him because no one wants to die.
So, the second in command rendered his life just to save the king and the kingdom. This one is loyalty. The second in command was a loyal servant and so died to save his king and the kingdom.
Substitution is not the best in most ways of the best in another way but who would love to waste this precious life for someone?
Anger Can Aggravate Anger
Anger Can Aggravate Anger
The fact remains that we should not let anger into our lives. Making ways to resolve your anger is very much important.
Do you know that anger can cause and can cost you so many losses in life? This is a fact which we all can't dispute about. When you are angry, many things can be spoiled and so many things as well as people would lose trust in you except those who are ready to enjoy your immediate doubt.
Being in anger can make you lose your dignity and your personality. Your dignity in the society you lived in idi very important and so when it is let loose, then you would be the worst ever.
Learning how to control your anger is important. Do you know that you can make rash decisions which can tarnish your image and destroy the image of the one you are concluding on? This is a fact and due to anger so many people have wasted their lives unjustly. Innocent people have been defeated just because of your last conclusion which was as a result of anger.
As a leader, you don't need to jump into conclusion just to save your leadership or just to make some people happy, but you just need to silence your anger and face reality. Silence that deep pain called anger in you and focus on the reality.
I saw a man who made the decision to kill someone after being angered outside. He never allowed the second party to judge, instead concluding just because of anger.
Anger can drive you from your immediate seat. That position you are in today is what many people are dying to have and so when you are angered, this would.give them apportionment to penetrate into your affairs.
Anger can Aggravate Anger which can make you do what is not expected of you.
If you have been angered before or you are angered, just calm down and make the best decision. Calm down because all eyes are on you.
Saving your dignity is important instead of fighting with anger. You wouldn't want to be disgraced. Some people have lost their lives just to anger. Just allow settlement to take its place.
The result of anger is regret. What I meant is that after anger cones regret. You will regret why you were suppose not to do.
Tending In The Realm Of Love
Tending In The Realm Of Love
Love is what we all need in life. Two can be merged to become one as said by the spirit of love. The fact remains that we live and must love no matter what. When you live it must be reciprocal.
Love to be candied is the burning fire which can never be quenched except when it has been broken. When you break trust, then love may be broken and cannot find its way back. The only strong thing attached to love is trust. This is why we must trust the one we live so much.
In the bible, we were told to love our neighbors as we lived ourselves. This is what we must not break at a cost. It is just like a vow which must not be broken. So, loving your neighbor is very paramount in life.
Love is the strong bond between two or more people. A bond which when broken can never be amended or found its way back.
Love base on trust but not based on lost. Many today loved in pretense which we can never called love instead lost or deceit. When you are the type who love deceiving your partner, then you are bound to be heartbroken by someone. Do you know that it's just lube law of karma? What you do to someone would or may bounce back to you. This is the law of karma which can always find its place when you deceive the one who loved you so much.
I can say that love and love from your heart. Love and love from your mind but a lot from listening to the deceiving being in you.
Do we have some people who do not love?
No... We all are filled up with the spirit of love. So many people believe that love does not exist. They always believe that love is just something that cannot.be caught in their dictionary just because of what they have passed through.
They might have passed through so many huddles and so got to dislike love but to be candied, love can still find its way back as love rules. Love is the only thing we all want in life.
Love and do not remember to cheat. Trust your spouse or your partner. It's not easy to trust but no matter what we just have to love.
My Daily Chores
Just today, I had to help my mum stay in the shop after service. It was not easy but I just tried to. Right in the church I was feeling sleepy and to make myself comfortable was not in my power just because sleep.
It's not easy doing all the house chores as well as cooking food. My dad would not come back home without seeing food on the table. I trust my dad to that extent.
So, just Saturday, I traveled to Lagos to buy some items for my mum where I had to encounter some funny things along. Unfortunately for me, I could not take my phone along with me as I was having a flat battery. I did not believe that I could stay awake up too now without finding myself a place to rest my head on.
Body, to be sincere, is not firewood and so we must always try to relax after enough stress. Stressing your body is not the best. I have seen many people today who tend to stress themselves and are not able to relax. They would not be able to even eat good food just to make the body palatable and to make it steady. When you stress your body, eating good and quality food must be important to you. You own your body and you know how to take good care of it. Not taking care of your body can cause another thing entirely which may be quite different from your imagination.
So, this morning, someone came to the door to wake us up while I was deep sleeping. Do you know what it is like when your sleep is interrupted or disturbed? It's not an easy one but one would feel so angry. I was so angry and was not ready to open the door as the sleep was in me. After some minutes, I decided to get up just to open the door for him. I asked him how much and what she wanted to buy. To my surprise, he said just something less than #50. This got me upset. Why on Earth must you wake someone just because of something of #50. You should see the look on my face.
Do you know what I did? I just went straight to my bed. My mum decided to force me to sell at the shop. This got me more upset. With the sleep on my eyes, how am I going to cope? Who am I to dispute or to question my mum's order?
My mum praised me today for the kind of market I sold just this morning before going to church. I was deeply happy for one hour, I was able to put a smile on my mum's face.
Yesterday, Sunday was not just good to me as I was sleeping in the church. It was unlike me. Despite the fact that I tried to keep myself awake, the sleep kept coming. It was not easy but I had to manage until we closed from church.
Are You Regretting What You Did?
Are You Regretting What You Did?
This is a bigger and one-time big question you need to ask yourself. There are so many people today who seem not to have feelings of remorse despite the evil or crime they have committed. They do not have the element of being regretful for what they have done instead would want to do more.
When you do something not worth doing, the first thing that supposes to come to your mind is **how would the outside world feel when they see me doing something like this.** Did what **Has what I have done been helpful to my life?** **Is my painting a good image outside or being good to those outside?**
So many people are not ready to answer some questions which can make them change for the better. This is why wickedness just overtook the world of today.
The fact remains that if what you have done is not the best thing to do or if what you have done is something that can harm your fellow man, then you can have regretted it and indeed refrain from it. I mean you can able to run very fast from it as you have regretted doing something so sad.
We are all humans and as humans having the feeling of regret should be our watchword. The fact remains that there is no one without mistakes. We are all full of making one mistake or the other. But when you make the greatest one that can make you regret it, you just have to have human feelings and come out of your pride. Although when you feel you have made a mistake, then you must have the element of regret so that such a mistake would not repeat itself ever again.
Mistakes have no master. This means we all make one mistake or the other no matter what and when this happens, we just have to find a way to avoid making it once again.
A man set for work was along the road waiting for a cab. After some minutes, a car splashed water on his clothes. This got him angry but the one who splashed the water could not say sorry despite the wrong he had done. This means he has no regret left with him. Now, he has deprived the man of going to work early. No one knows what awaits you when he gets to his working place. What if the man threw a stone at his vehicle, what would he have done? To talk back or what? This is one thing: we are getting all things mixed up and messed up.
Going through the hearts of men, we have regret but do not know how to express it. There is no way we cannot regret what we have done because we all have blood flowing in us. We may be feeling regret but how to express it just because of pride would be the only problem.
How do I say I'm sorry when people are out there watching me? Don't you think my reputation would be shattered? The answer is typical **NO**. You have the spirit of pride within you and do not want to accept defeat despite being defeated. Remember that when you say you are sorry does not remove an inch from you but can increase your personality. Sorry is just a way of expressing how you feel about something that you have done wrong.
Say it now and let things be right. You can only set things right only if you can let go of your pride or else, things would keep damaging. Is this what you want? I don't think so. So, you just have to check up with your life and reconsider before making decisions.
Who Do You Think You Are?
Sometimes we need to ask ourselves this question when we have gotten to where we were supposed not to get to.
Many people who we think are not making it in life are the ones making it but here we are not stepping up. Who are we?
