Don't mock anyone, render help instead!!

Hello lovely readers and friends of read cash. How are you all today, I hope you all are having a great day.

My leg is still there with the pain, though not as intense as it was when it first occurred which I am thankful for.

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My colleagues though are just there making life unbearable for me, lol😂😂, it been very hard trying to get up and show them I have healed but I can't, I just can't wait to get back on my feet so I'd torment them the way they did.. they've been dropping countless jokes on me which they wouldn't have done when my legs were still intact.

I know surely my bones won't hurt that much for long, I have been planning on different good and not bad things to do to them😁😁.

Now on today's article on Don't mock anyone, we've all come in contact or being the one who mock others in what they do.

Many at times, we meet people who mock us because of our heights or body structure, our work, our health , relationships, status and many others. In fact they make us question our very being, their words most times brings in depression that leads to death of many or lead others to do what they shouldn't do.

• On our heights which sadly can't be fixed as some would've had it fixed if it were possible. I have seen cases where people mock short people and make them feel inferior among their peers, or how tall some people are among their peers. This have made some question God on why they are made like that.

Some have used or saving to buy enlargement cream or surgery to fix their boobs or butt to make them more bigger as the world in it modernization have brought in many ways to help this people. Though some do it because they aren't contented with what they have and needed to be noticed among their peers. I wrote an article on contentment if you'd like to read.https://read.cash/@Balikis/how-contended-are-you-bf83a974

• Different people have left their legal work to an illegal one because they are being mocked for not moving forward or haven't achieved anything tangible to show for it ,on @Theblackdoll recent article on If you are blessed, stop bragging!! you'll find more about this.

• In the case of health, many have been mocked for their health status. We all have certain health issues we are battling with and we've met with some people who look down on others because he or she is diabetic, hypertensive, a Sickle cell patient or because some are using glasses due to some health issues and others.

• In the relationship aspect,we have come across those that'll say nasty things about our fiancé or fiancée, either on their body structure or the work they do. This had made some girls push their boyfriends to do things to get them satisfied. Like a story I heard of a girl who saved money to get her boyfriend a laptop so he'd start doing Yahoo Yahoo (internet fraud) the guy though didn't listen to her and returned the gift which made her break up with him because to her, he won't achieve anything if he doesn't do what big boys does.

• We have heard words like, isn't she getting married, when will she be pregnant, maybe the husband is impotent and all other jargons to mock our status, this also as made some ladies endanger their lives by marrying a toxic man because they could not take it anymore, on @FashTioluwa article on When is the right age for a lady to get married, you'll learn more on this.

There's a different between mocking and inspiring people with your words to become better or do better in whatever they are determined to do. Always know that we all have different destinated time to accomplish whatever we want, because you have yours now doesn't mean others won't get theirs too.

Stop making your friend, colleague or families to feel like they haven't done enough. If you can't help, then stay off their ways.

Just like I always have these words like mantras to remind

That in dust we came and to dust we shall return.

Also never to mock anyone,as the same sun that hardens a clay also melt the butter, and we'll never know maybe we might be met with either the clay or the butter.

Mocking is very bad and it an attitude that we should try to work on as it makes us loose things that should have been ours or people who were supposed to be close to us and help us achieve more.

You may have ventured into a business that you find grace in while a friend of yours in that same business didn't move forward, it may not be her way or there might be certain things that might have resulted to that. But because you have climbed a ladder higher than that of your friend, you believe you are on top and start bragging and using some venomous words on her.

God said we should love our neighbors as we love ourselves and instead of helping them, you throw your mocking words at them. Never forget that you can slip and fall from that ladder at anytime, how you treat people when you are climbing and after you have, matters a lot.

Many have become depressed with those hateful words of yours and it may lead them to commit suicide if they aren't strong to overcome those words.

We should be mindful of our words because when a word is spoken out you can never take it back. Just like a joke I heard about Gb WhatsApp that you can never delete your words on it which is true so think carefully before you press the send button with your hands or voice.

Be a person with whom people would want to associate with because of the beautiful words that comes out of your mouth, if you can connect your friend to a job, do it and keep mum about it, no one needs to know. Help as many as you can, find joy in helping people out in various aspects. Don't just give them the fish but show them the way to the pond and the necessary things needed to attract and catch the fishes. Though we are not perfect, but why don't we strive to do good and leave this world as a legend, someone known to have done things rightly and have helped many get to their destinations. Create a good story for yourself,a story worthy to be told and heard by many listeners,a story that will inspire people to do more and give insights on things they need to make their lives beautiful.

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Thanks for reading and stay safe.

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Writer: Balikis

Date: 3 March 2022