Pregnancy talks

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Yesterday I asked my sister if she already back to work after her two months leave because of her delicate pregnancy.During her first trimester her Ob advices her to have an ultra sound and it found out that her cervix was open ,so the doctor gave her some medicines and advices her to have a bed rest .My ate and her husband did everything for their baby since its their first baby after she experienced before the anembryonic pregnancy.They are married for 8 years and we know that they are longing to have a baby .Thanks God that after her two months bed rest ,she is now okay and fine.

And I really felt her excitement and happiness knowing the good news.

This is our conversation and I will try to translate it hihi.I was asking if she did'nt keeps vomitting and she replied

Ate:Not more often ,sometimes and it depends on what our viand is and my appetite is back.

Me:Thats good ate,its not like before

Ate:Yes day,I felt so tired before .My baby is now moving and its like a wave hehe

Me:Especially if its turn 6months,its always move and you'll be surprise for it.

Ate:At her first move I was shocked and now I'm used to it.

I really felt how my sister feels now ,as a mom carrying a life in a womb it is not easy but everytime it moves in our womb ,it brings us too much joy and happiness.

The other day ,My niece was asking about how painful during the labor and the delivery ,I was telling her all my experiences not because I want to frightened her but its for her to get ready for it.She asking if our partners or husband are allowed inside the delivery room and I said not ,but some doctors allowed our husband to accompany us especially if you will giving birth of some private hospitals,some doctors or nurses did'nt allow our partner during the delivery its because they wanted us to be braver, be stronger.Its different kasi kapag anjan yung asawa natin ,bigla tayo maging ya-ya ,I don't know whats the tagalog term of it haha .When I gave birth my first son ,my husband was not beside me ,he was not allowed to accompany me but in my second delivery ,the staff thought that my husband was a police man and he letting my husband to accompany but hos not allowed during my operation.

And I was telling her all effects in our life ,everything we had will be changed if we already a mom ,she was asking if our belly will turn back ,if the stretchark will gone?Some women ,they achieved to give them back the body figure they had but for some mom like me who wasn't able to get back my body but its okay .And she said most of her classmates who are already a mom now was changed especially there body figure.

I told here everything my experiences and I told him that mostly after giving birth ,we experienced and know what's the postpartum depressions .Maybe most of us mom experienced it right?Its because of the changes of our self from the day we became a mom.I don't know if she will be listening to me in all my advices to her .She got curious on how much the hospital bill we payed and ofcourse I told her everything so that they can prepare for it.

For my first son ,since it was a normal delivery and I had I had a philhealth ,we only pay 800pesos from the 21k hospital bill but the for the medicines and other thing we need I think we spent more or less 5000pesos for it.For my second baby ,we spent a huge amount since I gave him birth through Cs,we payed 15kpesos for the doctor ,almost 20k for the medicines and for the hospital bill we only payed 100pesos from the 22k pesos bill coz my philhealth is indigent.So I told her to prepare her philhealth coz it really helps us and ofcourse I told her to prepare for it ,if we will going to give birth we will prepare ourselves and we will prepare our wallet.

Being a mom isn't an easy thing to do ,we played a big role in our life and what we nee to prepare always is the healthy body and healthy mind so that we can able to do our job ,our responsibily as a mom.

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Thank you and God bless🙏