It was hard for the both of us

Being a mother isn't easy at all ,we encountered many hardships in raising and taking care our kids but we all do whats good for our babies and raised them in a right way .

Many times that I felt tired,so much exhausted in taking care of my kids sinced the day that they are in my womb but because of my unconditional love to them ,I tried not showed them how much tired I am and I was doing all my best to give the best care that they really needs.

Hardships for being a mom

Many hardship I encountered being a mom especially in when I was a first time mom ,those sleepless nights ,taking care of them while doing some household chores ,it is really hard especially whe they are sick ,taught them everything from the very beginning and one thing I felt hard being a mom is the stop breastfeeding process or paglutas in our dialect.

How did I made to stop my son from breastfeeding?

For my eldest son before actually I stop lactating him when he was 2 1/2 years old.I feed him through mix feeding ,a formula milk and breast milk but he wanted my breast milk ,I felt hard to make him stop from breastfeeding coz he don't want to eat and always cried thats why it takes time to made him stop .When he keeps biting my n*ple ,I guess thats the right time that I should have to make him stop ,he was not contented the amount of milk produces from my breast and I experienced many wounds so I decided to do these things to make him stop from breastfeeding.

1-I put catsup on my breast to make him afraid coz he is afraid of blood but when saw it he felt afraid but he was trying to face his fears lol and he tasted it and it was good for him ,so the catsup did'nt work.

2-Putting toothpaste ,I once put toothpaste but I learned that it was not good for the baby so I did'nt continue it.

3-putting a little fluid of panyawan ,anyway panyawan or makabuhay is a herbal plant which can cure many illness like wounds,itchy,diabetes ,fever,anemia and many more .It has a bitter taste and as I remember this what my mother did when she was making my younger siblings to stop breastfeed them.It is effective for my son coz the day that I put a little fluid of panyawan ,he was afraid and did'nt eve wanted to see my breast haha.

And yesterday I decided to stop lactating of my baby ,anyway he is 2years old and 2 months,he keeps biting my niple thats why I decided to make stop from breasfeeding and I am using panyawan and it was so effective coz the first time he tasted the bitter taste from my breast ,he was afraid even if I offered him but he refused and said "pa-it dede mama".He felt hard to adjust it and also I ,at night he can't sleep well ,it was already 11 in the evening but my son can't sleep ,he keeps playing and looking something ,so I told him and asked if what he wants ,if he is hungry but not I think he felt hard to adjust coz when I still breastfeed him ,he can easily to fall asleep around 8pm he can sleep while I am feeding him and the first night that I did'nt let him to breastfeed ,he felt uncomfortable ,I am so sleepy and tired ,a head ache attack on me but I need fo make him sleep before I am. At 11:10 finally he fall asleep and awake around 2am ,I asked if he wanted to drink milk but he keeps crying so I carried and tried make him asleep but a minutes later he is awake again around 5 am I prepared a formula milk for him using a glass coz he don't like to drink it by using a feeding bottle and he was hungry after he finished his milk he fall asleep and awake around 8 am.

I slept for 4 hours only because we are in adjusting stage ,we both felt hard for this but we are trying to adjus.Around 7:30am I need to get up to prepare our breakfast even if I'm too sleepy but I need to do this ,my husband arrive from his duty at 8am and of course I don't want to awake those noisey sounds of the kitchen if I m not the one will prepare our breakfast .It was really hard for me and until now I still have a headache ,later if my baby will sleep ,I will have to sleep coz I feel pain in my eyes.

And thats all for today ,I know it is hard for the begining but when my son can adjust this then I can't feel hard for it .

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