Sometimes when we see people making it, we will ask ourselves what kind of head do we bring to this world? The fact remains that we are who we are. We have the same brain but not the same thinking. Our mode of thinking is not the same but we are created from the same source and not born from the same parents.
At a time we began to question ourselves after seeing our mates increasing in wealth or greatness. Why do I not come from a wealthy family? Yes, there is a reason why you did not come from a wealthy home which you are thinking of in another way. The reason is because we just have to excel in where we are. The parents of the one who you thought is excelling has either been poor but met wealth by working hard or his children have been the ones working hard to bring his and her family to a better shape.
I kept on wondering why some people overcame hardship. Hardship is just an English word which is made for everyone but can leave when you are ready to work very hard. It can keep on remaining as hardship only when you have stepped up to say goodbye to hardship.
There are so many people who have been born with a silver spoon, but why is my case different? If you want to become that person, then it's time to drop laziness and embrace the hard word. In the real sense, hard work pays and can even pay more than your imagination. Someone who does not have the ability to chase greatness is a failure and does not or will not chase greatness instead will keep on with the act of laziness.
Many people today are fond of collecting money from the rich almost all their lives. They are not ready to wake up the real man in them but are ready to remain the same beggar they chose to be. The one you are begging from can change your life for good. Instead of begging for money why can't you beg for something that can make you feel better in life. There is a saying that we should ask that person to teach us how to fish instead of begging for money. The money you have begged for can only serve you for that moment, but what he or she is going to teach you can last you forever. We should always demand for everlasting wealth but not the one that can last for just a moment.
Charity begins at home but let it show forth in your house or in your life. That home is your ability to make yourself the very great person you have ever dreamt of. Charity can not just begin at home when you are somewhere sleeping or begging for help all the time without stepping up to make yourself the best or the very person you have ever wished for.
Being alive is enough but having wealth is the better aspect of life. When you are alive with suffering, you will not be comfortable, instead you will be asking yourself different or series of questions which you would have asked yourself before now.
**I'm who I'm.** You are not truly who you are if you are the type who does not want to step up. Sometimes we need to try and there is no harm in trying. Try to make yourself the best man or best woman. Try to wake up the champion in you just to fly to the brim. Your trying is not enough to make you who you truly are. Try and try harder to move yourself to who you truly are. Yes... You are you and are who you have dreamt becoming only when you see yourself as a better and one great man. Feel free to make things happen but don't make them happen becomes the thing you want.
It is enough for you to ponder about your life instead of just sitting and watching. What is your limit of watching? How long have you watched ? Do you still have the mind to watch? Don't be lazy but break the gene in your family and become great. Break the gene of becoming stagnant to the one great man.
Someone would say **I have waited too long**. Why must you wait? How long will you keep waiting? The secret is that you don't need to wait but wake up. Those that keep waiting are still waiting but those that keep on with the act of activeness are making it in their own way. Life is not all about waiting but it is all about trying something new. You wouldn't know how great you would become if you did give yourself a try.
As A Female
There is always luck attached to marriage. Whem you are married, you are prone to being lucky. I have seen so many marriages that tend to fail due to what we called lack of love. When you love, you must love to the very end as love can always prevail.
My mother says to me to always be a good girl and to be a girl that husband will love to the brim when I'm ready to get married. She said to me that love is the most beautiful thing ever. She told me to stick to just one man as it is the best thing to do.
People who are ripe should be the ones who are allowed to eat married or else it becomes something premature. The real thing is that getting yourself a real man is when you have the mind of becoming a good girl. When you are the bad type who does move from one man or jump from one man to another, then you just have a long way to go.
I have seen so many girls who are wayward becoming so special in the hands of their husbands. Men do run after them and want to make them their wives. They tour around all men but some men still want people like this. They still want girls who are just outside and those who can have the mind of to satisfy them. They believe that the girls who can satisfy them are those who are outside. They are those who have passed through men and have given them reasons to love them to the fullest.
I kept on wondering why it must remain this way. So many girls who are close to him are sometimes the ones who cannot see a good man. They are the ones who are able to make themselves good men.
The truth of the issue is that every girl has a dream. They have a dream to become who they want to become. This is why girls want to make their impact and make people know the kind of people they are. They want to remain beautiful.
I have seen so many beautiful girls who have lost their dignity. They have lost that thing that made them become real women. To become.real woman,.one.has to remain holy and remain who they are. To be a good girl, you have to be the same virtuous one you once proposed to be. Sometimes we have so many girls who do not know anything abouttheir lives not only want to flirt around trying to make things worse for themselves.
Being who you are as a girl is the best instead of trying to make things complicated for yourself.
Everyone has a dream just as I have said before.Amd the only one who is capable of making your dream come true is the one who has love for you. As a young lady attaching yourself to the best man ever shiodome the best ever.
As men we have to have a lot of respect for women.
Behind His Back
There are so many different people in this world who have been the reasons why some other people are suffering. They are those behind the downfall of people. They are not ready to make people's lives comfortable, instead are just ready to make their lives a state of swift happiness.
Do you think that the one who harms people would remain happy? Their happiness can only last for just that moment. Their happiness is just within a very short period. The end shall justify the means.
It's only the end that can justify who is the best or who is wrong or who will win the race. It's a race which demands winning. It demands one person to win while the other loses. The one who loses is the one who is making the fellow's life a pit of hell.
A man tried hard to put his neighbour in bars. He tried hard and indeed he succeeded. This man is always the opposite of truthfulness. He is the true and real reason people are suffering. He has a character of taking what does not belong to him. Everyone has tagged him as this kind of person. He is known to be the best choice of the superior of the land in which we lived. So, he uses the advantage. the one who she chose to follow.
The only thing he does is cause trouble and what he gets is vindication. Yes… the wrong vindication. The whole people of this superior always support him. This is the reason why I called it false vindication. This is what he gets because it is yet his time to fall or to go back to the dungeon.
Now he has a trend on the lion's tail. The one who claimed his right was the one who no one knows to have people. He has a good reputation and everyone has been in support of him. So, when this said man took away what belonged to him, he tried to fight hard but one way was deprived. He never backed down but tried hard to take the case further. After some time, justice was on his side.
The law has recorded that he is the owner and the rightful owner of the properties. The land the wicked one has tried to take away from him has a **sea of owe**. This means he is the rightful owner of the land and properties which everyone has testified to.
After some months, the case was brought forward and the superior denied him. He has one way or the other put his superior into danger and has placed his superior in a state of confusion. He was only revived just because of his reputation. So, this time he could not testify and instead backed off.
After two years, the one who had been claiming people's properties had a stroke and was taken to a place where he would be treated. They got to the place and behold, it was one of the men whom he had reaped many benefits. He was the same man who had claimed his properties some time ago. This man had never for once forgiven him. So, when he was brought to the house of the man, immediately he thought twice about whether to save him or to let him suffer. He could not allow a soul to suffer instead told the man about what he had done to him. This man had to apologize just to save his head and to save him from his recent predicament.
He also promised to repent from his wicked ways. Also, he gave all he had collected from the innocent man those he had offended, the innocent man told him to go home and beg them for forgiveness. He got him treated and indeed, this wicked being got tested and changed for good.
Sometimes, the law of karma can always take its place. Those we are hurting unjustly can always come out vindicated. They can always be victorious.
If you are still in your wicked ways, you still have the opportunity to change because that person that has been backing you may change and you may not have anyone to fall back to.
Three Sets Of Great Men
There are three sets of great men in life. Normally great men are those who create names and act toward the names they have created. Everyone wants to be great but forgetting the fact that greatness cannot come just like that but comes with different tasks. You must take up the pains to become great in life or take up the mind and keep the bad side of you just to give out the true meaning of greatness.
