The Love Of My Wound

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Many times we talk about those love stories that in some way or another captivated us, filled us with joy, happiness, and many other things, however many of us avoid talking about that person, who may be failed us, disappointed us, or left us, those people I call them The Love Of My Wound.

Many people would love to have a manual to know how to find that happiness in love, to know how to deal with a relationship and that this does not fail or end, however it would be very rare to have a manual, imagine that, a book that tells you how to act, what to say and how to avoid falling into the routine, I think that if that would cause routine and the rupture that is not desired.

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We all have beautiful love stories, but also some very sad ones that maybe we do not like to remember, we do not like to talk about, but we know they existed because in our mind those sad memories are housed, maybe today our lives have changed, we have matured and we see from another perspective what we lived, what we had, but there are difficult situations to let go, to exterminate or erase.

Maybe you who are reading me, you met a person who moved you're being complete, a person who became an earthquake and made you wake up, made you feel more alive than ever, made you think that with him or her you had a whole future, however all those plans, all those promises, all those dreams, were left floating in the air, they were like that old ship that is left at sea, wandering alone, without touching land, the saddest thing about this is that many times we blame ourselves for those breakups, for that tragic end.

We torment ourselves thinking that we should have acted differently so that this person would stay by our side so that he/she would not leave so that this beautiful story would not become a real soap opera, but it is there where we must pause and understand that there is nothing we can do when a decision has been made, possibly we made our mistakes, but if love is not strong enough, if there is no will to improve the relationship, there is nothing we can do.


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We all have a love of wounds, a love that failed us, that left us, that forgot us, that threw us like a broken shoe, however, this helped us, or at least I think so because it made us stronger, it made us understand that we must improve, that we must change, many people keep stumbling over the same stone and it is because they keep looking at the same prototype of person, there is something with which I have never agreed and it is with that phrase: "Opposites attract". I feel that this is very wrong, when someone is very different from you, at some point they will collide and that is where they will understand that they cannot be together, we should always look for someone who shares similarities with us, where communication is the basis for everything to remain solid.

So if you are still tormenting yourself for that love that caused you more hurt than happiness, take a break, do not fill yourself with stress, frustration, things always happen for a reason, if he is not still by your side, it is because he does not deserve you, you are more than you think, you are more than what you are given, so smile, go ahead, now you are missing places to know, people to enjoy and love, so life does not end with a breakup, on the contrary, just beginning...


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I am still wondering if I'll be able to love again..... Maybe, maybe not.... The hurt goes deep, so deep, that I try to make sure I do not hurt another person using the same means that I was hurt

Well, it's true we shouldn't be depressed over someone leaving us. They truly didn't deserve us, if their love wasn't strong enough to make them want to stay with us

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We will always have the opportunity to love again, to fall in love again, we all have out there that special person, that person who was born to complement our happiness, never forget that, I know that the wounds hurt, I know that the memories torment, but everything passes, even the worst storms, so smile, trust, let yourself be loved but always be yourself, take care of yourself, never depend on anyone, only on yourself, you will see that the blows of life will hurt less. Thank you for stopping by dear friend

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There will always be lesson that we can get from who come in to your life. It is up to us how we let them treat us. Be kinder to yourself for the at the end of the day, you must preserve yourself. We can't always be ruled by others. We should rule our own lives.

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Very true, each person who enters our lives always leaves teaching, learning, it depends on us if we learn or not, and I agree with you, we must always love ourselves, respect ourselves, and know when it is time to put an end to something that is hurting us, but we love ourselves, ¿Who will? greetings and thank you for commenting.

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That's it. At the end of the day, it's always about ourselves. We should love ourselves as we love others.

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I do believe one thing that if one goes away from your life, their purposes have ended and we don't need to work up ourselves or be depressed because of that. We all have been betrayed in whatsoever ways and we need to understand that life moves on. Better ones will come for us and fill those vacuum. Thanks for this inspiring thoughts from virtual variety.

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Right, my beautiful friend, everything happens, after the worst rains, the sun comes out and that tells us that there is hope, that there is a new opportunity, we just have to move forward, do not stop for anything or anyone, who loves us will do the impossible to be with us, who does not love us will do everything possible to leave very quickly, thanks to you for commenting and stop by here, greetings

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And because of that love wounds, I am afraid to love again.. It was too deep and the scars are still visible..

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We will always fear something my beautiful Jane, and it is okay to be afraid, it is a response of our body and mind to the problems, however, do not let that fear dominate you, control you and prevent you from trying something new, something that complements your happiness, those wounds at some point will close and will remain as a memory for the future, however, everything happens, do not doubt that, I send you a big hug, thanks for stopping by here

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Yeah the wound closes.. But it will remain forever in my mind..

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