Why do i vacate on read cash? Good day and happy weekend from this end, It an Ending of the second month in a new year. We are moving steadily, guess What🤗, 🥰 this year too is moving gradually towards the End. Hope that aspirations and visions of yours for this year is actually becoming a reality, congratulations if yes, but when it seems you are just trying and nothing show up, just keep pressing you are sowing now and you shall reap later. Just don't lose focus, DONT PLEASE!!! It may be tiring and frustrating but believe me the better version of you is coming out BIG. "***All successful people learns that success is buried on the other side of Frustration"*** ***Jony robbing.*** Now to my title, I have been off from read cash for almost two weeks now due to some challenging issue fate as brought on my way. As we all know, we all get to some point in life where life itself will throw to us some questions that seems provoking, if we like it or not they require some answers.And I will say our responses to those challenging questions of life and Existence has effect on whom we are and whom we are becoming. If we are wise and we are able to provide the necessary answer to this questions life is bringing to our path then we have a strong mind that brings the best out of us. So at this point our maturity is measured and proved even to the people expecting something from us. I the last two weeks,I got to the point of Frustration that I just become silent and down. Everything around me is just as negative as I perceived it within me, It was like this world has not been benefiting to me at all, and all that I see around is negativity. Everywhere seems so dark and blunt. All the voices coming to me seems so hard on me that I am losing trust in the positivity that life may bring to my path. It has been really though to the extent that I think of involving my self in some negative act. At times I will just lock my self up in my room thinking and looking at my life. But what I noticed is that the more I think, the more frustrated and Depressed I am. "Life itself is a question and how we live it is our answer" Gary Keller Are u living in depression? Sometimes, I don't think people understand how stressful it is to explain what is going on in my head when I don't even understand it myself. I don't know how I will explain what is going on in my mind so to avoid the stress, I just decided to keep silent. "***Some people arrive and make such a beautiful impact on your life, you can barely remember what life was like without them" Anna Taylor*** This is where I enjoyed having good people around providing me with so much words that raise hope in me even when they don't know what exactly is my point of Unhappiness. In life it is good that we maintain a good and cordial relationship with people that has confidence in themselves and in us that can allow us to grow our self esteem to it fullness. You may not understand this until you come across someone that understand you more than anyone else. When you yourself sees darkness all around like you are confused and Disturbed and there is one person that still sees light in that very dark moment. Then you will appreciate the value of good people. At times we become an answered prayer to people when we make ourself available for them and take time to understand them. "***Living the life of SUCCESS and IMPACT"*** Thanks to Chris who show up to understand and bring my Happiness back. I love you Chris...... U are such an amazing personality. Now I am back. Read cash be nice 🤗🤗☺️.
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Happy Sunday. The day of the lord is made to be glorious and divine. I hope it is so in your own side too because I personally enjoy been in Gods presence always. Yes been in front of our maker is a good and great one. What is a creature meant for if not to serve the purpose of the creator, to bring pleasure to the one who has created it. God in his love has made us for his purpose that is to serve and worship him always. That is why we are all wonderfully and fearfully made. His love overshadowed us that we radiate his glory, if there is anything we must do at all times is to always give thanks to God and worship him because some of our mate today are no where to be found, but we found Grace. I could remember a friend of mine that died not long after we graduated from secondary school😪😢 A brilliant young boy that is just starting life. His exit was so painful to us all and most especially to the family because he happens to be the first child of the family, but who are we to question God that is why I call him UNQUESTIONABLE GOD. The one who says YES and no man will say NO, he allow things to happen at his own proposed time. Who knows if he had died in the right time or not, but we know he is no more living like we are today, he is not enjoying the privilege that we are made to enjoy today. Likewise we also, counting the number of people that we know that are no more in existence again. So, for this particular reason we need to always thank God for not giving up on us. we that we are still living today is not by the Work our parent can do or the one we ourselves can do, or the givings that we do but just that God so much LOVE us and planned to preserve us. ***If God be for us, who can be against us***. Joy overflow in the presence of God, For God himself is joy.It was awesome in the presence of God today as we rejoice and celebrate our victory. Today service is majorly centered on the students as the church is a student church located in an area very close to one institution, so the student will be starting their exams tomorrow and the pastor has decided to pray for them to all come out in flying colors with the topic which is CHOSEN TO STANDOUT. The pastor gave some definition of what it means to standout. *He said to standout means to be exceptionally good.* *It also means to be noticeable and attractive.* *"To standout means to keep and occupy Graciously".* He mention some instances whereby one can standout, he said one can standout in grace, in performance etc. He also identify what we need to standout: 1. Preparation ***NB:Greatness is prepared for and not jump into.*** 2. Keep a lively expectant. 3. Stand on the word of God. We read in the Bible as Daniel and his friend standout among multitude because they were disciplined. we can also standout in whatever we are doing, be it in business, family etc. As we embark on the journey of a new week, we can determine to standout and Excel as we keep moving. Will you standout in this new week or you still want to spend this week the same way it has been. And don't forget to always thank God each day. Happy New week 😍🥰 Have a fulfilled week ahead. #OLAMIDERUTH# #ABBA'SDAUGHTER# JESUS BABY.