Many people believe that when they make something make them great men or when they have acquired money then they are great men. This is not the fact and in short, it is totally out of it. Greatness goes beyond what you think it might be.
Greatness depends on the way you react to the outside world or to those around you. I have once heard someone make a quote about greatness which is where I'm going to focus on.
✓ **A great man draws a circle which encloses just himself, wife and children.** This does not mean that you don't know what you are doing but It mean that you are just learning to be great. You are not yet into greatness but just trying to taste it and see how it works. Being around your wife and children can make you great in the eyes of your family but not the outside world. To the world, you are just starting out to blend into the world of greatness.
In the eyes of your children and wife, you are great because you are able to show them how great you are. They are the ones who could be capable of calling your greatness but not those who you have no value for. The truth is that you only value your family more than those outside the world.
✓ **A great man draws a circle that encloses himself, his wife, children and members of his family**. This person has tried to some extent but was only able to take just a few people to his circle. So, this person is seen as somehow influential. He is only trying in his own way to make his family members feel his impact. This man has a family that is ready to use what it takes to take from him. He is a great man in his own way and a great man just limited to his family members alone.
✓ **A great man draws a bigger circle to contain his children, wife, family members and everyone around his domain including those abroad**. This person has the ability to know people and to be influential. He is able to bring people together. He may not have enough money but he is able to give what he has and does not keep all of his wealth all by himself. Any one who comes his way he does give to. People are ready to meet him just for help and he is ready to welcome any form of person or problem you tender to him. Being around this person can give you more opportunity to remain who you are. They are ready to give you lots of advice and put you in the best place ever. This person can give you the best care ever. He is able to come to you when you are not having and whenever he is being invited for anything he attends without doubt. So many people do call this person wisdom. He acquired all the wisdom ever as anything he says is the final and the best. This person is ready to take people's advice and gives out the best one so far.
These are the types of great people we have. So, come to this k of it, which one do you fall on? The first, second or the third?
What Did You Gain For Being So Terrified?
What Did You Gain For Being So Terrified?
Being so terrified is not the best and most of what we are born to be. There is no gain for being weird or being so terrible. There is something you must take note of in life. No one is afraid of you instead of your seat. We are all human and being afraid of our service is not what we should be planning to do instead, or watching each other's back should be the way out. Your position is what people are afraid of but not you as a person.
you may be a tiger or anything you call yourself in wherever you are but that should be the power attached to the position you are. Some people do behave normal when they are not yet fixed up in any position, but turn to something else when they taste the post they have been eager to acquire. There is always power hunting and when you are there, you will begin to witch Hunt people and even close friends or relatives. Power hungry can cause something we are not expecting. This is why we must remain who we are and pass the habit of being plain to the next generation.
This is why politicians are not ready to drop the position they are in. They just want to keep reappearing by contesting for positions. They have tasted power and can not let go of it. People are sometimes wicked and do not want their fellow to progress instead want to have it all by themselves. Being power hungry is indeed tempting. It takes the grace of God to do away with power hungry or else it is a continuous process.
I got inspired to write this post after listening to what is happening at my father's workplace. He was narrating to his friend who came visiting and so I grabbed some good points from what they have said. Let me take you to the full story.
A teacher in their school has been misbehaving and has been reporting people of what he was supposed not to report. Just a little thing would turn out to be great by this guy. He is the head of the department of either science or humanities. He is teaching mathematics and so has one character which seems not palatable to other teachers. This guy has reported many teachers who have been teaching extra classes in the school. They have been teaching students private lessons which the school was not aware of and this same guy collected private lessons from some parents which he has been paid and even upfront. He was so happy, but some parents got to know about it as he was teaching these students exam questions.
So, the management of the school got to know about it and called him to ask if what they heard was true. He cannot deny it and agreed which led to his suspension. It was not a joking issue as those he has reported were so happy for his dismissal. He began to beg for forgiveness and begging that he would never do something like this again.
Sometimes, it pays if we remain glued to what we are doing instead of intruding into someone's affairs. It can never favor you, instead it would make people hate you more. Not just that but your personality would be relegated.
He was called back after much begging and was given strict warning. He was also removed from being the head of his department.
Behave like Romans when you get to Rome instead of doing things in your own way.
Terrible Things Are Around The Corner
Terrible Things Are Around The Corner
I have seen so many people today who are suffering. People who are suffering can have the opportunity to overcome their suffering just because of the obviousness attached to it. Making your suffering obvious sometimes can be of great help to humanity.
What can this people truly need from you or from those who have in abundance.
Since you have in abundance, you have to give to those who are suffering since they have submitted their ply to you. Give when you have and give when they ask from you. There are so many people who can not talk when they are starving, and when you discover this factor, call them and give to them as givers never lack.
My mother is selling foodstuffs for so long now. She has been of help to people and has been so nice to those around her. Many people have been coming to her just to buy things on credits. They can only come to pay when they have the money. Just today, someone came to pay my mum a huge sum of money. She has been owing her for months but refused to ask from her instead just exercise patience until she has the money to pay. Now, she has paid the money and can always come for more when she wants.
There are so many people who are buying things on credit from my wife and are always paying whenever they receive salaries. Monthly salary earners have been trying a lot as it is not easy to wait for one month before you eat. We need money to cater for our body and to sometimes enjoy when needed. We need money to take our children to places and to give them sound Education. We need money to feed and when we wait for months, it would not be easy for us here.
Some of who are just enjoying themselves but in pretence. These people are just trying to move on with their lives instead of making people know about their present or their natural situation. Knowing your present situation can make you prevail over what your present outcome would be.
It is not right to enjoy in pretence. Let people know who and what your present nature is. Pretending to be what your power cannot carry can destroy your personality. There are some people out there who are ready to hide their feelings. They are not ready to talk to people about their present situation and are not ready to make their ways straight. Those who fall under this position are those who are shy to talk and to ask from people.
Shyness can cost you what you are not expecting. We must not be shy to voice out our present situation instead speak up when needed.
Many people who have this characteristic of not opening up may be as a result of fear.
Sometimes I kept on asking myself, ``Why do people fear? What is in fear that is meaning people fear. When you have fear in you, you cannot be able to ask from those who are ready to help you. Inculcating the habit of fear is not the best.
To me, I can meet up with anyone who I feel like meeting for help except when he or she is not in my spirit to go to or else, there is no one I cannot meet up with.
When you fear, you will lose so many things in life. This is why we must be bold enough and be strong to face your next future.
Who Do You Take As Number One?
Someone asked me this question in school. To be precise, my classmate who h got me confused. Have so many people who have taken pains to make us the best in life. They have made us happy in many ways and we have to make them happy in return. So, we all have choices in who we believe is the best for us in life.
If you were asked this question, your answer must and I'm pretty sure should be your mother. Yes… That's the fact and the truth. Our mothers are the only ones we must take as first as they have tried hard to make us smile and also to make us the best in life. Life has been so good to many people and has been so bad to some people.
Some so many people saying within them that when they see their mothers, they would not take it lightly. They have not grown up knowing their mothers. They have been willing to know who gave birth to them but in their real sense, their mothers dumped them when they were still tender. This is why we have orphanage homes and those in it are those who are in one way or the other hot abandoned by their oarenrslst, especially their mothers.
A mother who carried their children for nine months and later got their children dumped after nine months is not worth being called a mother. They are the ones who are a disgrace to motherhood and are not allowed to talk when other mothers are talking.
Sometimes back, I heard on the news that someone abandoned a newborn baby in a junction. This child was so cute and handsome. After announcing for several days, he was taken to the orphanage home. To cut it short, we just need to behave so well as mothers. When we knew that we are not up to maturity age, then we just have to maintain instead of coming home with an unwanted pregnancy. When you know it is not time for you to get yourself a man, then you just need to hold on until it is time to do what you are willing to do.
