How To Get Over Someone

AUTHOR: OMOJUWA FREEDOM 
DATE: FEBRUARY 3RD 2022

Most people have this mentality that their first love will undoubtedly be their last, and as a result of that belief, they make their first wrong decision in a relationship when the other partner hurts them (serve them breakfast, as we regard it in my country), they become absolutely devastated and begin to have psychological issues, and to some extent, they may even consider suicide, which is never an option or an escape route.

To be honest, love is exquisite, beautiful, gorgeous and amazing when you're with the right partner but when you're handed a scorching heart break from the person you love, you'll run the risk of losing yourself, and if you actually have a true feeling for the other partner, you'll probably potentially harm yourself, and if you don't, you'll most likely be depressed, unmotivated, traumatized for a long time. It's never quick and easy to get over a partner, but it's also feasible because many people have gone through it and are having the best time of their lives currently, and such experiences have taught them enough to make good partnership selections.

I had a friend that broke up with her boyfriend and the relationship was over 7 years but unexpectedly the guy saw that they can't make things work any more meanwhile it was a lie because he already had another partner that was pregnant which concludes that he was cheating while he was in relationship with my friend and that's how their 7 year old relationship ended, meanwhile this was my friend first serious relationship which she thought would also be the last but life had another plan for her.

Immediately after the break up, she began a journal and each day she would write down her feelings, 8her goals, her fear and what she accomplished each day and she did this for over 6 months which is approximately 180 days 6and she never missed a day and with time she got over the break up and now she is with another partner and in few years time they are getting married.

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Back to getting over someone after heart break, it's never easy though but the few tips I would share might help a lot which are:

1. Time Heals

The best advise I can give is to avoid any type of constant contact, since this will reduce your exposure and allow you to improve over time. We may believe that completely avoiding communication is a childish attitude, but over time you will understand that it is the most effective approach to get over someone.

Heartbreak can be a blessing in disguise, which you won't understand until you give yourself time to recuperate. During that time, you'll realize it was a mixed blessing, and you'll also relish the liberation of being unfettered once more, especially if your prior relationship was toxic.

2. Don't try to get into any relationship instantly

This is one of the most common issues people indulge in and they are often unaware of the implications of doing such. Some people may enter a new romance to make their previous partner envious, or they may enter a new relationship to pass the time and heal at the same time, but it's all risky since you could end up getting hurt again, and this time it could be even more terrible than before.

There's nothing wrong with trying out a new relationship, but it shouldn't happen right away; try to get over the previous one before moving on to the next, and the major reason you're looking for a new partnership shouldn't be because you're lonely or recently had your heart shattered.

3. Get a hobby

learn or participate in anything that makes you happy and keeps you occupied and also prevent you from thinking of your recent heartbreak. Try being in a better health conditions, try out new stuff and be involved in physical activities that will make you physically fit and glow up.

FINAL THOUGHTS

To summarize, all you need is time and space. Sincerely, emotional turmoil can make someone miserable, but the important thing is that you can benefit from it and make sure it doesn't happen again, and if it does, I'm confident you'll have more alternatives and be less particularly worried about it. Heartbreak is inevitable, and everyone goes through it at some point in their lives and for those that are still battling it, give it time you will get over it.

Thanks for reading 💙

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