Why it's Difficult to Trust?
When we heard the word Trust the first thing comes to our mind are secrets, a promise, a belief towards the person with calm mind that the person won't spoil what you've shared on him or her to other people. According to Investopedia, A trust is a fiduciary relationship in which one party, known as a trustor, gives another party, the trustee, the right to hold title to property or assets for the benefit of a third party, the beneficiary.
The definition about maybe tackle about business however trust is applicable in any aspects of this life for an instance there's a trust in love, friendship, family, Co workers, and sometimes we give trust to strangers that we encounter randomly.
Trust is something that we can freely give to anyone, if your a type of person who easily gives trust to anyone then sometimes the person whom given the trust can be trustworthy enough to hide those what we've shared but sometimes we can encounter those people that hiding their true face behind their backs and gonna spoil those things that we've shared on them. They are what we called traitors.
Sometimes it can be your friend, your lover and strangers. You can't trust no one in this world, that's why you can't blame those people who can't trust easily since they already experienced betrayed by the people who trust them most. In this world its really difficult to distinguish those people if they are trustable or not cause sometimes people are really good at pretending that they care but deep inside they don't have any interest on what your sharing.
Sometimes they can be your comfort zone once your in pain but if you have argument with them then that's the time that the stories you've shared will be in trend for a day. There are lots of aspects why it's really difficult to trust anyone.
There's nothing more joyous to be love and get in love, the feeling that the world is spinning towards the person you love the most. The feeling of giggle everytime you see the man or woman standing beside you, there's a mutual understanding towards each other to the point that you've given your trust to that person.
You believe that he or she won't betray you and the things you've shared won't get spread. You believe that your the only person he or she love however not all fantasies became true. There are people who got bored in relationship easily, sometimes once engage on fights, the secrets will start popping out and using social media to start spoiling the secrets.
Also, the trust you've given started to perish when the time has come that there's no spark in relationship anymore, there's a third party involved and the trust already broken. You've trust too much to your partner that's why the pain is also too much when he or she betrayed you.
We tends to learn from our past mistakes but we still repeat it then did the same mistakes again. That's the reason why giving enough trust in love is okay but giving too much is poison, in the end your the only one who will get hurt.
I know that all of you have what we called friend and bestfriend, they are the people who knows us and know some of our secrets. They are the people who we talk everytime we have something to share, they are the people we hang out with and talk lots of things then do some hilarious actions.
They are the people who knows who we hate and who we loves, they know what our likes and don'ts and lastly they are the people who trust the most. It's wonderful in feeling to have lots of friends since the more the merrier, somehow the more friends you have the more problems you'll carry. If you accompany a certain group of friends then the other group will get jealous and start thinking that your abandoning them.
We all know that gossips is truly widespread specially in my country, in just a single day you'll heard to your neighbor the gossip that your pregnant since someone spread it. Then you investigate on it and knew that it was your friend who ruining your image. It's really difficult to trust even if it's your friend since once you are in bad situation then they won't help you and sometimes they become the reason for your fall.
It's okay to have few friends atleast you knew that they are true to you. There are also instances that we have bestfriends for years and you have a boyfriend for years also, you've realized that your boyfriend is loosing interest on you and feeling cold.
Little did you know that your bestfriend is flirting your boyfriend and they have relationship, the fight start and you confronted your bestfriend. As we can see even your bestfriend is not trustable, my only advise is do not give trust too much and also try to become if everything is still in right position.
Trust is something that we can easily give to anyone but let's remind ourselves that giving too much trust may end into disaster. We can't bake those people that difficult to trust, they once kind-hearted before but the betrayal makes them unable to trust easy again.
I don't trust people easily, I'm hanging out with them but I don't share any secrets that I know may ruins me in the future. It's better to go with the flow with your friends but be observant who's the real and who's the traitor.