First party. We woke up again lively for another weekend. It shall be glorious Indeed.I want to share how I spent one of my last weekend. Thanks for following. It was a friday evening when my in-law told me that I will follow him to one of his friend party 🤗. I was so excited because his friend happens to be a well known person to me. Its a wedding party, and this people will serve pounded yam, at least I will eat this food early this year. The thought of the native attire to put on for this outing filled my heart as I slept on that friday. I slept late on friday due to the Holy ghost service we need to view in our house as a redeem member. The service has always been a good one since God will speak to our heart directly through the General overseer. The theme was a prophetic one tagged MIRACLE. It was a full of prophetic declaration and assurance of miracles. We finished the program by around some minutes after 2:00am 😴. I slept late which make me wake up late. On Saturday morning I woke up so late,actively and lively because it was a promised day. I will be going to party for the first time in the new state I relocated to and I love to attend since It will exposed me to new culture and add to my knowledge. And besides it a joyous ceremony as two heart will be one. I quickly said my prayer on my bed and rushed to the kitchen to do my house chores since it is Saturday. And Saturdays, as we all know it is always for cleaning and sanitation especially for the female child. Kudos to my gender 😍 we are always at the front when it comes to doing house works. I washed clothes, plates and get set around 12:30am and I left some works undone because of time. I don't want to miss any of the reception program from the beginning to the end. Unfortunately for me, we got to the party and we were offered seat at the back of the hall😌. I felt bad, how will I see the front from here was the first thought that runs through my mind, I became so nervous and restless looking at the front if peradventure I can get a vacant seat, I told the personnel that offer us the seat to help check if we can shift a little bit to the front. My in-law was so convenient with it and since the person that invited us to the party was too busy to attend to us at that time, I compose myself. Some minutes later, foods begins to roll in and I began to see different soup that was prepared, different soup of their culture. Even the general food that everybody know was prepared in their own methods.We were served rice which was accompanied with chilled soft drinks. They really did well, the person that invited us came in to give us a warmth welcome and I felt relaxed. Not too long the reception started by inviting the parents to their seat, the couples next. Yes, I sat convenient to watch, so far that is why we were invited, to be among the witness. Music began and the hall turn blue, every where was colorful. I remind myself of the day I will do same with that very lucky man 😊. The couple dance in with the bridal train. The bride was so beautiful and elegant with very good dancing steps. They came in with a joyful countenance, although the bride dance ten times better than the groom. This man did not even know how to dance, I whispered to my in-law ear 😂. Well not new, a man can not dance pass my gender. ***Gender Uniqueness😂.*** The party went well and I was so moved to dance at last because I was so happy with the couple. It was a Glorious Wedding ceremony. Let me remind you of the difference between a day and a life time. Wedding is a day event while Marriage is a life time journey. So be prepared for the life journey. Remember whom you marry will determine almost 90% of your happiness or sorrow. Choose right 🥰. I pray that I may choose right. Thanks for reading.
