Life Is Never A Staight Line
Life Is Never A Staight Line so don't stress or over think if your life is giving you a very hard time to tackle, to survive. Our life can't be the bed of roses for all the time, there are sufferings, some hardships in our life which we have to go through it does not matter whether we want or want in order to bring the best , the amazing version of our own self.
If you're suffering, struggling now then it does not mean that your life will always remain unfair to you**___** Your life will always continue to give you hard times to survive_**___** You will never be able to smell and enjoy the sweet aroma of your success, in the contrary you need to believe that you are suffering just because your difficult life is trying to make you more strong, more courageous than ever. If you're giving your best and even after this you're not getting any reward immediately then just remember your life is planning to gift you with a great and precious gift.
When you feel low, When you feel you're totally broken, when you feel you can't continue living your life, When you feel you can't do anything, When you feel every door is closed for you, just remember this is the exact moment to bloom like a flower, this is the exact time to radiate and reflect all the best things which you're carrying within you for a very long time unbeknownst to you. Keep in mind, those flowers are the prettiest and most precious which blooms in adversities so don't give up easily when your life is trying to plant you deep as one day you will surely see the sprouting leaves of yours if you have the not - giving up mentality.
You need to realize, you can't accomplish anything without struggling as great struggles makes great stories and those things which you can achieve easily they can't be as great and precious than those for which you have fought and are still fighting.
Struggle is important to discover your imperfectly perfect self. The struggles of yours is just like a magical mirror which reflects nothing but your hidden strength, strong mindset and positive attitude. You already have owned the power which can make your life marvelous and jovial, You just need to brave enough to turn on the power button.
If you're struggling now then don't think that this struggles are bringing embarrasments to you and all people are happy except yourself as this thought are nothing but a mere mirage. Don't let yourself be trapped by someone else fake life style as half of these people whom you are blindly following are faking their life styles, they are covering up their situations with uncountable filters and smiles. So instead of following others blindly, stay focused on your work , make your own plan, cut off distractions, negetive peoples & thoughts and execute consistently.
Struggle is necessary as your struggles shows your hidden strength. Struggles is necessary as your struggles brings all the power, possibilities, passions you have once buried. Struggles is necessary as your struggles helps you to know who you really are.
So instead of regretting, Instead of cursing yourself, Instead of blaming yourself, give yourself proper time to prosper, to flourish, to Bloom.
Hardships, Struggles are often blessings in disguise So let your hardships, your struggles make you more courageous, more strong, more powerful than ever. If you're struggling now then remember, your struggles can't be the symbols of your failures, ill fate so don't be too harsh on yourself as your struggles, failures are the inseparable parts of your life which is necessary to accept and endure.
Make yourself a priority during your struggles not because you have to do it but because you truely deserves this. Give yourself some credit as you have already come a long way, as you have already overcome lots of ebbs and flows, as you have already endured lots of unpleasant things. Trust yourself while you're struggling because this is the exact thing which you need it. By trusting yourself, by making yourself a priority, by not cursing yourself you can still achieve the life which you always wanted. So be the piece of peace. Cherish and love yourself as much as possible.
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Take A Moment To...
**Take A Moment To Enjoy The Present** Don't make yourself a prisoner of your past which you can't even change. Until you can't even stop recalling,obsessing over your past, you will never be able to become successful. Life is too short to cry over our unchangeable past.
You need to forget your that past which made you cry, sad and devastated instead of this you need to focus on your present that completes your smile and gives you inspirations to accomplish your goals. You need to understand that your present need you the most than your past does So it is better to work on your present than your irreversible past.
The past of yours is not only your past but an invisible destructive force if you water this then it has the ability to destroy your present as well as your upcoming bright future too. If you got several failures in your past then just remember that some failures can't define your true self, your true worth.
