March 20, 2020

It's Sunday today maybe some of us have been a lot of happenings on this day, how's everyone my read dot cash family?

For me, it's nothing new I am still here in the middle east and keep on grinding for my family whose waiting for me to come home in God's will.

I know these past few days there are some distractions on my way that I wasted my time just to watch some drama series instead of grinding in here I didn't even try to open my pixie account, appics accounts, noise dot cash account, and some other earning site and that im guilty of It but at the same time, I am enjoying it because in that way somehow, my loneliness and my homesickness got away even in that a couple of hours. May some of you understand this feeling of mine those who experience living far from their loved ones.

So speaking of loved ones this is my topic for today.

We are all aware to the new generations as of this time that most of the teenagers we can't control with their actions, behavior, their feelings. why did I come up with this topic? It's because I am also a mother of a 14years old girl and the worse is I am not by her side to always remind her of what's good and what is not good.

Upon seeing on social media some on my Facebook friends some of them my neighbor that most teenagers already have a relationship which even they are still 13 years old and that in fact, their parents tolerate it. yes, if you're a good parent would you allow your children at that age to have a relationship? Will some say it's their life anyway? But for God's sake we parents, know already how hard life is if we do not focus on our future if we take for granted our studies just because of their misdeed.

I know that at this stage of their age they need a guide to a parent that we must listen to their dilemma, at this age as still, they are confused about their feelings.

Being a mother we have always had this feeling of what might be happening if they will not listen to us that they want to do whatever they want.

Sad to know that there are young ones nowadays, that they're answering to their parents that as if they know more than their parents know.

Some of the classmates of my daughter already posted and are proud that they have already a lover and that I know my daughter wants also to be like them but then I always remind her to not quickly have it as still, she is young and that all of this comes in the right time and no need to rush things.

What do I always remind my daughter?

I always remind her that she must study first that having a relationship at a young age would not do good for her.

Don't hesitate to talk to me whenever she feels that she needs someone to talk to.

That as much as possible, I want to be her best friend, that she can lean on me anytime.

Do not rush things as I know good things come when we are willing to wait for the right time to come.

Closing words

As much as possible we parents, are always at the back of our children especially teenagers as they are in the stage of development they are confused about what's happening in the surroundings. Don't let them go in the wrong direction they need us to guide them to the right path.

That's all for today's blog post of mine.

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