Do You Even Care?
Good morning, read.cash or good evening depends on where you are!
I've got this question flying in my head for days now and thought I'd share with y'all.
Do you really care what other people think about you? Do you really care what other people think about you? Yes or no and why or why not?
Well, my husband has been pretty outspoken (online or offline) and responses from critics have helped him establish a thick skin. Critical (some are very insulting) comments have been used to really get to him but they're really no biggie. Being married to him for over decade has helped me to not care much what other people think about me anymore, and I admire him for being direct even when others do not agree with his views.
I used to get harassed by many people in my earlier years (and been bullied on social media) and it drove me nuts as I have acceptance issues myself and felt as if people were being so cruel to me. I have had an excessive problem with worrying about what people think and found myself terribly emotionally exhausted. There isn't a minute in the day where I was not dwelling on dark thoughts. I felt like there is no light at the end of the tunnel.
Some say that what others think about you is a result of what you think about yourself. True that. People who think highly of themselves often have high confidence or ego, which gives a positive result and people who think poorly of themselves often have low confidence and have too many insecurities, which attracts negative feedback. I am not saying though, that those who are brutalized and bullied deserve it. A person's social progress may be dependent on their own self-image if they are in a situation where they are not extensively judged by people who do not care what they think.
"Live life to the fullest" as they say, and not care at all about any judgmental opinions that are thrown towards you in life. Don't let negative people suck your life away. Don't change yourself just because someone wants you to or if they are judging you. Learn to relax by not caring what others think of you. I have learned that being myself and doing things as I see right is an awful lot of fun lol. Other people may not understand what I do or why, but when I no longer care about how they react, that's fine.
I used to be helpless against others' assessments and would stress over them. Regards what reason do they do this, at that point I understood, it's been there. It is present and it will be there pushing forward. Thinking often about what others believe is an exercise in futility and energy. Regardless of other's opinions about you at a specific second, one thing is sure. You are never as good nor bad as they say you are in their eyes.
Shake it off. Chin up. Smile and move along. I hope all is well with you all. Now, time for me to get some sleep. Goodnight!
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Published:
October 4, 2022 1:40am PST
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Can't deny the fact sis that I sometimes affected with what the people can say about me. But as time pass by Iearn to not really care what the sh*t they are going to say against me. I mean after all they just a nobody that only know my name not my whole story.