Wait for your time and the right time. If you are not ready to wait, then find yourself a husband to get married to.
As a guy, you are not ready to wait, the get yourself a woman so that you will not have the mind of abandoning a newly born baby somewhere.
So, being a mother is not a day job and so, you must know what it takes to be one. Those in the orphanage homes, have mothers but do not have who to call mothers. Who will they love and who will they choose as their best? This is another aspect we need to consider.
It would have been better if there is no one abstaining from doing what he or she can't carry. Unwanted pregnancy can cause something else to humanity. This is why we must find a way to remain ourselves instead of involving in something we cannot finish.
**Back to my point**
My mother has been there to take good care of me and has been there to make me great. She is the advice giver and the one who can go the extra mile to put smiles on your face. My mother is the one who has failed to eat until I'm satisfied. She can never let me down and can never let me go astray. Anytime I'm going out of the line, she puts me through and makes me come back to my normal sense.
To be sincere, fathers are also trying and can be the best only if they can do what mothers can do. Fathers can make rules and can make sure we follow the rules by all means. When a father gives you money to buy something, he is always at rest because he wants you to deliver what he sent you successfully. Mothers on the other hand can never be at rest until they are back home without complaining.
To sum it up, the one who cares for me is my number one. He or she is the one I could make the best choice.
Cheers….
**All images are my properties**
Advice And Graduating Students
I'm a girl who always wants people around. I'm so happy for the seniors in the school who just graduated and they have done their graduation ceremony. It's an honor being a witness to this day. I have been witnessing the graduation ceremony but this one was one of its kind. I was so happy that it went alongside an award giving day where some dignitaries were present.
To be sincere, I have not witnessed an award giving day in my life but I have witnessed one today. It was a nice one and a day all my senior students would always live to remember. A day that marks minus one part of school hardships. To be sincere, it is not easy to be in school a.d not easy to shoulder school activities. They have shouldered school activities for 12 years starting from their primary school to their secondary School. Now it's time to move on to the outside world either to complete their schooling in a higher institution or to make some money.
Moving to the higher institution is another hardship they have to pass through but when they are determined, they shall pass through all their endeavors at all costs. Going to the higher institution is another 5 years journey which they must pass through. This is why they have to be more careful on whatever and wherever they go to and wherever they might be right now. They should know that life is more precious when it comes to living in it. But when you are made to live your life with love and share what you have with people as well as sharing your pains and gains with those around you, life would be seen as so simple.
Life after school is a life divided in several ways. Either you gain or you lose. But to crown it all, we all want to gain but always detest loss. My seniors have tried their best to conquer the first phase of life and are ready to go through the second phase of life. Living a gainful life is the best we must get involved in or else we would have ourselves to be blamed.
I'm just happy that one day I would be just like them and having my own graduation would be my honor. My set is the next in line and I may stylishly wish myself a happy graduation in advance. Time can always run despite the fact that we humans see it as slow. It is moving to a faster rate. My seniors just finished after the little time they entered the last and final class. This is how it goes and how it would be for my set as well. We all will have to graduate and make our days great and splendid.
My prayer for them is that they should see that which they are looking for and should meet up with their heart desires. Their dreams shall come to reality no matter what. All their worries shall turn to happiness and they shall Excel in life and shall be the best in wherever they go to.
I'm sure that someone would be praying this for me too and if not someone would pray this for me when I'm just like them.
I missed my senior students. They were tough and friendly. They have one way or the other helped me when I was in need and when I needed them most. I love them all and it was just as if they were still available, which is not possible. As time goes by, things change. This shows that time waits for no man. We need to do what we need to do at the right time. There is time for everything and so we have time to be serious and time to be inactive or stubborn.
The joy of Friday is still flowing in me as I gazed at my students' pictures. They have tried in their own way when they were still in school to put us in a better place.
A Foe Or A Friend?
A Foe Or A Friend?
Life does not smile at everyone and does not look at one and say you will become who you want to be. The only one who can dictate how and who he or she wants to be is your very self. You have the power to choose between what and what not to do. You have the right to choose between people, who you want as friends and who you detest as friends. Making friends is the only one we have to choose, either the good one or the bad one. It's our choice to choose from anyone who clicks our kind of minds or who has the passion to be friends with you.
Having someone as your foe cannot help the situation as it is not the best to have enemies. I have a friend who we are just friends but not bosson one. It was initially best of friends but was broken due to lack of trust. To me, I'm the kind of person who does not like or love keeping someone as enemy, but love making friends. I would choose to have you as my friend but an ordinary one instead of making enemies with you.
Anyone who's ready to betray your trust becomes your foe. This one is not just a foe but someone who can never go according to your way or who cannot go according to your way.
A friend was supposed to be there for one another but not to make each other enemies. They were supposed to watch each other's back. They were supposed to stand in as true and the only one friend instead of doing something disgusting. I have seen two friends who stand out to help each other. The first one made it big while the other one was still struggling. After some months of making it, he came back to help his friend out. Sometimes, we are the ones who can make ourselves as foes. The way you behave to your best friend can make you become a foe to your friend.
So, we should always think twice about having the mind of making friends as it is a form of sacrifice you have to make. The sacrifice of loving one another. The sacrifice of making your relationship with one another the best one ever.
After making your friend pass through pains, you just need to ask yourself some simple questions which one of them should be "how do I make my friend happy? Should i be called a friend or foe?
The only person that is supposed to enjoy you as a person is your friend because when something happens to you, his forbidding, your family would be the ones to claim your entitlement. Your friend would not have said that to you. So, be your brother's keepers and make your friend great when you have the opportunity or when you have in abundance. As they once said, Charity begins at home. So, make every effort to get your friend to smile so that you would not turn into enemies in the long run.
So, please, tell me….
**Who are you to who you call your best friend?**
**A friend or a foe**
Don't Forget To Say I Love You
Don't Forget To Say I Love You
Children are the gift from God and the only ones who can make us remain happy at all times. We all are gifts to our parents. So, our parents are doing their best to make us remain happy and to remain the best children. We are the future of leaders of our time.
I have been saying it when I saw the kind of love my parents do shower on me. They always showed me love and also showed me and taught me how to love and to be loved. I have seen many parents who always leave their children to suffer. They do not want to help their children grow and do not want to add wisdom in whatever they are doing. When it comes to children, parents should always be there for them and be their backbones.
Sometimes parents are the ones causing harm to their children. They are not ready to teach their children to follow the right path. The fact remains that telling our children what we need to tell them is indeed so important as they should know what needs to be known.
**Back to my point**
It's good to always tell your child or your children **I LOVE YOU** daily. This will make them feel so much at home and would always feel happy. They will have every right to remain the best children on earth and would have the mindset of the fact that you love them so much.
Some parents would love to lay curses on their children making them feel unwelcome in their own house. They would be feeling uncomfortable and uneasy to talk or to speak their mind. Do you know that when you lay curses on your children, they would turn out to bear the curses you Laird on them? This is why we must not even waste our saliva to lay any form of curse on them. They are our future and whatever they would be in the future would be to our good. The best is to say words that will make them feel at home and the words that can make them work towards their future.
There is no harm in telling your child "I love you". This is the method you can use to give them hope in life. Most of our children might have lost hope in their dreams and must have different thoughts about life after seeing the way life is treating their parents. This is why most of the boy's have to get themselves involved with things that they are not supposed to get involved with. Things like this can put you into where you suppose not to be. They are those things that could harm your future. Remember that your future is important and must not be toil with.
Let your child know the difference between right and wrong while they are still young or still in their tender age. When you do this, they will have the right to follow the right path as the path to greatness is just the rough path. They should understand that hard work pays.