You can rise up from anything, you can recreate yourself at anytime So don't stuck at your past, leave that uncomfortable and unpleasant place as soon as possible before destroying yourself completely. Sometimes, you must learn to let the things go that are killing you from within unbeknownst to you even if it's killing you to let go.
So what happened to you in your past just happened, just try to live in the present a little more. No matter whatever past you come from, you don't need to go back and reside there for lifetime. Try to be a piece of peace instead of regretting over your past by accepting your difficult past and try to make peace with that. Don't live in the past instead live your present.
**Take A Moment To Pause For A Second** Take a moment to pause for a second to breath a little more. Sometimes you will never know the true value of a moment until it becomes a memory so try to enjoy each and every moment to the fullest.
Often we makes mistakes by not taking breaks when we need them the most. We need to become acquainted that it's completely okay to take not only one but several breaks if you need them. Sometimes the most productive and great things you can do is to take a break to adorn yourself, to rejuvenate your mind & body. Treat yourself good by gifting yourself a little break, you will never feel any kind of regrretment for doing this.
It's okay to take a break, you are not a machine that can work 24/7 without feeling tired or low, you're just a human being like others with not only flesh and blood but also millions of emotions and feelings. It's okay to take a break from all the things that are stealing your peace, your happiness. It's okay to take a break from the things which are bothering you again and again.
Sometimes all you need is just a little break from everything and everyone to just love yourself a little more.
Sometimes all you need is a little break just to appreciate yourself a little more.
Sometimes all you need is a little break just to explore your soul a little more.
Sometimes all you need is a little break to heal your wounds.
Sometimes all you need is a little break just to learn what you truely deserves.
**Take A Moment To Carry Out An Act Of Kindness** because nowdays "Kindness" is the exact thing which we are lacking badly. So whenever you get some time and wherever you go just try to sprinkle some kind words of yours, some kind act of yours in someone's gloomy life. You never know that your one small kind word and act can do lots of awesome and marvelous things.
Most of us are fighting a silent battle which you know nothing about so try to be kind with everyone even with unkind people and strangers too along with yourself.
If you see someone's gloomy life, full of darkness, then try to share your own light and help them to find their path. Whenever you speak, speak with kindness, speak with generosity. Don't let other's worst behaviour make you cruel, unkind and force you to live a beasty life. Don't loose your kind soul and soft heart for someone else's bad words. The way you make people feel is your true identity.
Try to share a random act of kindness no matter how small your contribution is. Try to share your every word of kindness without expecting anything in return, then enjoy the magic and happiness which you will get by doing this.
A small act of kindness can give strength to a weak person. A small act of kindness can bring a wide smile in someone's face. A small act of kindness can save someone from withering, So whenever you get a chance to become something, Choose to be kind not only with others but also with yourself because you too deserves love and care.
**Take A Moment To Appreciate Who You Really Are** and feel proud for yourself. Take a moment to appreciate for how much strength you have achieved. Take a moment to appreciate how far you have come by struggling and surviving.
You're more worthy, more special, more perfect than you seem and think so never ever try to understimate or belittle yourself for the sake of someone else who doesn't even care for your precious existence.
Give yourself credit for your patience, for your perseverance,for your every hardwork, for your every achievements no matter how small they are. Take a moment to appreciate the woman/ man you have become throughout the years.
Be the most beautiful and wonderful person in the whole universe by appreciating yourself, by caring for yourself. Don't let the someone's negetivity dim your light which you are carrying within you. Don't let the unkind words of someone's diminish the worthy self of yourself. Don't stop from providing yourself all those things which you truely deserves.
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Things, Need to try this year
I know it's very late to make some new year resolutions but I believe there is no particular time to explore our inner self, to start doing something for our selves as we can do anything at anytime. So though two long months has already passed, I did not realise that I too should and need to make some changes, some resolutions for myself in order to save my heart and soul from decaying, from withering, from dying until now when I'm loosing almost everything even myself.