The Four Major Temperaments. Good morning 😊, Hope our night was great. The great Privilege that we have today is the fact that we woke up sound and healthy. "***When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive- to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love."*** ***MARCUS AURELIUS.*** Today has already been given to us by God, our own is to maximize it, that we may be able to give back to him the expected results. It is an opportunity we don't need to misuse as far as we are not in control of time and season. "***Who knows tomorrow".*** In my last article, I wrote about temperament. Yes Temperament is basically what makes us as a man, why we act the way we act, why we respond the way we do, why we think the way we think, even why we eat the way we eat 😂 is a blend of where we come from. I mean the ship through which we are on earth blends together to make us, it is a natural phenomenon that nobody knows how it happens, but science believes it is transferred from our parents to us so far we carries their blood. No man is born different from where he comes from. In fact, some psychologist suggest that we get more genes from our grandparents than our parents. I know of a family like that, where the parents were both tall and fat just that the mother is not that flesh like the father but not the slim type, they had five children,four daughters and one boy, the one that share them into equal half is the only short and slim among them, the remaining four looks like their mother and father. Two of them looks exactly like the father while the remaining two like the mother but this middle child look like their Grandmother that they called this little girl and the old woman twins because they are both same in height, their complexion,their body shape and some other things look alike. Since temperament are received genetically from our parents and unpredictable, their are other factors attached to it like race and Nationality, environment, etc that makes us. **Hippocrates, no matter what the factor, over hundred of years ago divide people into four basic categories which are Sanguine, Choleric, Phlegmatic and Melancholy and each man may has more than one temperament which accounts for his personality and character but one single man can not have the four.** In the blend of this temperament, where a man can have like three, one becomes dominant while the other is little of less functioning like the Dominant one. Before I analyze this four temperament I have learnt, I will suggest that we try and identify our own and identify even one or two of the people we relate with each day as it helps us to understand each other for maximum productivity. All the four temperament has weaknesses and strengths, that is why most of the times what you expect from your friend is not what he gives, we all experience and fall victim of this at some point in our life. Every man has weaknesses, so we don't expect it all to be pleasant to us from people at all times,the degree of our weakness just differs based on how individual has been able to work on himself and as a result of how mature we are, not about age but understanding and discipline. At some point, we are fond of playing on other person weakness which is also a weakness we need to eliminate as well, it is not too good to mock a fellow human personality I had done this before I understand how it hurt. As we have weakness so we also carry some strength that gives us enablement to do things that yield good result and pleases people around us. It is an instrument of love 😍 Do not be down, carry yourself well, you are whom you are and not whom anybody is. Develop a good self esteem it helps a lot.where u think you are not good is not telling you to condemn your God given self just a little shift can be productive. Maintain whom you are. Maximize your strength Work on your weakness. And be a better version of yourself🤩🥰. Analyzing and how to maximize temperament coming up next...... Stay tuned... I love you Thanks for reading👊🥰 I still remain my humble self OLAMIDE RUTH #abbasdaughter#.
Temperament. I am OLAMIDE RUTH by name. I will be talking on Temperament. Thanks for Following. Everything we do is as a result of our acquired trait or characteristics. No man is born empty, we all shared from our parents personality. From how we react to situations, sleep habit to our study habit and how we get along with people and all that we do is as a result of our temperament. It influences every part of our lives as human. "***Humanly speaking, there is nothing that influence your life more powerful than your temperament or combination of temperaments.*** ***TiM LaHayE.*** **What is Temperament*****?*** Temperament is the combination of traits we inherited from our parents. The combination of both parents personality and trait that is been transferred to us from birth. We don't decide the one we acquired that is why I will tell us that we don't need to look down on our self ( advance your self esteem), don't be intimidated by other people's personality, but try and work on yourself and grow to the best you can. We can't be somebody else, but we can be better and bring out the best from those inherited trait. It takes personal understanding and Value. Some people will say "I don't like myself" because they are not aware if this powerful influence on their life and behavior. It is a person's temperament that makes him extroverted or introverted, outgoing or shy. I knew a pair of identical twins when I was in secondary school. They resemble each other to the extent that everyone in the community can not identify them, they are of same height and complexion, these look alike is too much that you call them same name. One thing is that their little sister can identify them with no confusion. If this little girl can tell them apart, definitely