Find time to always have a heart to heart talk with your children. Tell them about life and what they would face when they grow up to become men and women. Tell them the truth about life and how they would feel when they enter the labor market. Tell them that life is easy only when they work hard but not when they are lazy. Tell them that laziness is not the best as they would be jobless.
To our upcoming parents, don't forget to say to your children you love them daily.
You May Be Known With What You Are Doing Or What You Do.
You May Be Known With What You Are Doing Or What You Do.
Life is just too much for us and the way we live our lives depends on the way we are seen in the area we lived in. This is why we must not do anything to tarnish our image wherever we are. You may not know that people are watching your respective move, but to be sincere, many people are watching what you are doing. They are watching you and to you, no one knows you and you are just there for their sake. Those who know you and have noticed you are just too much.
A girl who happened to serve as a salesgirl to our neighbour happened to do something so bad the day before yesterday. She has been seen as a nice and good girl. Everyone knew her to be who she is but to be sincere, we have different thoughts within us. What we do is in us and the way we keep secrets is just a reflection of our true nature.
This girl has been staying with the woman for about four years now without any form of issues. She has been seen as a very nice girl just because of her character towards people and the customers around her. She is a jovial type.
Our neighbour brought her from the village to help her sell as my neighbour is into cooking. So, she was always the one supporting her boss in the kitchen and also helping her in going to market. Sometimes, she complained about waking up too early which I saw reasons with her. but she has to do it as it is the job she signed for. The money she was being paid was so small but she accepted it from the beginning.
Just this year, some of the close neighbours where they are selling decided to deceive this girl to be saving some amount of money with them. She foolishly began to save this money with this woman. So, she was just doing it out of the will of the people who told her to.
Just two days ago, the boss has been suspecting her of this habit of stealing her money. She decided to call her to a place in disguise to scold her so that she could confess to what she has been doing. Truly, she owned up to her wrong deeds. So, she called out those who she has been saving money with. She told her boss the amount she has been saving. the total amount she already has with the woman. It was a very huge amount of money. So, she began to apologise for the wrong deed she has done.
What she said when she came to my mother's shop was that she was feeling ashamed just as if people have been saying bad against her. She was so ashamed of herself to the fullest. When she is passing by, she always greets everyone in the street, but she was having the feeling that those who she knew have been saying bad of her.
So, it was a tug of war between the boss and the woman she was saving money with. After all the turnaround, the boss was given half of the money as the one she was saving with has used the money.
So, this girl was known for what she has done and had been tagged as a thief. This was not what she planned but a plan by the woman who deceived her.
So, the name.we.are known for may not.be what people would. call us but would call us with the bad we have done.
TeamWork
TeamWork
Teamwork is the act of doing things in unison. I was going to my school for a mathematics lesson this morning when I saw someone on a bike and written on the back of his shirt was teamwork. After getting to school, I decided to have a rethink of this topic. It would be a topic that has been enticing me. I got interested in this topic and decided to make this write up.
I was also carrying out physics practicals in the school, where my physics teacher told us to group ourselves into four which happened to be four per group. It was truly the best as we worked together. We did practicals on electricity where we made use of potentiometer, ammeter, voltmeter and jockey. It was a practice I have not done before but I did practice it so much as it is for my exams.
So, we got some readings which we assumed to be correct. We achieved our aim through team work. We worked together to get something out of nothing. It was a perfect one we had today. I felt so happy and excited.
It's good to always embark on togetherness as this will help you become so grounded. I never knew the true meaning of team work not until today. The very moment we were together, everything worked out to be working perfectly. All thanks to our physics teacher. We did mathematics but did physics later which got me to understand the meaning of togetherness.
Have you ever been in the realm of team work before? I hope yes… if so, then you should know how to work. You should know how it feels to remain in togetherness. You should know how it feels to have people around you to do that piece of work together.
Being sincere teamwork pays. When you have to work together, it will make you remain ahead. This is why you must embark on being TOGETHER. It is good to always have people who can work in unison and in oneness. In your respective place of work, you might have every reason to work diligently with each other, but when you work on your own, you may find it so tough. This is why we have to work with people who have the same goal and the same mind as us.
There is an adage which says that when you wash your hands with one hand, it would not be neat but when you join your both hands together, it would turn out to be neat. In another way, when you hold a bunch of.broom together, it would.be difficult to break it, this is because the broom is always together since the broom sticks are packed together. This is how it works. You just have to be together.
Aan told his children to remain together after seeing the way they have been towards each other. He told them not to separate at all costs. So, he had a land he was supposed to give to his children. It got to some months after telling them to be together. Some people came over to purchase the land at a higher price and they would.be paying the family monthly. So, he related the issues to his children and the youngest son was so happy as well.as.all.the children. It got to a time where the wife of the youngest son lured him to do what he was supposed not to do. The money was in the account of the eldest son which he had planned to share accordingly as their father died of a heart attack.
So, the youngest began to torment the elder brother so badly. He was so serious and does all.his best to collect his share. After some time, he nearly killed.his elder brother just because of money. The elder brother decided to share the money and give it to his younger brother where the elder brother divided his own into parts and decided to give it to his husband. After two months, he spent his money uselessly and came back to his elder brother begging. He begged for forgiveness. His elder brother was having a heart of gold and decided to forgive him. He gave him some huge amount of money to start up afresh.
Hadn't been for the younger brother listening to the elder brother, he would have not used his money uselessly. So, unison is the best in life.
Teamwork pays in life and I would want you all to choose this aspect of life.
Good day to you all…
Patience Can Always Win The Race
Patience Can Always Win The Race
We should be patient in whatever we are doing as patience can win it all. Sometimes people do not want to exercise patiently when doing things. They are ready to do and undo.
Most people want to commit just because of pride. When you have pride within you, you will not be able to listen to people's advice. You would believe that you are ok by yourself.
What does it take to say sorry? It takes nothing and can never remove anything from you. So, always be patient as it is the best option in life.
Going through this aspect of life needs patience. Life does not need haste but you must move through the realm of life with patience. Sometimes when you are doing things, you must make sure to do it without being in a rush. There is no rush in life as slow and steady wins the race.
Many youths today are not concerned with patience but are ever ready to be fast forward. They don't want to wait for their time as they detest patients. This is why they have been trying hard to commit what they suppose not to commit themselves to. The youths have been into internet fraud. Sometimes they are killed just to get money. Why on earth would you kill your fellow human being just to make money? It is not good to get involved in rituals as this would tarnish your image or relegate your personality.
The truth is that we should always be patient in whatever we do.
A man gave birth to three children and does not have the capacity to train them to school. He was struggling to make it better and to feed his family. His wife on the other hand has been trying his best to bring something home for the family. She doesn't want to leave her family just like that without looking after them. She has been trying hard to make headway like her husband. One fateful day, one of the children had to leave the house and rushed to meet up with a herbalist just for fast money.
He was given a mirror to check the one he would love to kill for ritual. He checked through the mirror and saw his mother, father, sister and his younger brother. He was confused about whom to choose as he loved them all. After sometime, he told the herbalist that he was going to ease himself and there he ran away. He came back home and told his parents about it. He said he can never do something like this to them.
He wanted to make quick money, but after thinking twice, he concluded and made a u-turn. Making fast money comes with a price. You just have to pay for the money you are willing to get. This is not the best way.
Patient can always win it all...let's be patient with whatever we are doing. Doing things in a rush can make you rush back gaining nothing.
Wonders Shall Never End
Wonders Shall Never End
There are wonders happening all over the places and all over the place you are today. When you see someone saying wonders shall.never end, such person might mean so many things.