We all can fall in love with ourselves at anytime so don't think that it is too late to love yourself. So now I just want to fall in love with myself once again, I want to build a happy & health relationship with myself by following some simple steps.
**Saying NO**
I guess this is the most difficult yet easiest thing to do on which often we don't give our attention thinking that saying NO can mark us as a bad and selfish person but we are completely wrong but we need to understand that we can be a good person with a kind heart & soft soul and still we can say NO as we have the innate right to save ourselves becoming the prey of others.
You don't need to apologise for loving yourself, for caring yourself, for saying NO . You have the right to do what is best for you. You have the right to speak up for yourself for those things which you don't want to do. Standing up for yourself, speaking up for yourself, saying no for yourself does not make you a selfish, a bad person.
I used to break my own heart intentionally just to save others but I realised sometimes we should choose ourselves first over others. We need to keep in mind that by doing these, we are not hurting others but we are just saving ourselves.
You have to take care of yourself and if that means saying NO then it's more than okay. It's okay to say no to anything and anyone which causes you pain or makes you devastated.
When you say yes to others just to please them in vain , just to make them happy Make sure that you're not saying NO to yourself, you are not making yourself sad. If you are feeling uncomfortable then please utter NO without any hesitation or thinking twice as you deserves something better.
**Stop Making Comparisons**
This is one of the most repeated and common mistake which almost all of us are doing again and again. We need to keep in mind that 'Comparisons' has the ability to steal the joys, the happiness, the contentenment of ourselves.
When you start to make comparisons between you and others, you are the one who start to make you feel inferior than others. No one can make us feel inferior, no one can knock us down without our consent so stop making comparisons as we all are different so there is nothing to compare.
We all are enough, we all are strong, we all are beautiful so never ever try to Compare yourself with others. If you think to Compare yourself with others then just remember that The Grass is not greener ,they are just using filter.
**Be Kind to Myself**
In a world where we can be anything__ In a world where now hate, jealousy prevails I'm trying to be kind not only to others but also to myself first.
As I believe we can't pour a glass from our empty vessel just like this we can't show or give our kindness to others if we don't have a single droplet of kindness for ourselves. So I just wanna say No matter what the situation is, no matter how the people are seeing you just be kind to yourself.
Nowdays we are lacking kindness as we are trying to be more soft, more easy to others than ourselves. If we don't have kindness for our own Self then how can we expect taht others would shower us with their kindness kindness, just think about it. So from today, I'm trying to be extra careful, extra kind to myselfelf first before anyone else.
**Asking for Help**
This is the most hated trait of mine. I don't know why I can't ask for help from someone maybe just because I'm too shy to ask but I realised by doing this I'm just deceiving myself so from today I just want put a full stop to this trait of mine.
I used to think that if I ask for help then they will think that I'm too weak to solve my problems on my own but I forgot that by asking help doesn't make us weak or fragile. I realised that asking for help is not a sign of my weakness but it is a sign that I'm just a human being just like others who can ask for help
Though there are lots of things which I have to focus this year but I want to give most of my attention to these three goals. If you want to love yourself , if you want to care for yourself like me ,then you can give yourself love by following this I know it's not that worthy but still you can follow these.
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There is no elevator to success
There is no elevator to success So one must have to take the stairs to reach their destination to achieve their goals, to satisfied the hunger of their hungry soul.
Nothing is free in this expensive world, one must sacrifice something they love in order to get something they want, it doesn't not matter whether you want or not. You need to understand that if you're not ready to sacrifice something for what you want then what you want becomes the sacrifice. The harder you work for something, the greater reward you will get at the end of the day.
If you want to be successful, if you want reach your craved destination, if you want to get your cherished things then you must follow some unwritten rules.
**Stop Making Comparisons**
**Stop Doubting Yourself**
**Stop Fearing to Fail**
Stop Making Comparisons
Stop making comparisons and the peace, the happiness will be yours for eternal. Stop forcing yourself to take part to those competitions which doesn't even exist. We need to keep in mind, 'Comparison' is the thief of not only happiness but also talents, possibilities, capabilities So stop making comparisons as it can make you numb both mentally and physically.
