Me and You

Hello read casher's and hello read cash world!!!

How was everyone here?I always got busy everyday because of many errands but then I was trying to write and publish an article for me to earn and stay active here.I am so stress thinking where to find money for building our house ,the materials are so expensive and since our money is not enough to finish it,well we continue soon if we can earn again.I am happy that finally I can see that our house was started though we can't able to finish it but were happy atleast we can now see this everyday and it will add our motivation to keep save and find ways to earn.

Ohw! Sorry for this very long introduction ,lets proceed to the main topic ,anyway I got this idea when I read @Methion article a week ago and decided to this to be my topic now and thank you for it mate.

Bestfriend to Partner or Partner to bestfriend?

Well ,our relationships was started of not being a serious one ,my husband makes me felt annoyed everyday and I wasn't expected that he became my partner pr my husband.I don't have a plan to be in a serious relationship after my hearbroke and I know also my husband is'nt serious for it after his brokeup too.But when we have our relationship ,we both did'nt expect on how it goes so far ,my husband became my bestfriend ,his been my ka chika always ,I trusted him all my secrets and I don't have any other bestfriend aside of him .One thing we are doing everyday is having a chikas ,before we slept ,we always do chikas ,his my -co marites hahah.He is my husband and he is my bestfriend.

Introduce to partner to your family earlier or late?

From my past relationships ,I once brought 1 boyfriend and introduced to my family.It was an accidentally meet up with my family ,the funny things happened was ,it was a not serious relationship but I got a strenght to introduced him to my family .We celebrated new years eve that time and I was working that time and need to travel for more than 1 hour and my problem was ,I don't have any transporation going to our home that time coz my duty ends at 9pm and there's no more passenger vehicle so I decided to asked him if he can drive me going home and he agreed ,so ayun I don't have any choice but to introduce him to family haha.And after a day we broke up.

The reasons why I don't want to introduce my boyfriend to my family is I am afraid that they will thinking that I get married ,I don't wanted them to dissapointment so most of my boyfriend was I secretly meet and never introduce to my family.I know its not good for the eyes of the other people but thats my reason.

Speaking of my husband ,I introduced him to my family very late.I was two months pregnant when we both decided to introduced him to my family .We find a perfect time for it ,and we decided that my husband will meet my family at new years eve ,same as my past boyfriend lol,so our plan was after my duty my husband will waited me outside of the store and we were going home with his motorcycle but then after my duty one of my workmate which is living next to our barangay was fetched by her father ,they brought a car and I decided to travel with them and then I chatted my husband that I decided that maybe we will find another time for him to meet my family since my family does'nt know that I am pregnant that time.My husband feels upset that time.And he never replied my message ,he was really waiting outside and he saw me riding a car ,after a days when he finally talked to him ,he said he saw me quickly get in the car ,I was like walang mapaglagyan ng konsensya that time and promised to him to find a perfect time to introduced to my family.I was 5months pregnant when I told my family about my pregnancy and told them that I will introduced my boyfriend to them.My reason for not introducing them earlier is my husband was a jobless that time ,I don't want them to questioned my boyfriend of how he able to raised us ,to feed us .When he found a job in Cebu City and thats a best time to tell my family about my pregnancy ,my husband came home for two days from Cebu just to meet my family and I am happy that my family accepted us though I really felt some disapointment to them ,maybe they are thinking that I can't help them anymore ,can't help my younger siblings since I already had my own family .I was trying to help him while I was still having a job .When I resigned from my job after a I gave birth to my eldest son ,I was sad coz I can't help them financially but I am thankful that my younger siblings found a job and helped our parents .

And thats all for today ,thank you for your time ,its already 9 in the morning and I will be preparing snacks for our workers and after that Ia m going to prepare for their lunch .

Have a great da and God bless!