Wonders Shall never end can be in the aspect of :
**Surprise**: This surprise may be in different ways. There are sometimes when you may be looking for something and you are unable to have it. Now, after going to your friends house whom has refused you what you asked from him or her, seeing him or.her enjoying or giving to other people. You would see this as wonders that can always surface at all times. Friends were suppose to watch each other's back but to to reject one another in times of troubles. Friends were suppose to be helping each other financially and facially but must not reject each other.
It may be in forms of:
**Happiness**: When you were sad at a time and immediately met something good that can make you feel excited, you will feel on top of the world. This would call for celebration and indeed it's called wonders. Wonders in terms of happiness is just the best. I could still remember back then when I needed some money for something which we were doing in church. My parents were financially handicapped and does not have enough to give to me, I became so sad and feeled up in sad mood. It was not too long, I was called by my friend, Agnes to come to her place. I did not know what she has for me but she said it was a surprise package. I wouldn't doubt her but I was sad and does not want to go. Based on trust, I went to her place. When I got there, I did not waste time instead ask her about the surprise package she has for me. She began to tease me which made me got angry. I asked her to stop joking with me and bring out the package she has for me.
After getting inside her room, she brought out something that was wrapped and threw it to me. When I opened it, wow…!!!... I was the happiest being on earth. It was the exact thing I wanted my parents to buy for me. This got me excited. This is the kind of surprises everyone is willing to hear. Surprise that comes in the form of happiness but not in the form of sadness of expectations. Expectations in the sense that something you are hoping for, but something you have gotten and have seen in truth and in reality.
**Gossip**: Most people always say this when they are about to gossip. They are those who are ready to say all.what they have not seen. They can lie for what they did not see and exaggerate to make people believe in whatever they have to say. So, they have this system of saypmg to themselves, "wonders shall.never end".
The Internet
*_THE INTERNET_*
The internet as proposed by a computer novice is a site for browsing. Where as there are much more functions of the internet than a mare human intelligence is subjected to.
Unlike other highways which helps in transportation, the internet is a broad highway which aid the transmission of ideas and information. It connects millions of people, devices and networks together and as a result, the internet is said to be the largest network in the world. The internet is made up of public, private, academic, organization, and even government networks of local to global scope that are linked by a broad array of electronic and optical network technologies.
Most times, people often make mistakes when defining the internet and the intranet.
Intranet is a private network limited to a local geographical area usually a business organization. The intranet provides services accessibly only to those within the organization, while the internet is a global network.
The internet in one way or the other has an effect on man's everyday life. In a day over a billion users from various parts of the world make use of the internet. The internet has greatly impacted man's life in the aspect of communication especially. Our planet has been reduced to a global village by the advent of the internet. One could send emails to any part of the world from the comfort of his home. Other benefits of the internet include; entertainments, e-banking, e-learning, information exchange to mention but a few.
As it is known that there's nothing good without a bad side, so does the internet too.
Despite its numerous benefits, the internet is still being abused by its users in aspects like fraud, hacking, theft, mail bombing, spamming and its largest disadvantage *PORNOGRAPHY* which is a big threat to an individual's mental life.
The positive choices we make while using the internet for its benefits should be the same as the ones we make to avoid its disadvantages.
The internet I'd say has done more good than harm to human race. It's left for us as individuals to use the internet wisely and put an end to its abuses.
Responsibility And Personality
The starting point of full control of your conscious and subconscious mind is for you to accept complete responsibility.
Responsibility for what you think, what you say or hear, what you do and observe around you, especially for your responses to the inevitable ups and downs of daily life.
Procrastination is the way of postponing, delaying, stopping or putting off, especially out of habitual carelessness or laziness.
No one can make you feel inferior because you are yourself, without your concern except your responsibility is not an option that is open to the individual.
friends, do you know that the best time for you to achieve your plans and become successful in life is now because time waits for no man and one decision is yours to choose.
Tomorrow might be too late, plan for the future.
Let it be mandatory, it is an absolute fact of human existence, if there is an effect in your life which you are unhappy with, it is solely up to you to change the course, you are completely responsible and this is what we call the "reality principle".
Thinking there is time is quite deceptive, whenever you are pushed to unnecessary relaxation, it leads to failure and people call it being unlucky or unfortunate. Create a time for your future, make good plans, decide on a good choice and desist from bad attitudes. When you create a time for yourself, ensure you try working towards it, the giant you refuse to confront today will eventually hinder you tomorrow, be alert, and success calls for adequate planning.
Always Remember!
Whenever you fall trying to get up, pick something up. Strike when the iron is hot and also always put God first in all that you do and never relent because a minute passed from your time is decreased from your plan.
Avoid procrastination and uphold a responsibility with great dignity and honour for you to stand for what you are and in what you believe in........
Music And I
Music comes with pleasant and unpleasant sounds. Sometimes when we dance to some music, we are very much excited. This is because it brings joy to us and to those who value it. Some people truly cannot do without music and can always dance to any forms of.music given to them.
> “Music is the language of the spirit. It opens the secret of life bringing peace, abolishing strife.” — [Kahlil Gibran](https://www.google.com/amp/s/parade.com/1239349/michelleparkerton/music-quotes/amp/)
Most of us love anything called music and cherish some kinds of music. Sometimes we see music as a means of peace. We feel at peace when we listen to some secluded kind of music. Sometimes when someone is angry or annoyed about something, he or she would be able to feel at home after listening to some kinds of music. This is why music can serve as means of bringing peace to us.
It opens the secrets of life. We live in a life where we have to keep some secrets. To be sincere, when you are striving for something, you don't have to waste your time other than to listen to music. This will wear away your immediate mood and make you feel so much at home. Your mind would be at peace and rest while listening to music.
Music is the road to mending relationships. When there is a breakage in a relationship, the possible means of amending such a relationship is through music. I still remember the story my dad told me about his love line. He said, there was a girl he loved so much and did not know how to speak to her. When she listened to one song, he used the lyrics to compose a letter which he sent to the girl. After going through the letter, the girl became love drunk. At the end, she became so glued to my dad and this made my dad so happy. So, music can bring love to the real end of life.
Most people cannot read without listening to music. They have to put on earphones in order to read and assimilate. They have made music so important and without it, they cannot read properly.
In another way, there is some music which serves as noise to humanity. These songs may be the ones one does not understand or does not like. When you live something, you can be able to make it close to you, but when you do not, your aim would be for that thing to be very far from you.
Music is the food of life. It makes people who are drawn into it become so glued to it. It serves as a firm of unity. We are United through music and music alone.
It's Best You Run
It's Best You Run
The best is to run away if you are living under pressure. Some people tend to remain in their present state which can destroy their lives instead of running away. When you stay you would be prone to either die or destroy your life totally.
Running Does not mean you are afraid but means you don't want to remain at a spot without moving ahead. Remember that forward ever it backward never. No one would love to move backward except if such a person is sick.
There are so many opportunities we have seen as opportunities but are really not opportunities but somehow ways to wear your life away. A woman who was married to the man she loved happened to face trouble in her marriage. She was not comfortable with her marriage despite the fact that she was doing so well out there. She has a good reputation out there and people do have good assurance on her. She did go to people's homes to settle marital problems but failed to make her home better.
She cannot speak up, instead dying in pretense and silence. The husband has been molesting her, beating her up. When people come to the house to pay them a visit, they will pretend to be good together. No one knows if the husband has been threatening her not to speak out about what he is doing to her. So, she kept mute without talking or saying her problem to anyone instead of covering and swallowing it to the brim.
She was dying in silence without relating her problem to anyone. She has a pastor to relate his problem with. She has other people who are close to her to which she can relate her issue with. She could not do that and so, was ensuring the suffering all alone. This man always beats her up, making her suffer after spending her money. The funniest aspect of it was that the man was the one keeping his money. This was the mistake she has made. The man later used his knee to hit her chest which gave her problems. She ran to the hospital pretending nothing had happened to her. After a lot of check up, it was discovered that her husband was the one involved .