If you want to reach your cherished destination, then you must stop making uncountable comparisons today. If you continue to make comparisons then you will always continue lacking something in you no matter how much you have So don't try to measure your success, your potential by using other's scale.
We all are different from each other So naturally we all have different qualities, different possibilities, different tastes, different capacities, different capabilities, different passions so there is no valid point to make fake comparison between yourself and others.
When we start making comparisons that's the moment we start to make ourself inferior than others. We are accustomed to admire the same light in others which is shining within us too. So if you want to see the light of yours then you just need to embrace yourself as the way you are.
We all have completely different stories to tell, we all have different talents to contribute so it would be really better if we give all our attention to ourselves instead in making fake comparisons.
Try to be yourself. Try to embrace yourself. Try to admire yourself. Try to cherish yourself. Don't abuse yourself by making comparisons.
Do your best, give your all efforts without making any kind of comparison and there will be no one who can stop you from achieving your goals, from reaching your destination.
Stop Doubting Yourself
Stop doubting yourself as doubts kills what lies within you. Often we understimate the power, the possibilities we have owned by doubting ourselves in vain.
You have the ability to build a whole empire, you have the power to do things beyond your imagination when you stop doubting yourself and start working on yourself, on your dreams.
You don't need anything great or extraordinary thing to start your journey, to make your plans just believe on yourself and start where you are standing and what you have currently.
If you are in pain, then make your pain your sword. If you are depressed then use your depression as your armour. We need to keep in mind we all are born fighter, We just need to realize it.
No matter what happens, start your journey as early as possible. Because the moment you dare to get up from where you are, You will start to win and create history.
You are more capable than you think, So when the doubts of yours start to grasp you, when you start to make your mind to give up just try to recall those glorious victories which once you have achieved. So think twice before doubting your own self. Think twice before knocking yourself down instead belive on yourself and make yourself more beautiful than ever because there is nothing more beautiful than when you prove to yourself how strong, how smart, how better you are.
Stop Fearing To Fail
Fear works as poison which is more worse than the doubt. Fear is like a silent enemy of yours which lives within you and you are the one from where it gets power and energy. So stop feeding your poisonous fears and start believing on yourself.
It is truely necessary to fail sometimes to know the real power, the hidden capabilities of yours. Failures acts like both good and bad mirror which reflects and radiate both fear and your hidden possibilities which you have once buried for the sake of others, now the choice is yours which one you will choose.
Failures are nothing but the proofs of your beating heart and a path to success. When you stop Fearing to Fail that is the moment you discover the true self of yours which you had killed long years ago.
We need to be afraid not to try, instead of to fail because we learn from our failures not from our success. We should understand that our failures helps us to grow, to learn, to overcome those things which stops us from achieving our goals. Failure is nothing but a golden opportunity to revise our strategy. From today, try to be fearless instead of a prisoner of your own fears.
Thank you soo much for being here with me and giving me your time, support and love. I hope you all had a great and blessed day and wishing you more blessed days ahead. Have a great day.
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Trying to be an Adventurous Soul
What a pleasant and delectable day to be emmersed with a new world, named Read.Cash. It seems today's weather is symbolising the inner condition of mine, just like today's weather I'm too dealing with lots of assorted feelings. I can feel my nervousness, fears, excitement as I don't know what the future of mine holds for me but today I just want to start the magnificent journey of mine in Read.Cash by staying positive, energetic, empathetic as much as I can. Although,today my heart is full of uncertainties, ambiguities and equivocalities yet I just want to radiate and reflect only positivity and charms, I believe (not firmly though) I can do this.
