@Amazing-grace
Make good friends.
Lead image:designed using canva. According to my understanding,a friend is someone whom you have mutual relationship with and no strings attached,making good friends on the other hand is having a great treasure in your hand,a good friend can be your helper in terms of need and can help you achieve your goals. While looking for friends we need to lookout for those can help us whenever we are in need,those who can lay down their back for us to lie on,those who can help us achieve our dreams. It might be a little difficult for you to find one but when you finally find one hold on to them and never let them go,it's rare to find good friends as every wants to carry their loads alone. Let me tell you all a story of a youth who had a good friend and that friend helped him whenever he was in need; Two best friends lived on the coast of an island and attended the same school they were childhood friends right from time since they grew up together and played together,though the only difference between both of them is that one was from a poor family who barely eats thrice a day,they eat only once so his friend who was given birth too with a silver spoon and ate anything he wants usually bring food for him to eat since he doesn't like seeing his friend hungry Their friendship grew more as they understood each other and helped each other when any of them are in need but when they were getting close to the end of their secondary school since they would part to different universities they were beginning to miss themselves that they might not see themselves again. The other child who was born with a silver spoon told his parents about this that he doesn't want to part with his friend so his parents asked what they should do so he beckon that they should pay for his and his friends school fees and they school attend the same university, they parents were amazed and told the boy that they would do as he said.. This short story picks out some benefits of having friends but while looking around for who to make friends with we need to look for those who we can rely on when we are in need of something urgently not those who are just there for the money we have to eat it and when they've helped you spent it finished you are left alone to struggle. A friend can either make you achieve your dreams and plans or spoil it,it just depends on the type of friends we keep and associate with. **Closing thought.** Be careful who you make friends with,some of them would say good in your face but when you aren't there they say the bad things you've done. Bad friends can lead one astray as you can't expect to have a friend who is a thief not to implicate you to join them it's not possible we just need to be extra careful with the type of friends we make. Meet my sponsors, they are the ones giving me the courage to move on. Thanks for reading and have a productive day ahead💙.
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Good friends are rare to find Especially in this era where greed and hatred are the order of happenings. But nevertheless, if you have a down to heart friend, it's good to stick to that person
Well said if we fund a good friend in this era we need to stick to them cause its hard to find good friend.
Nothing is more precious than having a good friend that got your back..... A good friend will always go an extra miles for you no matter what
Perfectly said!!a good friend can go extra miles to help us that's why we need to have good friends who can lay down their back for us.
Finding a real friend is difficult and so if have found the right friend, take care your friendship as trust are really hard to gain. I love the story my friend, it only shows that their friendship are real as the other person think about the other side.
You're right.....it's rare to find true friendship in this era as people no longer trust themselves again but if we find one we need to stick to them.
That's why when we matured enough we only have a few friends as we already know the true meaning of a genuine friend and it's really hard to find it nowadays.
You're right when we are matured we understand better on the true definition of having a genuine friend so they can help us in tines of need....spot on
In short, avoid plastic and Marites friends.
You got the point in the article....we need to avoid friends that can't help when we are in need.
Worthy friends are like gem. Precious for entire life.
You got the point in the article, good friends are precious gem,whenever we get one let's hold on to them.
True friends will come out in times of needs.
Well said...when we are in need that us when we know the type of friend we have and it makes us differentiate the good from the bad.
At my age, I only have few friends, in real world because I am afraid if I will be betrayed again. But in here, I considered all as my friends! Finding real friends is not an easy task to do, especially now a days. Its better to have few but real friends..
You're right...it's better to have real friends who can help you then to have bunch of friends who aren't helping you in one way or the other.
True. Gaining those kinds of friends will just give you a headache and heartache.. :(
A friend in need is a friend indeed. Show me your friend so I tell who you are. This two quotes would always make me remember the kind of friend I will have to make. Not just anybody but the good and reliable ones
You're right....we need to have good and reliable friends who can stand for us when we are in need.
Totally right. No argument 😂
having good friends is good thing in life, because bad friend can harm us in many ways no matter what it is , so we must find good friends because it has impact on our lives.
Having good friends is one of the greatest treasure we need in life, it might be hard to find them but when we eventually meet with them we need to stick with them.
It's always better to have just one loyal friend than to have ten who aren't loyal, coz you can never tell who will betray you one day
Well said....it's better to have one friend who we can rely on when we are in need rather than having lots of friends who can't help you when you are in need.
Totally correct. The type of friends we associate with or rather make will go a long way in determining the kind of person we are and the one we aspire to become. Bad friends corrupt good manners and so we should desist from keeping companies with them. Brilliant article and a Fantastic lesson to match. Thumbs up bro. 👍👍.
You're right buddy....we need to desist from bad friends as they would corrupt us too...you got the point in the article,spot on buddy.
Some friends can come through for us when we are in need and that doesn't mean the ones that don't come through for us as fake friends. We all have our struggles.
You're right we need to know our ground and know the type of friends we make even if we all have struggles there are some who are there to eat and money and leave us to gather our scars
I prefer to have small circle of friend because I know not everyone that you treat as a friend will treat you the same way. But the real friendship, doesn't matter about the gender, age or social status; it comes from within that you haven't feel to others.
You're right it's preferable to have small circle of friends who can help you in terms of need rather than having bunch of friends who don't care about us.
It's difficult to have good friends these days. Out there is nothing but fake people who will exploit you at every opportunity!
It's difficult nowadays to see good friends who would care about us and show us through friendship, whenever we find one I'll endeavour us to stick to them.
Agreed, there are friends that would make you grow and would do thier best for you. Would even help you Asif you both came out from same womb..such friends make one complete, but unfortunately they are quite rare.
Having good friends is quite rare as they are like precious gem who can lay down their back for us when we are down.
Sometimes we use the term friend loosely to describe people who are little more than peers or acquaintances, but I think we should be really careful about who we call friend. A friend is someone you can trust to have your back in good times and bad. And I think an important thing to understand is that if you want to have good friends, you have to be a good friend as well. The relationship is never one sided. Great story and lesson!
Perfectly said....we need to be extra careful for who we call our friends,the relationship is never one sided we need to be good to people too.