The Love Of My Wound
Many times we talk about those love stories that in some way or another captivated us, filled us with joy, happiness, and many other things, however many of us avoid talking about that person, who may be failed us, disappointed us, or left us, those people I call them The Love Of My Wound.
Many people would love to have a manual to know how to find that happiness in love, to know how to deal with a relationship and that this does not fail or end, however it would be very rare to have a manual, imagine that, a book that tells you how to act, what to say and how to avoid falling into the routine, I think that if that would cause routine and the rupture that is not desired.
We all have beautiful love stories, but also some very sad ones that maybe we do not like to remember, we do not like to talk about, but we know they existed because in our mind those sad memories are housed, maybe today our lives have changed, we have matured and we see from another perspective what we lived, what we had, but there are difficult situations to let go, to exterminate or erase.
Maybe you who are reading me, you met a person who moved you're being complete, a person who became an earthquake and made you wake up, made you feel more alive than ever, made you think that with him or her you had a whole future, however all those plans, all those promises, all those dreams, were left floating in the air, they were like that old ship that is left at sea, wandering alone, without touching land, the saddest thing about this is that many times we blame ourselves for those breakups, for that tragic end.
We torment ourselves thinking that we should have acted differently so that this person would stay by our side so that he/she would not leave so that this beautiful story would not become a real soap opera, but it is there where we must pause and understand that there is nothing we can do when a decision has been made, possibly we made our mistakes, but if love is not strong enough, if there is no will to improve the relationship, there is nothing we can do.
I thank these beautiful people from the bottom of my heart for their support and dedication, if you still do not read any article about them or do not know them, we invite you to do so, it will be the best decision you've made in your life.
We all have a love of wounds, a love that failed us, that left us, that forgot us, that threw us like a broken shoe, however, this helped us, or at least I think so because it made us stronger, it made us understand that we must improve, that we must change, many people keep stumbling over the same stone and it is because they keep looking at the same prototype of person, there is something with which I have never agreed and it is with that phrase: "Opposites attract". I feel that this is very wrong, when someone is very different from you, at some point they will collide and that is where they will understand that they cannot be together, we should always look for someone who shares similarities with us, where communication is the basis for everything to remain solid.
So if you are still tormenting yourself for that love that caused you more hurt than happiness, take a break, do not fill yourself with stress, frustration, things always happen for a reason, if he is not still by your side, it is because he does not deserve you, you are more than you think, you are more than what you are given, so smile, go ahead, now you are missing places to know, people to enjoy and love, so life does not end with a breakup, on the contrary, just beginning...
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I am still wondering if I'll be able to love again..... Maybe, maybe not.... The hurt goes deep, so deep, that I try to make sure I do not hurt another person using the same means that I was hurt
Well, it's true we shouldn't be depressed over someone leaving us. They truly didn't deserve us, if their love wasn't strong enough to make them want to stay with us