Do Not Be Too Open!!
I watched a movie just now and I realized how people take others for granted. Some people are very wicked and they want to take every little advantage they get from other people which seems not to be right. If you know someone that has good intentions I think it is proper for you to also have good intentions for the person. Honestly, this goes a long way it has happened to me and I know how it feels to deal with people that have pure intentions about you and no strings attached. I think I should share a little of things that have happened in my life so you would know what I'm talking about.
When I was at the university, I had a very close friend. I'm not a sadist and I've always told myself that I will be sincere with every friend that comes my way. Even aside from the fact that I promised myself to always be sincere with every friend that I have, I'm a sincere person myself and I will always want people to treat me the way I treat myself. Imagine you treat someone like he or she doesn't mean anything to you and I'm sure that if such person treats you like that back you wouldn't like it so always have it in your mind to treat people the exact way they treat you. Let me get back to my story.
I'm not being proud here, but I'm from a well-to-do family while my friend is not from a well-to-do family. Something we should always know is that our fingers are not equal so therefore, we can't blame anyone for being poor. I gave her all I had but seems to be unsatisfied. She's always trying to meet up and one thing people should understand is that you shouldn't compete with anybody because there are some people that no matter how you want to achieve like them, you can never get it. Not because they are being supernatural or spiritual but the fact remains that they know people, they have connections and they have money to do all they want to do.
She's always keeping an eye on all my business. At a time, I felt like it was getting too much. She began to take me for granted. How? She played me for a fool. Taking my things without my permission with the hope that I wouldn't say a word. I felt bad. She's always jealous and she shows it to my face. Then, I begin to wonder what I've done because I'm very sure that I've not wronged her in any way. So I had to distance myself.
This keeps happening to me every time. I had to ask myself what was going on or what I have been doing wrong. Then I realized that I trusted too much and I was too open. I open unnecessary to people which will make them know my weakness and they'll eventually witch hunt me. I'm not telling you to be fake but limit the way you open up to people. People are being unnecessarily wicked these days and they'll eventually hurt you.
Be real but not too open😊
Do not let people know your weakness. They'll hurt you. Don't!!!!
Read it again and digest it!!!
Have a nice day😊😊
We should not be open no doubt. We should realistic and man of rules. We can share our things under limitations but not our feelings to all anymore. You did your best I think your friend should understand it.