Self-Reflective Questions: Examining Myself
Blog #202
March 30, 2022
Every day all of us are facing lots of struggles. Budgeting our time with our daily work is one of those but sometimes it seems like our time isn't enough to get some things to be done in a day. To be honest, in these past few days, it seems like my body is so tired to move. It may be because I have been sick for two days and maybe my body isn't fully recovered yet but I'm trying my best to fulfill what I need to fulfill especially when it comes to my children's well-being and their studies.
So for today's blog, I will answer some Self-Reflective questions to assess if I'm doing good or not.
Am I using my time wisely?
Honestly, there were many times that I just procrastinated. Watching some YouTube or TikTok videos or some KDrama series is what I'm doing. It's when I felt like doing nothing. I'm too lazy to move. Though my mind wanted me to move, my body isn't cooperating. I know I'm just a human who feels tired too that's why I told myself that's it's okay to procrastinate sometimes but when it's done always, it's not good anymore.
Am I letting matters that are out of my control stress me out?
Sometimes yes. I let myself be affected by it and that caused me stress and eventually, it leads me to procrastinate. Why? Because while stressing myself out, I lost my focus. I lost focus on the things that needs to be done and let those uncontrollable things take control of me.
I know it isn't good but that's what I did. Sometimes I'm trying my best not to be stressed by those uncontrollable things and happenings.
Am I taking care of myself physically?
This month or these previous days? My answer is Yes. I give time to exercise every day, I get plenty of sleep and I intake more water every day. I also eat more veggies than before and I'm happy to see that myself is getting better than before.
Am I achieving the goals that I set for myself?
With the house chores done every day? Most of the time I did accomplish all those.
Exercising 30 minutes in a day? I have accomplished it too but when it comes to the goals I have set for myself in the online world, especially in my online earning app, my answer would be no.
In my Appics account, there were 4 or 5 days that I haven't posted any. I have planned to post every night but I haven't achieved it because there were times that I sleep without me knowing it and I just woke up after two hours or so and I was still holding my phone.
With my 1 BCH goal? I'm still far to achieve it because there are some circumstances that I needed to withdraw my little earnings. Just like last day, my sister who had just given birth asked me to lend her money for the newborn screening of the baby. They have little savings but it isn't enough so she borrowed and I let her since I have money in my wallet.
Am I putting enough effort into my relationships?
Relationship with my children? I would say yes. Though there were times that I'm exhausted but I made sure that I still give time to have a bond with them even just for a short period. I also made sure that I give them proper attention, especially to their health and studies.
Relationship with my partner? It's a yes too. Since we are in LDR status as of this time, I made sure to stay updated about his well-being. I asked about his work, about his health and lastly, I never forget to tell him how important he is to us and I never forget to tell some sweet words to him to make him be inspired every day.
Relationship with my family? Though I'm far from my family, I also made sure to be updated about their life happenings. Last March 26, a little angel is added to the family. My sister who is in Manila right now gave birth to a healthy baby girl.
Am I happy with the life that I have?
Yes, I am. We may not be blessed abundantly in life but I'm happy that we can eat 3 times a day and sometimes we can still have some extra for our snacks.
I am happy because we are all healthy and safe and I'm grateful to God for keeping us safe and healthy always.
I'm happy for the things that I have and for the people that am with. I am happy spending each moment with my loved ones and creating good memories every day.
I may fail at some things right now but I will keep on trying until I can achieve the things that I want for myself. What's important at the moment is knowing that I'm happy with my life and with the people who are with me. And I'm truly grateful to God for all the good things that He showered upon us. Some things and prayers may not be granted by Him but I know He has a purpose on why He doesn't give it to meet them at the perfect time, He will. I just have to trust and believe in His process.
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tengo 40 años y en este momento de mi vida, me hago esa clase de pregunta, en especial las de las metas logradas, aunque creo que lo mas importante es preguntarse si uno es feliz y cambiar lo que haga falta para tener mas risas que lagrimas en la vida, a empezar con la paz mental y luego las otras cosas necesarias par ser feliz, un día a la vez.