Decisions and Their Importance
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Decisions are something fundamental in our lives since we are born until we leave this world, we are forced to make decisions, negative or positive, but in the end, they are decisions, many of them full of consequences, which not only affect us but all those around us, a bad decision can change or destroy your life.
"Make your decisions, before the decisions of others, take you" - Anonymous
Since I started to grow up I understood the magnitude of making a good or bad decision, when we are very young, we do not understand the meaning of this, we always spent them getting into trouble, for making bad decisions, go to places where we were told that we should play in places where we were in danger until we ended up cut, or with some serious injury, that made us go to the hospital.
And many will think that this changes when we grow up, and we reach a certain stage of our lives, but it is not so, many do not learn from their mistakes and continue hitting the same wall, we reach adulthood, it is assumed that we should be more mature, rational and with a developed logical thinking, right? But it doesn't happen like that, anxiety visits us, depression, problems, the stress of being adults, the stress of achieving so many things, and then comes the worst, the decision to compare ourselves with that friend, who is the same age as us, but has already progressed a lot, has a house, a profession, a car, and a partner, while we continue living with our parents, and our distraction is Netflix.
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As I said at the beginning, there are good and bad decisions, it should be noted that we can not blame others for our bad decisions, because as rational beings, we must know the consequences of our actions, not because my friend is doing well in his life, I will try to overcome it, and make the decision to do something illegal to have money for example, and that is very crazy and will not solve your situation, we must understand that the fast roads will always bring us problems, maybe not at first, but in the end.
¿What should we do to make a "good" decision?
I put in quotation marks the word good, because each mind is a world, and maybe what I consider good, for others is bad, however here I want to give you some recommendations and I sincerely hope it will help you:
Disconnect your mind from any problem.
Think about the consequences of that decision.
Analyze and ask yourself, why that decision can be positive for you.
Accompany this moment with soft music.
If possible, sleep before making any decision, keep your mind clear, rested.
Think about now, not tomorrow, some decisions can damage your present in a matter of seconds.
Do not let your decision be influenced by others, think about yourself, think about your physical and mental health, do not act under pressure from others.
There are beings so bad, that pretend to be our friends, but they only lead us down that bad path, they seem like the Devil for how they act, making us see things that do not exist, suggesting us to act in an illogical way or to take very depressing decisions, stay away from those who say they love you but in their backs they have a sword, ready to stick it in you when you least imagine. Decisions are so important in our lives, that is why we must act with great caution, never make a decision upset, sad, anxious, because you may regret it for the rest of your life.
Many of the problems that have existed in the world are because of a bad decision, some situations should have been avoided, just for not thinking before acting, they happened this way, I hope this helps you if you are in that limbo of not knowing what decision to make, patience and peace, everything will be fine if you know how to wait, the right time to take that step, to decide.
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I totally agree with you that we are responsible for making good or bad decisions. Sometimes I used to compare myself with other colleagues and now I tell myself that I am very well off with what I have and I feel free and at peace. My bad or good decisions have left me here.