So, sometimes, we need to run from the marriage which we feel is giving us problems. The home which we are not comfortable with is a home of fire and so, we don't need to stay in such a home , instead we should take heels. Relationship was supposed to be based on trust.
In another way, when you have a friend that is not helping you when he or she has the necessary things which he or she can use to help, then such a friend will run away from you. You don't need to wait until you end your life trying to make things happen between you instead, take heel as it is still fresh. A friend in need is supposed to be a friend indeed. There is a joy in having a good friend but one can not derive joy in having the wrong one as a friend.
You have market which you are trading. If the business is not yielding profit, my brother, you don't need to waste time before taking your leave or calling the business a quit. We live a life to make profit but not to lose. No one would be happy after losing a tangible amount of money. Take yourself out of the with immediate effect/alacrity.
Do you know that you are the problem you have? The answer is yes. We are the problem we are facing right now. Supposing we had made things right by quitting some things we were supposed to have quitted, we should have not been passing through these difficult times.
Living a happy life lies in your hands and living a sad life is equally in your hands. Know your limits and don't let someone lure you to what you feel cannot bring your success. Don't let someone deceive you which may send you to your grave. Be careful of the kind of friend you keep and the kind of people who give you wrong advice.
Hotdogs
Just today, my teacher went for supervision in a school. He is a home management teacher who loves his job to the fullest and has passion for cooking. To be sincere, I have not seen the kind of dish he brought back. He was given two types of dishes and one of it was the one I tasted. It tastes so delicious. He gave some of the second dish he was given to my boss.
He brought Semo md soup. The soup was melon soup. It looks so delicious and well prepared.
The one I was given is the hotdog. This should be my first time seeing this kind of dish. I was initially thinking that it is something that will not have taste not knowing that it will look so delicious. I took a bit of it. I discovered that what I was tasting contained many kinds of ingredients.
In the bread, there was
**Gizzard**
The gizzard made the hotdog to look so delicious and taste as if it is something else. On a normal day gizzard do make snacks taste delicious.
**Mayonnaise:** The only thing I knew one can use mayonnaise for is salad and sometimes one can apply it to bread. This can really taste so nice. I do eat it with bread most of the time. Mayonnaise is rubbed in the each slice of the bread and paired together. It's a sandwich. But the mayonnaise will.be applied to each slice of bread and then the gizzard will be placed alongside.
**Sandine:** I know you have tasted this before. Sandine comes with pieces of Titus fish. It is always having this aroma that would make you know that it is sandine. I love eating it with bread or when I'm preparing either indomie or spaghetti.
**Egg**. The egg sliced but mush. The egg used cooke.
Sometimes eating this kind of food can make you look settled and robust.
Take a look at the whole images I took related to the sandwich.
Boy Child Day
Yesterday was a boy child and I have to come up with this to write about boys. There are some things I need to share to the boys which are very important. Things that can make them change their ways when they grow to become men.
**Rape:** Rape cannot be of help to you as it is a great sum and disgrace to humanity. Raping can destroy the love of the one been raped. The fact remains that as a boy, you should try hard to desist from it as this may bring shame to you and to your family. Remember that their is penalty allotted to those who get involved in raping. Being tagged as a rapist is not a good name, but a name that can make your image tarnish. No one wants to live a life of bad name except you are the type who does not love your life.
Those who rap can go to life imprisonment. They can go to jail for the crime they have committed. Government detest those who molest the girl child as they are precious beings. Although boys are also precious, they can destroy their personalities when they defy a girl or girls.
**Abusing Your Parents:** It is a sin to abuse your parents. It is a bigger sin in the sight of our creator. Our parents are our world. They have tried hard to bring us into this life. This means they have given us the right to be present in this world and to do things which we are supposed to do. Our parents are to be respected and honored to the fullest. Remember that our mothers have tried their best to carry us when we were still babies. Remember that they carry us for nine months. They have made us the best in life. They don't want to see us suffer and do not want to see us sad. We should remember that our mothers may not have enough, and yet they want to borrow to make us happy. They are ready to go the extra mile for us to feel happy. So, abusing them would be a course unto our path. When you respect your parents, you will have the mind to make it great in life.
**Your Wife:** When you grow into a full man, you must take good care of your wife. There are so many father's today who do not want to see their wives sad. They have great love for their wives and do not want to see them in a sad mood. They have taken upon themselves to love their wives for who they are. They have the mind of taking good care of their children and teach them to trend the right path. Since you have grown to be a man, you now have a bigger responsibility which you are to take care of. This responsibility is to promote your love life into a second phase of life.
**Respect Your Nationality:** Any country you are in is your dignity. You must portray your country with good names. There is no country without corruption, but all we have to do is to paint our countries with good names.
**Fighting:** There is no need to fight just because it can make us lose our personalities and can make people take us for granted. When we fight, we are entitled to lose so many opportunities. Remember that we are entitled to work diligently and without causing any troubles. So, when you fight there are many things you are losing. There was a man who was known as someone who did commit nuisance in the society. He was just in the community without moving forward. He later became tout and tug whom people were contacting to fight for them. After a few years, he died of what he never wanted to stop. He thought he could make a name with the act of fighting for people, but this rendered him useless and made him lose his life.
Paint your image well in society and people will respect you in the long run. Make people around you happy and learn how to render help to people. Do not deny people of their entitlement or their rights, instead make them know the true meaning of who they are. Give and help those who do not have. Help the helpless.
**I remain your girl, Elohor**
When Your Light Has Come.
We all have different reasons to be ok earth and different time to make it great in life. This has been right from onset and no one can change it. There is a saying in the holy Bible that there is time for everything. A time to sow and a time to reap. And the rest.
Ecclesiastes 3:1-11 NIV: There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build, a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing, a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away, a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace.
[King james version](https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bible.com/bible/111/ECC.3.1-11.NIV)
All these once have been said in the Bible and we just have to follow it at all cost. So, we have different time during which we can make it better in life. This time is the time that can never pass you by but can only delay. Most people, especially the youths of today, are not ready to wait for their time to come but are ever ready to bypass their time. This is why they are not living up to the appointed time they were supposed to live on earth.
There is time for everything and we just have to wait until the time is right or else, we may lose it all.
Your progress depends on how faithful you are towards your daily activities. It depends on how you are able to work very hard to achieve something tangible on earth.
So, remember that when your time comes, you will be the happiest being on earth. Most people may be thinking that you have no way of making success in life. They may be thinking that success has run very far from you, but when it comes no one would believe it. It might be late or delayed, but it will come someday. I have seen one man who met his success at an old age. It comes just like a dream to him. Although, he has suffered a lot before meeting up with his success. His family was truly suffering so well to the extent of begging but now they have all it takes to feed whoever comes to them. This is why we must wait for our precious time to come before we act.
The fact remains that when your light begins to show forth, you will keep on glowing and glowing until you begin to see more of it.
So, your light is your road to your success. This day cannot pass you by only if you bypass your light to grab a quick way to success.
Your light can only be determine by your creator. He lone knows when and where to grant you with your light. Sometimes, he might discover that when it comes, we might misuse it and so will take it farther until it is ripe.
Your light is your passion.
We Need People To Stand
Life I all about who we are and what we do. Life is all about the one we keep as friends. Friends can make you stand. There are some friends who can bring good fortune to you. People are the ones who can make people stand. I have seen friends who were childhood and did not have anything. They have been together for so long now. They were living on same house and do things together. So, after staying for years without work, God blessed one and became rich. The second one did not have work but still managing. After few months, the one he became rich had to call his friend and set him up for a business. He began the business and also made it great.