they are different from each other. So not long they began to interact with people,since they just relocate to our area. We began to know them and see the differences in them, one is outspoken and the other loves to be alone. In their academics in school, one like sciences and the other art. What made the difference between identical people? Their Temperament. The combination of parents' genes and chromosomes at conception, which determined basically temperament is largely responsible for our actions, reactions, thought, emotional responses and everything we do. It is temperament that makes some people industry and sports enthusiast and some music and art. That is why, " one man's food is another man's poison". I remember back then during my teen age, I and my elder sister will always fight that she will always beat me for my laziness and I begins to develop a kind of hatred towards her.Until I went for a program where we were taught how you maximize temperament in my church. I heard the word temperament for the first time in the program. The teacher was a psychologist and he explained why most of the relationship, be it friendship, family relationship and other forms of relationship crashed by the reason of individual differences that we failed to understand. In the course of the teaching that day, I felt bad when I was exposed to the weaknesses that comes along with my temperament and the dangers attached to it. I take note of my temperament and that of my sister and I tried to compare it then I concluded on the point that we are two different personality from same parent. I give myself to discipline which helps me to amend some of my weaknesses which I am still coping to overcome some. This discipline eliminate our fight and now we are best of friend. If we failed to identify, analyze and understand the difference in each person that come across our way their is total tendency that we will keep on managing the relationship without enjoying the maximum benefit of which we are together. Nothing has a more profound influence on our behavior than inherited temperament which is supported by environment and how we were raised. Thanks for reading. To be continued🤗 The four major temperaments coming next. How to identify and maximize. #Selfesteem#.
Responsibility vs possibility Its Monday again🤗🤔 Here comes another week with its full package of 5working days, the week is going and not stagnant likewise the years itself is counting.Time waits for none. Dreams cannot become a reality if we keep on dreaming Without taking the necessary actions, You can't keep on dreaming and dreaming without taking the risk and be expecting the reality of living. Purpose in the air To some people, life has been a mystery which cannot be understood, Just because they are yet to dig the well of knowledge and embark on the journey of revelation.At times we won't understand until we are taught and we are able to learn. It is good to have visions ( visioneer )🤩 but it is better to support it with activities that are useful at certain point in time.Know what is next at each move in our journey helps a lot and makes it more easier and faster to get there with little stress. Mind you a gold is not yet ready for use until it pass through fire. So the ladder to achieve what we have been aspiring for come along with stress. It is what we need to prepare for as we look forward to that good life. Life is not always bread and butter, know this and know peace. It is of truth that some of us are doing some things with ease, you get all that you want not even need with little or no hardship, just remember it is the outcome of hard labour of some heroes and heroin, yes they really tried in the place of their responsibility, they worked and prayed ceaselessly and God helped them. Heaven help those who help themselves. If you can dream it, you can do it. Yes it is possible but take responsibility, what can an idle man achieve? NOTHING. Your mate speed up on the path of success all that you do is to envy that you support with laziness which weakens your passion and results to low self esteem. when will you wake up from your sleep and endure, now is the time; rise up and take the risk.Those mate of yours that you keep on thinking about their success are already thinking about all that they need to do. Don't be an assistance thinker 😂, you are not needed in that affairs they only need you to support them in prayer, if their is anything you want to do without their consent, it helps a lot. If Impossibility will become possible, add faith. Believe in God and believe in yourself. Don't allow fear, it only handcuff the possibility of all that we can achieve. Fear is just a weight that beset us, just a stumbling block. If there is anything a man will fear, it is fear itself. Re-shape your mind, guide your thoughts and soar. Fear, the opposite of faith and vise versa. Here is what I mean by responsibility, taking up the cross yourself, doing what is required and be diligent in taking actions.How do we do the needful? It takes DISCIPLINE . Eat when you are suppose to eat, read when you are suppose to read and not only schooling, Education and schooling is a separate entity that goes hand in hand, don't be carried away by the course outline, see life beyond, buy books and widen your horizons of learning. Be ye knowledgeable, attend seminars with those ahead of you. Attach discipline to your focus and don't forget to sleep well, it is healthy to enjoy nature 😊. In everything add Humility. Humility is more deeper than respect, it is not respect is reciprocal. Humility is been down and been raised up by higher people than the level at which you were before you lower yourself.It is a rugged but simple act of been responsible. Have a great week ahead 🤗🤗 Don't allow your age alone to grow be sure another thing grows.
