Lots of things need to be remembered, maybe those memories of the aprt that we need to cherish, advises from different people around us, the lessons we learned from school that we need to remember since we need to apply it on real life.

However not all advises are forgotten sometimes since we humans are enough capable to digest those information. There are also instances why people immediately forgot the things they experience in the past and promise not to repeat again, but months or years later they gonna repeat the same mistakes again.

Know the Person First

This is applied in friendship and love, when it comes to friendship we can encounter so many people that will show kindness to us and even want us to become friends. However we can't truly distinguish person's attitude in a single stare, it takes time for us to know the person well.

Challenges and struggles are needed to conquer in order to prove that the person is truly true to us and there's no bad intention. When it comes to mutual relationship, a person specially a lady shouldn't trust easily the man who's wooing them, some ladies are inlove with physical appearance without knowing the true nature of that man.

In the end, regrets happens and sometimes leads to some serious issues involving crimes. That's the main reason why ladies should pick the best man for them, they need to test how persevere and dedicated that man by putting them into challenges and let them wait until you are ready. If they pass the test then it's time to give them a chance however chance only but not the trust.

Don't Give your Full Trust

Do you know Asiong Salonga? He's a famous person in Tondo Manila and considered to be terror but he's a kind hearted to people who's asking help from him. Asiong was betrayed by his right handed man and bestfriend due to money.

The enemy of Asiong bribe Asiong's bestfriend to shot him in head with the exchange of money. That incident is one of the reason why you shouldn't give your full trust to people even if it's your bestfriend.

Maybe we knew that our friends are real but in times of difficult situation they might be the reason for us to be in anger, even your bestfriend can spill out your secrets to other people if you have misunderstanding and fight. Even your boyfriend can black mail you once you got break up and he want something from you.

See? This world is not trustable at all, even close people towards us can be a silent assassin that always ready to execute us once we made a single mistake or we let our guard down. It's not bad to trust people at all but there must be limitation, cause trusting too much may lead to betrayal.

Don't Argue with Close Minded People

The people feels like they know everything, specially those arrogant and egoistic people that doesn't want to accept any opinions nor other information that against their belief.

This usually happening to debates, sometimes debates is so fun and knowledgeable if two parties are exchanging their thoughts towards the topic and arguing base on what they side is, listening to other parties opinion and argue it will still respect that kind of argument is really fascinating to witness and you'll see that they were truly intelligent.

However, there are people who loves to argument but they don't want to accept other people's thoughts or bashing the person who's against his or her stand. As a person who loves debating, it's very important that your open minded to all the perspectives and opinions other people had, if they are against your belief then you must respect it and talk with that person then listen to his or her side.

So that you can understand the thoughts of each other. It's not worth it to argue with close minded people since they don't want to listen to your side at all. If they want to argue with you then it's better to tell them that you have no time to talk with sheets, just kidding. Just make an excuse so that you can escape.

Don't take Life Seriously it's Important to have some Enjoyment

There are people who take life seriously, focusing too much on studies that they forgot how to enjoy, they didn't experience the fun of life and their life is so boring.

There's a two argument with this topic, you know the abbreviation YOLO? it means You Only Live Once and it was a famous abbreviation used by teenagers nowadays, there's nothing wrong in this belief cause it might true that life is too short that's why we need to enjoy everything, another counterpart of this belief is teenagers should focus on their studies first and prioritize to become succesful in life so that once they are stable.

It's the time for them to enjoy life with the success and money they have. The two opinions are colliding yet it depends to the person on what he or she will believe but for me I'll choose the middle, it's better to enjoy the life while the goals is still the priority.

Conclusion

We have lots of things to be remember, we somehow forgot it due to certain circumstances but ourselves must know what is right and wrong, who should we trust and not. There are lots of things to remember but I choose only what's on my mind.