One fateful day, the one working was sacked and was left without a job. Thank God he had set someone up. So, his friend whom he set up also gave him a tangible amount of money which he used to start his business. He was selling at a wholesale rate. So, he was rich and was doing fine.
Now, if he did not set his friend up, what would he have fallen back to? This is why giving to someone who can help you is important. There is always power behind giving. Your friend is your savior one way or the other.
Some friends are on the contrary. They are ready to drain you to the last level after which they will run away from you. But whenever you buckle up again, you will see them running back to you. They are those ones who do not want your progress but always want to be the ones on top.
When you have a problem, they can never come close to you, but would try hard to reject you. We call these kind of friends **traitors**. The only good thing they can do for you is to deal with and collect from you, but can never want your progress. Friends were supposed to stand by each other. They were supposed to watch each other's backs. They were supposed to be truthful to each other.
Nowadays, people don't want to have love for each other, instead want all by themselves. Love seems to have **gone on strike** among friends. This is why people only want to eat from you but love hiding theirs.
Friends can make you stand while some are like devils. They can cause your downfall. This means they would be happy when you are falling.
There is a saying in my country here that **you scratch my back, I scratch your back**. It means it would be reciprocal instead of being one-sided.
Someone who told his friend that someone wants to send money to him. So,he told his friend to use his account just because of trust. The money is a huge sum of money. So, after the money had been sent, his friend ran away from home and even ran to a place where no one would see him. The one who has the money began to search for him but was not found. He decided to forget about it. So, after three years, he came back to his friend apologizing. He begged him to forgive him for what he had done. Being the one with heat of gold, he forgave him but promised himself not to trust anyone again.
Sometimes we need to be good to one another as this is the best in life.
Make someone stand today and I bet you won't regret it.
The True Definition Of Mother
The True Definition Of Mother
The be sincere, mothers are the whole world of humanity. There are trillions of mothers out there with their respective characters and behaviours towards their children. Many mothers wants to he best for their children while many wants to kill their children's careers. I have seen a mother whose Child was through from the University with good grades. When the child got home, the mother tried him down just because she was not ready to let him out to look for daily bread. He began to do some mena jobs by following his mates who were not graduates to bricklaying job. He did this for over five years ignoring his certificate just to satisfy his mum. After five years, he said to himself that he has no place to go and so, he began the bricklaying job instead of going out to find a job. He felt he was making it great and his bank account was smiling seriously. So, he ignored his certificate and followed what the mum wanted for him. He was successful but did not leave his mother's sight. He was unable to get married just to satisfy his mum.
After 56years of age, the mum died without seeing her grandchildren as the guy was the only one he gave birth to. So, he got married after 55 years. This was not the best but at least her mother wanted it and he fulfilled her aim.
Back to business,
**Our mothers are our backbone**
If I may say, is there anyone on earth without mother? Some of you may say yes after going back to the orphanage homes. The orphans if I may say have parents, but are not giving the opportunity to taste their mother's love. So, they have second mothers which is the one who will take care of them in the orphanage homes.
**They give us the best advise in life:**
The fact is that, our mothers is our backbones. They are all we need to have and all we must have in life. Without them, we cannot make some keen decisions and would not be able to make the right way out. They have the right way of letting us to make good decisions which will paddle our lives ahead. When I wanted to get married, it was my mum who gave me courage. She gave me the mind to make a better home and the mind to make a better wife to my husband. She was there to advice me towards somethings that can give me challenge when I am in my husband's house.
**They are the best helpers**
They help us when we are not having. I could still remember back then when I wanted to enter school, it was my mum who singlehandedly brought out the money for my school fees and my registration fees while my dad was not even concerned of it. The reason I got into the higher institution was my mum just because of the fact that she stood by me. The very first time I was admitted, I could see the joy on my mum's face. She was even happier than I who was admitted.
Mothers can walk barefooted just to help their children. They can be drenched by the rain just to fulfil their promises of love to their children. I still remembered how my mum went into the rain when I was sick. It was raining seriously and a native leaf can as needed by my grandpa to revive me. She did not mind the gravity of the rain instead ran into it just to search for the leaf. After a while, she came back drenched bit with the leaf. This was how my grandpa got me revived. That same moment when I was sick, I could. It eat, so my mum could equally not eat. She starved herself but struggled to make sure I eat something. When I was revived, she was the happiest mom on earth. I truly enjoyed her as she gave me lots of milk to get myself back on track.
Our mothers can not relax when we are not stable. They must make sure we are stable and we'll organized before they can be able to remain firm.
**Back to myself as a mother**
Now, I'm a mother and can I be able to transfer love to my children? The best answer is yes. Love is all we all longed for in life and mothers showed us those love.
I am the type who loves my kids so much. I cannot see my child being in a bad mood without me remaining in good mood. When my last son was sick, I was not myself until I took him to the hospital. When he was well, I was happy and ignored the amount I have spent on him. So, I would not sleep not until my children have slept. They are my world and I promised to take good care of them as mother. My children can never suffer the best at I have suffered instead will live to enjoy life. I will make sure to fend for them at all costs.
See The Me In Me (My Introductory Post)
See The Me In Me (My Introductory Post)
I'm just a girl who loves doing what I love to do. There is something I love so much which involves the aspect of writing. To be sincere, I have not been into blogging all my life but I just hope to learn from everyone right here and to know more people right here. I know that through this kind of blogging, one can make friends and can even go to the extent of having good friends. Friends who can be of help to you and whom you can also help.
I have heard of this platform through some people's conversations for a month now, but I was waiting for the day I would get myself a smartphone which I could use to explore the platform. Thank God that I now have one and I did not forget to have in mind to join the league of BCH.
I have heard of this crypto called BCH and I have read a lot about it. I knew it was the kind of Crypto that has a future. So, the future of this crypto must begin with me and my household.
To many people, they have their respective reasons for being or getting involved in wherever they are today. They have reasons for being who they are today, but to me, my major reason for being here is to bring BCH, as I have read, into a good and solid reality. I have to make sure that the good news of BCH is spread in general. Although I know nothing about cryptocurrency, I'm pretty sure that I will try hard and fast to know more about cryptocurrencies. This would be with the help of the various articles on cryptocurrencies I would be seeing and reading right here.
I'm your girl, your smart girl, Eloho. I hailed from Delta State but live in Lagos State with my parents. I'm still a student whose parents are trying hard to make ends meet. I came from an average home and a home filled with decencies. I'm a Redeemer and have a solid Christian background. I'm 19 years old.
**What I love most**
No one on earth does not have a likeness for something. We are all humans and since we have blood flowing in us, this shows that we must like one thing or the other. So, to me, I love writing and most especially fiction stories. I love telling the truth no matter what it may cost me. This is because of the family I came from. My parents have taught me how to remain truthful to people and anyone around me. So, I love being truthful and hate someone who lies.
**Do I have a hobby or hobbies?**
Yes, I love reading and writing. So, I discovered that everyone here is based on writing. So, this is why I have to come here to express my feelings and bring out the passion and drive in me. I wouldn't have wanted to let the writing push in me go to waste without bringing out someone from it. I just want the world to know about what I'm capable of.
I also write inspirational words. I love giving out my best in my quota anytime, anywhere and any day.
**Who am I afraid of?**
Fear can never make you good but can make you fall at all costs. So, the only person I fear most is my God. He is my God and my most high God.
I'm who I'm and want to make people see the real reason I'm here.
**Will you keep the rules of this platform?**
I have seen that there is no platform or something that wants to work fine without rules. So, I am the type who keeps rules. I have never been found wanting in any way related to breaking rules or falling victim to rules.
So, I promised to abide by the rules of the platform and will not fall victim to any. I knew the penalties when one falls or breaks any rule.
It's nice being here….
@Elohor