Don't die in silence 🤗 It is in our capacity to decide how we want to spend our day and each moment of our existence, because it is good that we spend each time we have in good mood and not allow anything to bring us down because life is always full of circumstances to get us down and unhappy."Happiness is a choice" 🤣🤗shey you know. I want to share a personal experience of how I save my self, my day. I woke up one morning so confused about an issue, I was so burdened in my heart that I began to hate my self, and had no appetite for work and food. I locked myself up in my small room. it was a very serious life challenging issue that I don't know what to do about it. How do I get myself out of this issue, I can't run away from it because it is something that makes us as human as we journey through. Everybody in the house knew I wasn't my self that very day, what can they do since they don't know what is in my mind. My sister walked up to me in my room to show her concern about my well being since we are living together and been the only parent I have, she asked me what the problem is and I keep telling her nothing, whereas I had a lot in my mind. And she got fed up and leave me to my problem so far I refused to open up. Some minutes later, she called for my attention which I sluggishly answer her. Since you have refused to tell me what the problem is, I want you to help me with a transfer at the bank was the response that welcome my ugly face. I had no choice than to do what she wanted so as not to put my self in another danger of disobedience. I went to the bank with the load of life I am carrying on my head, everything I was seeing Wasn't making any sense to me. I did the transfer with distractions and it was successful. On getting home, I went straight to my room and tears began to roll down my cheeks. After some minutes of weeping, I went into a moment of silence. It just dropped into my mind that maybe I should go and see one counselor we know in our family. I messaged her that I want to come and see her in her office and she sent back a welcome reply, I dressed up and went to meet her in her office since she's the director of the counseling department. I got to her office and she offered me a sit, she asked by calling my name what the problem was which I replied with tears and was unable to raise my head to behold her face, she allowed me to cry for seconds and the next question was, since when have you started been unhappy? I replied this morning. I explained to her what the problem was and she said is this the reason why you have decided to spoil your God given gift of been alive today, I burst into tears again and she asked me some questions again as a professional counselor. Immediately, she called one of her friend that can help me on phone, he requested for some of my details which I provided. We rubbed mind together, I learnt what to do from our discussion and I took the necessary step. I got my bright day even before I left her office🤗🤣 Sorry for making you bored but we all at one time have a challenge we can't overcome by ourself, so instead of getting stock in what ever difficulty life may bring, we need to share it with a trusted person. "Problem shared is half solved". Thanks for reading🤣 Have a bright day ahead.
First day in special school Seeing life around me, its full of different people with different challenges of life among which many have seen the Handicap people as no value added one, what can someone with no eyes offered himself talk less of the society where he belong. A female being with one hand is limited in life, these people especially those sitting on wheel chair beg around for money, yes that is the only thing they can do or who will employ somebody that is totally dependent on another person as a worker. What can they do? One will always find these people in a secluded place especially in the market begging for alms or in from of worship centres like mosques and churches where they can be noticed by people going to worship. Some of them can be irritating due to the degree of their disability. I know a boy in my community then that always go house to house begging for food, he is mentally retarded and physically handicap that he couldn't cope with learning and having difficulty in talking. Little children in the street always make jest of him and they see him as a funny creature, most of the times they will always frustrate him till he cries. Stigmatization everywhere. I finished secondary school, sat for JAMB with the aim of gaining admission to the university and nothing less as we all do, I did the exam and I passed but unfortunately I wasn't given admission to study my proposed course in my desired institution. I felt bad within my self and make up my mind to wait til the following year. In the course of my waiting a sister of mine introduced me to a college of education in my home town where I will be awarded a lesser certificate with what I aspired for, Though I have been hearing about the school but have never been there before. She talked with my mum and she agreed that I should go and put in since it is just three years, I put in for admission and I was admitted. That faithful day I went to submit my credentials for the admission, when I got to the school entrance, I read through the name of the school again ( Federal College of Education (Special), the first of it kind in the sub-sahara. The special in bracket caught my attention and I began to ruminate within me what the special could mean, like what can be special in this school of low qualifications, "If the famous schools that I know did not add special to their own name" so why this kind of a school. I entered into the school and ask for their admission office where I will submit my details for admission. On getting there, I met with some aspirants too, some came to check their name on the admission list, some for payment and the likes. We all understand how we felt on the first time processing admission ( jambito), so i entered the appropriate room to fulfill my mission and go back home.While I was still with the personnel attending to us, A guy came in as if he was called and started demonstrating with his hands (can't he talk, I asked within me) and the man attending to me begins to do same. I got carried away, Immediately the man collected the file he was holding and started sorting them out, I moved a little bit backward as if I was directed to do so. They finished what they want to do, and as the guy was going, I keep on looking at him like I should call him and meet him personally. The man called my attention by saying are you not doing the submission again and I return to him and not long I finished what I am in for. As I was going back home, the scene begins to play in my head as if I was watching movie.Could this boy also be an aspirant was the thought that filled my heart, how will he cope, has he ever been in school before like all of us, or could it be that he is the special the school name carried. Pen down here Hoping to drop more Thanks for reading Am a special Educator 😍 We teach the special people and not the DISABLED ABILITY IN DISABILITY
In the last two Decades I had always grown up to see life as stages which cannot be manipulated for another, it is as complex as it is which can be determined as we move . To some, it has been really smooth while some grow up with ups and downs to make a living. I personally see this as a result of the family we belong which can't be determined by self, we don't choose where we want to be given birth to but we can choose how we are modelled with it. Family background and orientation plays a crucial role in the life of every child, the standard of living, the quality of life we all enjoyed at each stage is a reflection of where we belong. I love my primary education because it majorly account for the first decade of my life, those period of enjoying maximum care from parent and elderly ones. The age of zero worries, easy learning, little house works etc as others too can relate. In this decade we all live our life totally dependent on our parents. Parents, no matter how and whom they are, they still deserves our accolades at one point or the other. As I was told, I love education from childhood and I grew up to believe it because I have a great urge for it now "Education is the best legacy". So in my primary school, we are five children of the same father of which our mother differs and we are known by the management and staff because we have the highest population in the school. On every first day of resumption, my dad will always lead us to school where he will buy the needed materials for us to aid our learning ability and class effectiveness, such as notebooks, textbooks, pencil and other stationeries. The first week of every resumption is always fun filled by dint of meeting with friends again, having new books, and also the first week is always for revision in classes which means less class activities. I was known by the school for my brilliancy with good handwriting as a small girl, so I became the talk of the school among other siblings and I get attached to all the teachers. I and the proprietor's daughter was the very best friend due to the fact that we attended same church, we grow up sharing things in common which made us to attend same secondary school in the Same year and graduated together as friends. Later in primary school, I and my siblings experienced many things which is not in our capacity to control, at times the school management will send us home for school fees and other levy which made me feel sad and inferior to other class mate. Gradually, I began to make progress academically and growing up with it in age, so life became more meaningful to me. My understanding began to expand in the way I see things around me and my basic society ( Family).Then I knew I belonged to a family of five wives with my siblings not born by my mum but same father. Separation find it way into the family and everybody began to set boundaries in relationship which affect peace and harmony in the home, war chipped in and the family turns something it is not meant to be. I understand the difference in my father and mother personality which accounts for who I am today. I finished my primary education at the end of the first decade of my existence, so I entered secondary school which is different from that of my siblings. I began to make new friends and having more exposure in view of the fact that the school is far from our house. The school was a very big and one of the prestigious in the town, the school exposed me to competition because their mode of entry is based on certain requirements and examination which must be diligently met by anyone who desire the school. Joy filled my heart on that faithful day I went to check the list of admitted students, so I will school with the children of the rich people because the school fee is high than what a child from my background can easily afford, this thought filled my heart as I sighted my name on the list. I got home that day to disclose the good news with my virtuous mum and she was happy not because she can easily afford the fee but because she will always see me attend that kind of school. Even in church everybody was surprised knowing someone from my family can make that great record of going to that kind of great citadel of learning. I began the second decade with my secondary school and ended with losing my mum at exactly age 20. No mother and daughter always live apart no matter the distance between them but the distance death brought between us is beyond what both of us could control. There were times in the middle school and junior high, I didn't have lots of Friends. But my mom was always my friend. Life goes on with God backing me up. To be continued.................. I remain my extroverted me I am who God says I am I know who I am Not who people think I am. #Jesusdaughter# Written By OLAMIDE RUTH.