Mistakes partners do in a relationship.

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Relationship isn't all about love. Most times, we need to create time to be with each other so our partner can have a feeling that they are not alone.

Most relationships have died down because the partners never created time for each other and never show the true love in a relationship to their partner.

Let me take you throughout some mistakes partners are doing in a relationship that can harm the relationship.

*Making assumptions; For a relationship to last long, we need to stop assuming or doubting that our partner love us, we just need to keep it cool and show the care in a relationship and you are good to go, making assumptions in a relationship doesn't end well.

*Lack of communication; In a relationship, partners are guaranteed to communicate with each other and share their feelings with their spouse and whatever they feel is bothering them, most relationship have broken down because of the lack of communication they had, so for a relationship to grow we need to increase our communication and always find out time to spend with our spouse.

*Being dishonest; For a relationship to grow the way it should, we need to be plain with our partner and not being dishonest or deceitful to our partner so as not to lose trust in each other, dishonesty won't make a relationship grow rather it would make the relationship broken.

*Refusing to apologize; This is the most critical among all that can harm a relationship and make it broken, in a relationship we need to always show apologies for wrong doings and promise not to do such again and also stick to your words, an apology in a relationship goes a long way to soften the heart of our spouse keeping the relationship alive.

*Reacting (rather than responding); It's best to respond to a conversation with your partner rather than reacting to it, as it makes them feel uncomfortable in the relationship. We just need to make our suggestions for any conversation we have with our partner.

*Neglecting our self-relationship; neglecting in a relationship simply refers to when the partner cannot attend to his spouse in a timely and acceptable manner, we need to always note that our partners need our attention and so we shouldn't neglect that but find time to attend to them in a timely and acceptable manner and also don't procrastinate with that.

*Violating each other's boundaries; Whenever we find ourself in a relationship, we need to understand our partner very well which should include their likes and dislikes and way of doing things, we shouldn't try to break boundaries with each other once we've understood their likes and dislikes, this would help build a relationship.

*Avoiding conflict; Conflicts aren't a good thing as it doesn't always end well. We need to avoid conflicts in a relationship so that the relationship would last wherever there's peace, such place would be good to stay for long.

Closing thought

We should try to avoid most things in a relationship to make the relationship last long, failure to create time and respond in an acceptable manner wouldn't end well as everyone wants someone who they can lean on and share their secrets with and not someone who barely has time for them and never respond in an acceptable manner.

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Comments

Eeei God!, Am I going to be in a relationship again like this? You said it all, like you nailed it. Talk about assumptions; I'm the chief master of jumping into conclusions. Refusing to apologise, oh that's me, but lack of communication has never been me tho...

I've experienced almost all of these and I've definitely taken correction

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1 year ago

You would still find yourself in a relationship even if you don't want to be in one but the best thing to do is to understand each other and create time for each other and also not to forget trusting each other and remove those assumptions.

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1 year ago

Wow! Notes taken. I'll endeavor I do my possible best. Thanks a whole lot Grace.

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1 year ago

Guy, I can personally tell you that all of the things you have talked about here are very accurate and correct. I have experienced all of these things and they are truly things that can destroy s relationship

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1 year ago

Those things I've listed are the things that can harm a relationship and make a relationship die down.

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1 year ago

Lack of time in a relationship can make a gap between the spouse ,it's very important to have time to bond,communicate,eat together as a family.Relationship will not work when it's one sided.

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1 year ago

Love your point, relationship wouldn't work when it's one sided,we need to find time for our partner and make good communication and flow with our partner so that the relationship would last long.

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1 year ago

Communication serves as a continuous bridge to connect each other .

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1 year ago

These are really relationship killers. We have to question ourselves if what we are doing is healthy and if not then we should change our attitude and be better if we want to keep the relationship.

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1 year ago

You're right buddy,we need to ask ourselves if we are doing well in a relationship or if not we can make amends to it so the relationship would last long.

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1 year ago

You’re right the relationship isn’t just about love, and you’re also right in everything you said.

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1 year ago

Thanks,we just need to make things right in a relationship.

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1 year ago

Lack of communication is kinda like the worst thing ever, it would definitely seem like you guys arent in a relationship anymore...

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1 year ago

You're right,we need to create a good communication with our partner so that the relationship would last longer.

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1 year ago

Being in a relationship requires a lot of sacrifice and patience. Trust is one of the things that can compete destroy a relationship. If both genders have trust issues, then they don't need to go into any relationship.

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1 year ago

You're right,trust is one of the key things we need to have in a relationship for the relationship to be good.

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1 year ago

Many relationships have broken because of different mistakes even more than you’ve mentioned but the most that causes the problem is to Makings assumptions weather the partner loves each other so one will be searching where about of the other. Which leads to lack of trust.

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1 year ago

You're right, making assumptions in a relationship isn't a good thing as it lead to lack of trust and once that happens the relationship would die down.

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1 year ago

Yes Ive been in thus kind of situation and now our relationship ended so sad

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1 year ago

One of the reason why relationship broken is due to ego and pride, no one wants to admit mistake and tend to defend themselves even though one of them is wrong, it makes the relationship toxic that ends up in breaking up. I agree that communication is always the key in relationship, both couple needs to interact and talk no matter what problem it is to address the issue.

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1 year ago

You're right, we need to admit our mistakes in a relationship and always apologize for any wrong doings it's the best way to clear of the matter and also building a good communication with our partner is a good thing so we can share each other's feelings.

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1 year ago

establishing a relationship with someone is a commitment to build self-emptiness to share feelings and intentions. Relationships are always colored with problems whatever their form, the solution must be taken from the initial action to talk about everything possible something that happened. Initial talks to work it out are the best way both partners will understand and understand.

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1 year ago

You're absolutely right,to establish a strong relationship we need to create time and share feelings with each other,that is what it takes to make a relationship grow.

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1 year ago

The one with the assumption is the most scariest especially for over thinkers. In fact that one can even destroy a relationship before it even starts

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1 year ago

That's right buddy,most people do overthink and doubt if their partner truly loves them and this destroys relationship quicker.

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1 year ago

I never been in a relationship but I know all of your points are good when it comes to building relationship. It is always imperfect actually but true love and love with patience could survive everything.

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1 year ago

You're right with true love and patience a relationship can last long and grow.

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1 year ago