Something's are beyond our control.

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Good day everyone,how was your day,hope you all are enjoying yourself while working,well as for me am not working just home and reading some novels to get busy,let me go straight to the topic of today without any further ado.

Most of us face tough times and everything seems out of our control, we might feel sad or depressed but we should note that certain things are out of our control.

Let me make a list of things that are beyond our control.

1.Change

As we keep on changing to become better there are certain changes that we do not plan for but it would happen.

2.Past experience.

Whenever we sit down and think of the past and how we can reshape the past to be better but we can't do that since it's beyond our control.

We can't control our past since we don't have those power to go back in time to reshape our past to be better.

3.Mind of others.

We can't change the mind of others to become a better person, it's their decision to do so and it's beyond our control to force them to change.

Since you can't force a horse you took to a river to drink water definitely it applies to humans also,you can't force them to follow your lead,they make the choice themselves.

4.peoples choice's.

No matter how we speak to people they make choices themselves since they would blame themselves if it didn't work out as planned.

People make choices on their way of viewing things so we can't control their choices.

5.choice of career.

Parents can't control their children's choice of career, although they would look for way's so that the child would change their decision but what is in their mind is what they are going to do,we can't control that.

Forcing a child to choose the career we parents want wouldn't make the child focused since it isn't their choices.

6.peer pressure.

Peer pressure has some great influence to affect the lives of those involved,you might wonder why I picked peer pressure,just ride along you would understand it.

Having friends with people who smoke and do all sort of illicit activities would push you into trying it,you can't control yourself not to join them.

We shouldn't force certain things to work out the way we want it to be, certain things are beyond our control.

Author's message

We shouldn't think too much about the past it has happened so it's beyond our control to change our past,the only thing we need to do is to think and plan for a better future.

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actually, ehen we begin to careless of what people tho k or say about us, the happier our lives would be.

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2 years ago

People's choice you can't control, people's mind you can't control... your choice over theirs jare Just work on change, especially if there are habits that affected us in the past.

We can't control whatever happened in the past too, but we can do things better

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2 years ago

You got the points...we can't change whatever happened in the past but we can reshape the past experience to make our present better.

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2 years ago

Though some parents tries and change the career of their child and end up destroying the child future because he or she won't have joy in studying it.

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2 years ago

It is true that we cannot change the past, only learn from it. And act wisely in the present so as not to make the same mistakes. Because the future does not exist, it is only living the present what we have left.

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2 years ago

You're right ma'am..we can't change the past but we learn from out past experiences to be a better person.

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2 years ago

That's true.

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2 years ago

Change is as natural as we can't control what happen to us at times

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2 years ago

That's for sure, change is a natural process that will always take place in our lives whether we like it or not

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2 years ago

We have to understand there always something which we can't control no matter how much we try. So it is better to accept something and at the same time avoid some toxic people and words.

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2 years ago

Well said buddy...there are things we can change like our past but we learn from it to make our present better.

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2 years ago

Those are beyond of our control. That's life dear.

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