Why Would I Confess my Feelings to Him?

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Confessing your Feelings. You probably already know by now that this is another topic that was discussed on the Korean Drama My ID is Gangnam Beauty. Actually, it is present on almost all of the romantic series I have already watched.

People say that you are brave if you can confess your feelings to the one you admire or have a crush on because not everyone have the guts to do it.

Usually, it is the guy that confesses his feelings to a girl and he is courageous if he does it because it means that he is confident that his feelings may be reciprocated. Sometimes, when a guy confesses to a girl, it will lead them to being in a romantic relationship.

Sadly, there are also other guys who get their hearts broken after they confess their feelings because the girl has a different type and ideal or the person just didn't pass her standards.

There are also some girls who are brave enough to express how they feel to a guy not because they are confident that it will be reciprocated but because they are sure about their emotions. And I admire those girls who are very courageous to do it.

Most people confess their emotions to their crushes because they want to take the chance and feel like it will lead them somewhere more serious, like being a couple. Some confess because of strong feelings as if they already found the one.

I remember I asked this question on noise.cash before and I will ask again.

"Should women confess their feelings too?"

Yes, why not? Because just like men, women have feelings too so they have the right to express how they feel and tell it to that specific person whom they have feelings on. Although there is a fear of being rejected and rejection will probably leave a huge mark on their hearts, at least they got to take the chance and try than to live their lives regretting not taking the chance to admit how they feel. Because you will never know if the other feels the same way to you if nobody will speak up and talk about your feelings.

However, if you are going to ask me,

"Have I tried or will I try confessing my feelings too?"

I remember when I was still in Elementary, particularly in Grade 5, a teacher asked us to answer a slum-book and there was a question asking "Who is your crush?" and it shouldn't be left blank. I, who didn't know anything about those things before, picked a random guy in our classroom, and wrote his name on that paper. Afterwards, the teacher leaked the answers of the girls and my classmates found out who is whose crushes in the class.

Later on that day, my "crush" asked and confronted me about why did I write his name on that paper. There were other guys there too and some girls were watching. And I just denied that I wrote his name as my crush.

That incident made me have trust issues with guys and I tried to guard my heart when I entered in my High School life.

Crushes is one of the main topics students talk about during vacant time, and it is also asked every time we play the game, Spin the Bottle. I don't know why it was such a big deal back then.

I surely had some crushes too, especially when I already stepped in college. And although I did not exactly confess my feelings to my "crush", I bet he knew he was my crush because my actions were just too obvious. Lols!

If ever I catch a strong emotion to someone again, would I ever consider confessing my feelings for him?

Why would I confess my feeling to him?

I am a girl with a lot of trust issues and even if the guy I have feelings for will show that he also feels the same way towards me, I will still not be the first person to confess my feelings to him. I could say that I feel the same way to him if he confesses, but not where I am the one who will make the first move.

Hyun Jung once said, "Why would I bother confess when I know it won't work out."

And we have the same thought process. To avoid being rejected, and getting my heart broken, I'd rather keep my feelings to myself than take a leap of faith, which might only leave me with open wounds.

I may be a coward with this but confessing your feelings is like a battle. You will either win and get your feelings reciprocated, or lose and get your heart broken. I chose my battles and I feel like it is not a battle worth trying.

How about you? Have you tried confessing your feelings already? Or are you like me who would just hide your feelings in the closet?