Is not it great and amazing when you spend your time by scrolling YouTube videos just to get some fun and amusement but in the end unbeknownst to you ,you discover something that is very precious and important. I can feel the excitement of Archimedes when he found out Buoyancy for the first time, as I'm too feeling like that.
I don't want to make my article longer and make all of you bored so I am going to introduce myself __Hello I'm Grace by name and I got a curious soul which wants to experience and taste more than all the things that are in front of her eyes. Today's article and the beginning of a new & valuable journey is the result of that curiousity. My hands are shaking and my heart is beating swiftly while I'm writing this first article of mine maybe because this is my first time when I'm am trying to write something different from my answer copies, I'm not accustomed to write articles like this except in any examination.
I don't know whether I will get the support, the love, the affection which I'm expecting from my fellows and the green baby ( If I am not wrong about this name) or not,but I just want to enjoy a new opportunity, a new journey as much as I can because our life is too short to spend in our comfort zone. I believe we must try to do something which we have never expected to do, it will help us to add some extra fun, zest.
I'm a free soul who wants to try almost everything, as I know I will never get this life for the second time to experience, to enjoy again so I need to utilise each and every moment in a right way. Now, allow me to introduce my unworthy self briefly infront of all of you. I'm nothing but a mere simple and easy going girl who just completed her 19years of life span 4 months ago with a wide smile and lots of dreams in her eyes. I'm just a fun-loving girl who got a cheerful heart , who carries manifold dreams in her heart which she wants to fulfill not only for herself but also for her family and who has a crystal clear destination to reach. I love to see and show the bright, the positive side of everything and everyone.
I love reading books because books are the only thing which can quench the thirst of my thirsty heart and hungry soul. As I'm a book lover, you can call me a bookworm too so let me tell you some of my favourite authors and poets ___ they are William Wordsworth, William Blake, P.B. Shelly, John Keats, Emily Dickinson, Arthur Rimbaud, Sylvia Plath, Christina Rossetti.... Ah!!! I can't give any list of my favourite authors and poets perfectly as it is completely impossible to do because each of them has something different to shower us with.
Let me tell you about some of my hobbies....
Hobbies are the inseparable parts of ourselves without which one can't live, each and everyone has at least one hobby to cherish... Just like other human beings, I too have some hobbies , some passions which I want to cherish dearly and purely. So some of my hobbies are___
Gardening :— Though it is a common hobby among all of us yet it is really great hobby to cherish. I'm a plantita, everytime when I sits with those green, fresh, immovable things I gets nothing but peace, happiness, positivity, freshness. In a world where almost every human being is trying to demolish and destroy these green lives be a soul who will take care and cherish them, I always try to follow this line, I know I'm not flaws free person but I can give my pure love and affection to them. We all can do this. Am I right???
Cooking:— I'm not good at cooking though it is one of my favourite hobbies. I am a foodie kind of person who loves to eat more than anything but except eating I love to serve my cooked food to others. I can't say that I'm pretty good at cooking but I must say that my cooked foods are edible and one can eat my cooked food with a wide smile.
Apart from these two hobbies I love painting, writings poems, travelling, photography. I must stop my article here as I'm out of words right now and I can't anything more currently.
After fighting with my own thoughts for almost 2 hours and struggling with this new world, finally I'm ready to be an inseparable part of this wonderful site. Just like others, I too have endless dreams and goals related to Read.Cash but I'm scared to utter those unrevealed dreams and goals, maybe someday I will be able to reveal those hidden dreams of mine but I can say one thing that I want to be successful as a writer and as a good friend and I'm pretty much hopeful about it, Let's see what happens.
Now allow me to take a little break, as my fingers already have given up and asking me for some rest. I'm out of word too, I can't write anything today so let me finish this first article of mine with a sweet greetings___ Wishing all of you a great evening and night ahead and please Wish me the best of luck too because I need your blessings and support as I'm going to enter into an unknown yet pleasurable world full of conundrums and surprises.
Don't forget to take care of your both mental and physical health.
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