This day has not been a good day for me, because my baby is not feeling good and I feel like my body is aching especially my back, but I know I can manage this, it will not be the reason to laid back and relax, coz I have my laundry waiting for me, just a need little rest and I will be fine.
I came up with my article about keeping secrets, is keeping secrets a sin? Is keeping secrets especially with your partner is healthy? Or it will give us trouble in the end? And it is really true that no secrets can be kept forever.
I think keeping secrets is not a sin especially when it will benefits us or will help us as a person, and maybe it depends upon the secret that you are keeping, and there are secrets that can be kept forever coz its the good for everyone.
Well me, yes I am keeping secret with my partner but for me its not a big deal, I dont know with you, once you knew my reason for keeping it.
I was member of noise.cash for about 10months and read.cash is I think 9months, but yes my partner never knew it, yes I am keeping it as a secret even with everyone here, I dont want them to know that I am earning here, why? Because I think it will help me more to save for Adrielles future, and expenses since my partner is not good in spending money, yes he is always a one day millionare even the money he earned is from his hard work of being a construction worker.
Imagine if he complete a week of working, he earned ₱2400 and he will only gave me ₱1000 pesos to keep, before he was able to buy fruits, fish and chicken with whats left in his hand, but now about 3weeks he never buy anything, he will handed me the money at saturday night and imagine monday morning he is asking already from me, so if you are in my condition will you tell him that you are earning even you are just in the corner of your house? This is my main reason why I am keeping it as a secret so I can save and have my own money, coz I dont want to depend on him. Yes I told him that I am earning but I never detailed how much, I told him that what I earned will be used to pay my loans and my pawned gold bracelet, coz I can't depend on his earnings coz his earnings is almost lacking with what he was spending.
But I am helping him secretly with our expenses especially with our groceries, most of the time my budget for 1month groceries is only ₱1000 pesos, do you think what am gonna buy with that money, i think that is only good for a week, so I add some of my savings there, then last time I pay our electric bill, he never knew that I paid it all, he knew that we still have 1 month balance for our electric bill, so for sure when the bill came he will notice it that we dont have extra balance anymore.
Now, do you think this secret is healthy or unhealthy with us? Coz for me its healthy coz I can manage to keep our budget coz if I will not do it both of us will be indebted with everyone, and am not gonna pay all my loans to my friend and get my pawned bracelet.
Actually I dont know where he is spending his money, but her siblings said he always bet on lottery, I think one day he spent ₱100-150, imagine its a huge amount already, while me and Adrielle sometimes in one we never spent even a single cents.
So do you think I make the right move of keeping secret of my earnings from him?, Or I still need to discussed it to him? You can share your opinion with me and I am willing to listen my readers, commenters and upvoters.
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🌹Annie Marie🌹
2021.11.20
According to my opinion, you are doing no wrong thing, sometimes we have to keep our secrers.. If your husband come to know about your exact earning maybe he can start to spend more, your daughter's future is more important than anything else. I hope she will recover very soon