There was one time I wrote about the things that I like and from that article, people get to know me a bit more, if you haven't come across that, click this to read it. I promise to write about what I don't like and I haven't since all these days and I think this article will do justice to it a little even though I didn't title it as what I don't like.
I am about to shake some unshakable tables and I will really be ready to accept every comment underneath the article and I will make sure I reply to them to my best understanding and point of view.
Is it right for a girl I haven't met but plan to date to ask me for money?
I know a lot of people will surely get me wrong with this but let me explain myself. A female friend of mine told me about her friend that she will like me to date her friend cos he knows I am a good guy and she wants her friend to fall into the right hand. So she said she will talk to her friend about me and see if she will be interested in chatting with me too. After some minutes, she said she said she is interested and she gave me her number and I chatted her up.
Fortunately, our chat went well and it was as if we have known each other for a long time. She sent her pictures and it was all beautiful, I fell in love with her picture πππ. She saw my picture too and she was really happy that I am her spec tooπ π π . I hope she is not teasing me, anyway, our chat became every day and was going well. We had a video call and it was a nice one cos I get to see her real face and she saw mine too, the call make me fall in love with her as per a beautiful girl, lols.
As beautiful as those moments we have had chatting and talking, only one thing spoilt it and what's that? She asked me for moneyπ π π π . Although she has been giving me some stylish behaviour by telling me she needs money but I have always weaved it away. I don't know why she was doing like that maybe her friend must have painted me as a big guy in her face I don't know. She is always calling me big boy, rich guy and all sorts of words that can turn a man into mumuπ π ( sorry for that word).
Is not up to a week that all these are happening. I wouldn't lie, she is caring, lovely and friendly. She cares about me a lot but can the money she wants be the motive for all these? I was on a call with her one day, we were saying jokes and all, suddenly she just chipped in that she has a problem and am like how does what we have been saying since morning correlate with this? As a gentle guy, I asked her and said what's your problem? Guess what she said?
She said she needs money, she said she will be resuming soon in school and she needs money for clothes, foodstuff and all. And am like why all these ( in my mind though). As a sharp guy, I quickly reply to her that even I too need money that she is not the only one. Her mood changed a little and I had to bring up some fun topics to cover it all.
My point of view on the matter
Truth be said, if I am a billionaire son or let me just say assuming my parent are comfortable and really blessed and money is not a problem, I will give it to her or anyone who asks from me and is not as if the money is my problem in this present condition but it is what I don't like.
I can be accepting every other thing, but I don't like it when a girl asks me for money. If she tells me to borrow her, I will, that case is different and if it is that I understand her condition and all I will definitely give her without thinking twice. But someone I haven't met and she is already telling me she needs money, a quick question, am I her father or mother? Am I the one that father her? Am I the one that mother her?
I will be begging everyone, please don't get me wrong or misquote me, I felt at that point where we haven't met, she shouldn't be putting those things in front of me at all. I can have it in mind to give her money and I will definitely give her if I wish but she should not ask me, I feel somehow if a girl I haven't met or known very well to ask me for money, I hate it.
I have given her $4 and that's two thousand naira (#2000) in Nigeria money just to buy airtime, it came from my mind but she shouldn't ask me , I feel disgusted and somehow. I feel giving a lady I am not dating or a friend that we recently met should not ask me for money, I can be of help to her if she needs my help but not see it as something compulsory to do.
With all these that have transpired between us, I am feeling this relationship won't work because she will only be asking me for money which I won't be feeling comfortable with. I haven't asked her out cos I haven't seen her physically nor known her very well, so I told her I am scared of something and she was curious to know. I told her I will tell her when we see so that she can understand me better and not get me wrong when telling her all these. I hope she understands me and I pray we end up dating each other.
This is my point of view and how I feel, if you are not comfortable with it, share your feelings with me in the comment section, let's talk.
Thanks for reading my rubbish,I have been writing rubbish for like two days now I know π π π , pardon me and find a place to forgive me.
Byee for now π₯°π₯°π₯°.
15th Novemeber 2021.
Okay let me say I can help a friend or even someone I don't know by giving them money, but I feel most girls has turned asking a guy for money is a way to their heart or so which shouldn't be, I believe in working for myself and making my own money cause I spend a lot when I have enough money(I will probably write an article on this.)