About living with a person who has Alzheimer...Part 1

I experienced the death of my father.She was sudden, he was in a coma for 3 days and then he left us. The mother was left alone in a small house where she raised our three daughters
We often visited her almost every day. We didn't notice anything strange, she behaved well.
 After a few years of solitude, we noticed that her coffee cups were not very well washed or that she was cooking the same dish.
 She told us that she likes to eat that food.
She didn’t want to leave her home and live with one of us
It was winter. She couldn't light a fire anymore and it was really cold in our home
We found out she had a hernia and needed surgery. 
Somehow we persuaded her to come to my home until she recovered from the surgery.
Then the fight began ... the windmill fight
To be continue.....