Why do ladies reject public proposal?

It's already midweek and I can smell Valentine from far away, though I haven't celebrated valentine before with a lady, there's no hurry in life, it's not like the people celebrating it with their partner are getting tips (money) from it anyway, haha, I know I sound jealous already. Let me just go straight at the topic

First I will like to direct this question to the married women in the house, where did your partner pump up the question (will you marry me) and to the single ladies in the house, where do you want your future partner, to pump up the question? I await your answers in the comment section.

During my days, okay the words sound funny because I'm in my 20s and I haven't seen a lot of things from a different perspective, but the few that I have observed, I will write it down for the young kings in the house that are planning to tie the knot very soon and they might not know where to pump the question, glad you didn't skip my article today, haha, you are going to learn one or two things.

I came across a video on Twitter when a guy was just in the middle of the road and brought out a ring and kneel before his girlfriend as he pump the the question, the lady was telling was telling him to get up that he was embarrassing her, the guy was still kneeling while waiting for a positive response, a lot of people started to video them with their phones, the girl was wearing a cap and sunglasses, she was telling the guy to stand up and the guy refuses because he hasn't gotten any response from her, the lady opened the bottled water she was holding and poured it on him in front of everyone then left him looking disappointed, people were just looking at him and he bowed his head in shame.

I have seen a lot of videos like this when a girl rejects a guy in public and there was this one that trended last year. After graduation, the guy brought out a ring in front of everyone in the school and propose to his girlfriend because both of them was graduating the same day, the lady legitimately took the ring and throw it away in the presence of everyone that was there and she left, what she did was very rude but me looking for both perspectives, I then know that she did it for a reason and not because she doesn't love her boyfriend but because of her ego or should I say standards.

Most girls have this dream image of where their partner will pump up the question and most of them have already told their friends about it, either in a fancy hotel where there will be flowers and chocolates, balloons that are in alphabet be later “Will you marry me” or in Dubai when they are going on vacation, anything less than that will be a total turn off for them.

I'm sure that those ladies that rejects men proposals in public didn't do it because they don't want to marry them but because the standard was too low for them, they want something memorable that they can use to make a pre-wedding video while playing “Perfect by Ed Sheeran” they just want something that will trend on social media anytime they post it and if you can't give it to them, just don't propose to them in public because they might make you regret meeting them in the first place.

As a guy that is ready to propose to his girlfriend, please try and avoid public proposal it's a 50/50 risk your whole world might just end up crashing in front of your eyes at the very moment, I meant the girl though, you know you do call her your world, well she might just crash it on you if she can't let down of her standard.

Most times are good to get inquiries from her friends, especially her best friend because she might have told her the dream proposal, trust me when I say it will be a great help for to you so you won't end up being disappointed in the public, the media is also the cause of all these though. Most all these female celebrities are misleading the young queens not to settle with what a man can afford because they believe that if the man truly love them, they will be willing to go extra mile for their proposal to come through.

I saw a video of Cardi B that made me laugh out loud, I just couldn't control it, in one of her hit track title “WAP” she said “ I don't cook, I don't clean” most ladies took it on their selves to follow her lyrics, a few weeks later her husband (offset) leaked a video of her cleaning the house with her night wears, haha.

Conclusion

As in guy try to avoid public proposal even if you know that the girl is madly in love with you, precautions are better than cure.

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19/01/2022