March 25, 2022

It's Friday today and thank you, God, for all the blessings that you showed up to all of us, especially in this community which we have like a second family here that sharing our thoughts and experiences that somehow we can relate to each other.

As for me today I want to participate in this prompt wherein my virtual friends tagged me and I am so glad for having this virtual friend of mine @BCH_LOVER and @Jeansapphire39thank you mga sizzz.

So let's go we tried to reminisce the memories of those periods on how we become a mother.

Normal delivery/ cs?

Thankful that I can able to give birth in a normal delivery with my 2 kids/ daughters, as sometimes I always believed that saying, if you are good daughters with your mother chances are when we become a mother too or when we give birth you are having good karma which I mean that baby will not be allowed you to suffer to much pain. And yeah I can say that I am a good daughter with my mother no one time that I argue with my mother as I truly love her and respect her with all my heart.

Father in the room?

My live-in partner was with me during the laboring with my firstborn baby but inside the room, only the staff only called after the baby was already in my chest.

My second child, my husband was not there as I am already in the province at that time he only visits me every week like he comes Saturday night and Sunday in the morning going back to the city for work.

Then when I give birth it was Monday afternoon and he already going back to the city but knowing that I was ready to give birth so he leaves again his work and again went back to the province and when he come Monday night Sophia was already in my bed.

Due date?

My firstborn was April 15, 2008, and my second child was October 02, 2012. They are having 4years age gap.

Morning sickness?

When I found out that I am pregnant I don't have morning sickness but only I hate my husband when he comes homes from work I am vomiting but at the same time, I don't want him to go hahaha that moment.

To my second daughter, it's all normal, as if I am not pregnant everything is okay until I give birth.

Cravings?

Cravings? No, everything is okay at that time im, not craving for anything or something.

Gender of the baby?

Since I am not doing an ultrasound as before if everything is okay and monthly your visit in the health center, and the midwife told that the baby was everything find so no need to do those things just to find out the gender we only wait and see if it was a girl or a boy unlike nowadays they must having a gender reveal.

Place of birth?

My firstborn, our plan was in the health center in the barangay somewhere in the city, but unfortunately, the midwife was new and she can't handle my laboring she does the wrong way and that was were being panicked, as she told us to transfer to the private birthing center. and that she quickly calls the ambulance it was a traumatic incident for me, a good thing when we arrived at the private birthing center all the staff was very good and only minutes the baby comes out, that all the staff told that the midwife in that health center must face consequences as she does not accompany me in the ambulance and that only minutes might something happens for the baby as she is doing late action that she knows already she can't handle but she takes time to not decide whats the right thing to do.

To my second child since I am experiencing traumatic incidents for my firstborn. This time was very careful I was with my mother in the province my mama taking care of me and my mother's house was near the barangay health center which is good as we directly going there by the time that I was ready to give birth and yes this time everything was okay and successful I give birth in the barangay health center in the province of Cebu.

Babies names?

My firstborn name is Cleofe

And the youngest name is Sophia

And that is where my username name is Cleophia and I combined it with their names.

And I think that's all for me today thank you, everyone, for not leaving me in my journey here I am forever, thankful to all of you my read dot cash family.