How to deal with Marites
In this world there are different types of people, there are people who thinks their own life and there are people who loves to talk other people's life, they are originally called gossipers but the changes happen and due to evolution of chismiss, the races of this entities spread across thecoutnry and they already establish a community called Marites. It's a term short for Mare anong chismis,this term was formed last 2021 and their population really known by many people.
Some people are taking it as fun to the point that thereare lots of memes about Marites and even those with Marites name cannot escape the hype, sometimes those with name marites are questioned about recent news that they heard. Welcome to the Philippines which Marites are everywhere, you can see them everywhere, in the street, in the road, at mall, at grocery store and even offices, there are lots of marites.
I think they are the spies that transported on this planet to invade and dominate humanity by getting late rnews about people and knowing their everyday routine. Marites are very informative to the point that they knew the life of a certain person. They are truly fascinating to see since they are so good as Detective when it comes to searching information and vulgar the secrets.
It's in Filipino culture that people are gathering outside the house due to boredom and start talking with neighbors, there's no good topic to talk with except the latest news in surrounding like gossips about a neighbor's daughter that suspected as pregnant since the belly is already big. Marites are really good at spreading fake rumors to the point that you didn't know your already a celebrity in your barangay due to fake news that was spread about you.
Other people will just believe it and start asking you if your truly pregnant,it will make you upset since you have clean and good reputation in your barangay but in an instant it ruined due to fake rumor spread by Marites about you. We can't avoid those kind of people that spreading gossips but there are ways on how to deal with them.
Approach them and talk them in Sarcastic way
There's nothing more exciting to approach those marites that talk behind you, you don't have to confront nor fight with them. You just need to walk slowly towards them and I'm sure they are having chitchat that time. Smile on them and ask them calmly about the news you've heard that they are the one who spread gossips about you.
I know that they will lie on you about 3hat you've heard that's why you need to calm yourself. Share some sarcastic words to them like there's a place in hell which serve for those who seeped gossips and heard a news that there's already a law that will punish those people who spread fake rumors about a certain individual. Maybe that time they will realize the things they are doing who ruins people's reputation and life.
Give them a Bars
Another things to do to deal with Marites is to give a bars on them, one of the best way to give them a bars is to join them in their conversation and just listen to them, I know that they will share on you the things happening on surrounding like they notice that Aling Janice family had a renovation in their house, buy their own car and seems like succesful.
Those marites will start talking about aling Janice saying that the money might came from illegal activities that's why they have the money to renovate the house and buy a new car. Of course the conversation will continue and one of them will ask you if you knew some latest news, that's the best time to give bars on them.
If they asked you then yoy can say that you have no latestnews but your building a business, once they asked what's your business then tell them you named it Mind your own, if they are smart enough to understand it then you gave them such deep bars, and that's the time to do the final move which is exiting in a gangsta way.
End Thoughts
That's all I've got today, maybe that's the only juice that my brain secretes however I'm sure that Marites are group of people who doesn't want to see other people moving up. They don't like to see other become succesful that's why they start srepading fake news that ruined other people's life. They feel envy and jealous since they didn't have a chance to achieve that success and pretends that they are happy but deep inside it's jealousy.
Ouch! Tinatamaan ata ako. Haha. Kidding! Nakakatuwa din minsan ang mga Marites kasi minsan informative din talaga ang kanilang mga balita. Wag lang talaga maninira ng tao. Ibang usapan na kapag ganon.