This is my ideal type of courting and why!
Generally speaking, courting is one of the most important phases of the relationship because this is where it will all start. The start of getting to know each other, grabbing every opportunity to witness what kind of person you both are, and at some point, making sure you are ready to commit to the relationship. For some men, courting is what makes them happy and become more manly because you have to stand to your belief that this person is the one you like. It’s quite hard sometimes for those introverted men to court a woman because of these inner screams and social anxieties.
I found myself in a situation wherein I asked myself what’s the most important thing in courtship. Perhaps, some of you are not interested in reading this because you are already married, in a relationship, or kind of disheartened about relationships. But for me it’s a good topic to be discussed because I am in the stage where my emotional health is very unstable. Some of you may refer to me as smart, hard-working, and a good writer, but beyond that, I just want to be lovable as well.
Consequently, my absorption of emotional triggers and emotional distress is sensitive, nowadays. I just want to write this blog because I want to share what kind of relationship I wanted to have in the future. Out of the blue, there are events in my life that will hit me hard and will tell me to stop pursuing it because others believe that it’s worth it. On the other hand, I think I want to pursue happiness and pain rather than live with regrets and doubts.
So, the main question here is what is my ideal type of courting? Well, personally, I always look up to meeting the family before I officially start courting. My mindset is that I want to ask permission from the family when I get that then, I will officially start courting that person with the very best of intentions. I want to seek permission from the family because I believe that is the nicest way to make sure that the family will also feel comfortable with me. Of course, when I ask their child to go out with me, it will be easier for them to say yes and the doubts will be subsided as well.
I’m really into personal attachment and involvement rather than keeping our relationship private. There’s no good in hiding because at some point, you will be caught or you will tell them sooner. I hate the heaviness of the relationship because I feel like it’s suffocating me. Courting is not just giving flowers or gifts to that person, I believe it is investing time, creating a foundation, and assessing oneself whether you like that person or not. I have this inner desire to have intimacy rather than playfulness around relationships.
In the courting phase, I want to give all out. I mean to give your very best to get that person no matter what because you love that person unconditionally. I’m very emotional lately and some of my friends knew both the real and online world. You all know that I am a very transparent and honest person which is both a weakness and a strength. To someone that I adore so much right now, I wish you realize sooner that I freaking love you and you know how much I am willing to commit to our future relationship. However, I respected your time, decision, and point of view in life. But please, time is running out, and make it fast.
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If you'll succeed on this, it'll be your first ba? Yieeee. 😍 But really, I think you're a great guy. With how you describing your definition about courtship speaks so much character and value.