What do women want?

This doesn't apply to all women, but mostly most of them, and this article isn’t to discriminate anyone, I’m just writing it from fact and personal thoughts and observations, so let’s dive right into it.

What do women want? How can you win a woman hear totally, these questions always pump in a mans heard when they are trying to make a move on a lady they like, either for a relationship or just pleasure, most of them (the guys) first come into their life and act funny (seems women like funny guys) and make a move but didn’t work, while some come in as a friend and end up in the friend zone (the most dangerous zone, might not come out from it, haha)

Some women will say that they like straight forward guys, the one that will tell them the truth to their face and exactly what they have in mind, ones that guy come their way and start saying the truth to them, they will say he doesn’t have any respect at all, like how can you tell a lady to her face that you just want a night with her, can't you say keep it in your mind and not let it out.

I got the inspiration to write this article after coming across a post on Twitter and it got my attention, the post is a screenshot of the guy's conversation with one of his female friends, the guy was on his jejely when she messages him that she will be coming to the island (a place in Lagos where the rich and the middle-class stay) and she will need a place to spend the night, the guy agreed that she should come and also buy suya so they can eat.

After the day, the lady messaged him that he was not serious, the guy was shocked, like what brought this kind of message, she replied that she came to spend the night in his house and they don't even have s3x, the guy replied then reply that she was the one that told him that she's not in the mood, what do you expect me to do, she said he would have forced her, that she liked guys that forced her to do it.

That's when the guy said that he's not like that and when a lady tells him no, he don't forced himself on them that no is no and he doesn't want another to start accusing him of rape.

This also reminds me of another one that someone else posted, he had plans with the girl and they were to meet in the hotel, the girl came and he was fully charged for action, then the girl told him that she just came to let him know that he's going to her aunty house and she can't do it anymore, the guy was disappointed and she walked away.

That same evening she messaged the guy that he was disappointed him that she said she can’t do it and he just let her leave, she said she was expecting the guy to dragged her inside and forced hisself on her that will show how strong he is.

I have come across countless posts of ladies saying that they prefer men who forced themselves on them and don't give up when they tell them, they are not in the mood, this clearly means that they prefer to be raped, cause s3x without the partner agreeing to it is rape and most ladies prefer it, not all though.

I remember sometime in 2020, Rape began to trend on Twitter NG, many ladies started writing how they were raped, both the ones that were raped years back, lawyers were on ground to pick up the case and bring justice to most of the women, even celebrities were showing support against rape and rape victims

Just stated there “Real men don't rape” but you will see another lady says otherwise, not actually clear on what they want, rape is never a good thing, and some other ladies saying that when a man forced himself on a lady, that shows that he's a real man, I think all these things have to stop and these set of women of ladies need to change their ways it won't affect the other ones that don't want it.

There's this Nollywood movie I watched some years back, a rich and successful has a fiancee who told him that she's a virgin and we want to wait till they get married, he respected that, one day his cousin asked him for help and he went to his house give him what he asked, only for him to see his fiancee half naked in on his bed (it's one room and the cousin didn't even know that the lady is his boyfriend) he took his rings went out.

The Man then got three maids to be doing his house chores, that maids were so beautiful, remembering what happened in the past about his fiancee, two of the three maids were seducing him which he gave in and slept with them differently, he waited for the third maid to do the same but she didn't, he now invited her to his room and told her to clean some place, while she was cleaning he was touching her and she told him that she's a virgin want to keep it till she gets married.

The man remembering what his fiancee did just felt like it's another test and that's how all the ladies do to see if the man is actually interested, he forced himself on her and realized she was actually telling the truth and he regretted why didn't he even listen, to cut the story short, he married the lady at the end of the film.

Conclusion

No man wants to be a fool for the second time that some girls end up being raped cause they might think the girl wanted him to push a bit harder but only to realize that she didn't mean that, all because some other ladies are busy saying that when a woman tells you she's not interested, it means you should try harder.

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25-05-2022