Why is it always this way?
Good day everyone, I apologize for not being able to post on my blog for the past two days; I was preoccupied with my personal life and had to conduct some errands for my uncle; however, everything is now in order, and I appreciate everyone who reached out to me.
Allow me to explain why I came up with this topic today, which appears to be a bit unusual and difficult to comprehend: I was listening to the radio in my uncle's car while we were driving home from his workplace, and then something unexpected happened when I tuned in the radio to my uncle's channel, guess what happened?
Let's continue...
We were driving after tuning into his favorite station and listening to the news and what's going on around the world until they brought a question to the public's attention to hear their opinions, and it started to annoy me how people think and why things are always that way.
The issue they posed to the public was why girls can't lower their criteria when it comes to choosing a marriage partner, and why is it that men can lower theirs?share your thoughts in the comments section.
When the figures were released the public to share their thoughts, the first comment made by a girl was that she couldn't go lower than her criteria (standards) in a male but that a guy could go lower than his criteria (standards).
You wouldn't be surprised to see a man who is wealthy in one city return to his village to find a wife, which isn't supposed to be the case all of the time. While I'm not against a fully grown man taking a wife from the village, it has become a habit.
Let me say a few words regarding the question that was put online; I'm not a motivational speaker or anything, but I'll attempt to offer some advice on the subject.
Why can't girls lower their criteria (standards) when it comes to choosing a marriage partner?
We all know that when it comes to finding a marriage partner, girls have their preferences. You wouldn't be surprised to learn that a girl is interested in a guy's six packs and that she wants the guy to be black, white, or chocolate in color. Though I'm not against girls having specs in boys,but it shouldn't always be that way. Body color isn't what a relationship is about; what if the guy has a good body shape but a bad character that you can't handle? Marriage is a once-in-a-lifetime event, so we need to be extra cautious when choosing a partner.
What's required to choose a life-time relationship (marriage) is understanding each other, being plain to each other, and speaking the truth always is what makes the relationship grow, sticking to standards may cause you to lose who you are supposed to spend your life with as he may be part of the people who approached you but you turned down.
Though women deserve better, this shouldn't cause them to fly too high without fueling them, nor should it cause them to come up with ideas that make them refuse to lower their standards. This is one of the main reasons for most relationship breakdowns, as the girl was after her standards, which most of the time included money.
In conclusion.
Standards should not be used when choosing a partner because if you use them to choose someone to spend your life with, you may miss out on the person who is meant for you, and you know what that means: the marriage may not work out the way it should. That is why standards should not be used when choosing a partner to spend your life with.
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Though women deserve better, this shouldn't cause them to fly too high without fueling them, nor should it cause them to come up with ideas that make them refuse to lower their standards.
this part really got me and I totally agree with you on that and the Answer is NO.