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True. Ito yung sinasabi nilang post partum depression 😭. At sana maunawaan ng mga anak niya paglaki kung anong nangyayari sa kanilang ina at di parin iiwanan.
I feel her pain, because my partner is almost like that, go home whatever time he wants and go out and get drunk as if he is still single
Grabe yun madam yung sakalin ang bata. D ko carry yun 😭 pro post depression is really worse.. Kung walang asawa na tutulong hirap mka move on jan. . Sana ay maging okay na nanay na yan.
I find it worrisome when a man leaves everything for the woman to do because she is a woman. It's annoying and no one should go through what this woman narrated here. It's emotional and traumatizing. Someone need to give the husband a high five with a metal bat on the head. It's insane.
I want to be mad at her for doing such things to the poor child, and that is very wrong.. But you know what? The oity overwhelmed that. I am angry at this jerk of a father that put all the burdens to the mom alone. At least work for the family so the mom don't have to?! Why bother having a family when you'll become a lazy b*stard? Moms don't deserve this. They have went through enough when they carried the children for almost a year EACH, giving a painful birth. Just a genuine assistance is okay, bro. I hope that guy still has a conscience.
At some point, naintindihan ko yung nanay. Hindi naman talaga madali maging nanay. Nakababaliw, nakapapagod. Pero sana hindi na lang nya dinamay yung bata. Nakaaawa yung musmos, wala syang kaalam-alam sa pinagdadaanan ng nanay nya. Pareho silang biktima ng sitwasyon. Sana ayos lang yung nanay. Sana makapag-isip sya ng tama. Sana may ibang kaibigan, kapatid o pamilya man lang yung nanay. Sana matauhan na rin yung tatay. Ang dami kong sana. Hays.
Welcome po Ma'am and thank you so much din po sa pag Appreciate and pag upvote ng aking comment.Godbless po.
Man, and heartbreakingly crazy. Full of pains, struggles and emotions. I too, is a full-time mom and I know how hard it is. Both the husband and wife need counselling. Praying for them 🙁
Iyon naman talaga ang hanap ng kahit sino. Pero di rin naman kasi natin makikilala na ganun sila sa unang tingin palang. Sabi mo pa nga pag mag nobyo at nobya palang ang ganda ng ugali.pero pag nagsama na, ayon lalabas na ang tunay na ugali. Pero sana nga po.
Yes postpartum is very real minsan kase ginagawa nilang biro but it's very real... Minsan talaga kapag sabay sabay Ang mga bata tapos gawaing bahay and bills you'll go gaga about such things
This is so sad! I don't know why a lot of people like to have a child but when they get one then things can be different because of one parent. I feel sad for that mom, God is with her and he will protect her from giving up I believe that. So sad!
...oh no! So heartbreaking, for how long will she continue living in pain, i think something is missing in that home which is love. Men should should try to understand that child raising shouldn't be for women alone, we all have our role to play in this process. The earlier her husband understand her feelings the better for her, feel so sorry for the woman has she's passing through emotional and mental stress.
Everyone know that mother rule is important in our society whatever you say about her but mother is mother.she should face every type of pain but she want that her children remain Happy 😁. She sacrifice everything for her children. But question is now a days why children's doing bad now a days. In fact I have so many videos and in these videos children beating their parents 😭😭😭😭.
Oh my! This is so painful ma'am.🥺 Postpartum is not a joke. I heard a lot true stories about it. I'm hoping and praying that she will be going okay and please her husband help her.🥺 That's why if you are not ready to have a family. Please be careful because at the end the children will be suffer. 🥺Praying for them.🙏🙏
Good gracious, I can feel her struggle as a Mother. Mali yong ginawa nya, sobrang mali pero di natin malalaman yong bigat ng dinadala nya coz we're not in her shoes. Siguro napuno lang talaga sya, sobrang bigat na kaya di na nakapag isip ng ayos nag dilim ang paningin Oh Gosh. Nakakaawa sya, nakakaawa yong anak nya sana manlang madama nong asawa nya yong hirap na nararamdaman nya NGAyon. Oh Gosh. That's why I don't want to be a mother. May tendency na maging ganito ako.
Ruffa ikaw ba naman 24/7 walang tulong. Ikaw lahat puyat pagod, diba tapos stress ka pa. Kakaawa ang nanay pero mas kawawa ang mga batang wala namang kalaban laban. 😭
Yun na nga, sana naman maisip ng mga lalaki yan 🤕
Postpartum Depression is really not easy. Kaya dapat tinutulungan ng husband yung mga asawa nila. Hindi madali ang pinagdaanan ng mga babae sa tuwing nanganganak. Nalulungkot ako after I read the post. Bakit kasi may mga irresponsible na mga lalaki. Sana magiging ok na yung si ate na nagpost. Kawawa ang mga bata eh.
Yung mga data talaga Yzza, mga inosenteng anghel. Nalulungkot na naman tuloy ako, masakit sa dibdib ganito. Kakaawa si nanay at mga bata pero dapat syang bumangon para sa mga anak nya.
The mother was not really at fault, though her actions were wrong. But the husband is to be blamed, what is the essence of marriage? Is it not for them to be with each other, no matter the condition. He now abandoned her, which is bad. I feel for the woman
He can't be called a husband because he is not one. He can't be called a father for not being a father to his children. We really have this kind of man that needs to learn a lesson.
This is really sad and emotional too. I feel for the mother. I have always prayed to God for the right and responsible man who wouldn't leave all to me alone. At least the Bible says both partners should be helpmeet for themselves. Well, I think every woman is strong just as you have said. Most times, something like this happen to those who aren't ready for marriage but they opt in by all means. There are single moms out there who still take care of more than two without the father there. She needs to be strong and also consult a counselor to help her too.
I hope she does that. I hope she seeks help. I hope she knows that she has a choice. And I pray that she chooses her children's well-being. Her children need her. May she resort to the strength that she needs from them. Women are amazing, mothers are beyond.
This is very saddening, actually minsan nagagawa ko yan yung mapagalitan anak ko lalo na kakaidlip ko lang tas sya gising na. Nakakapagod naman talaga 24/7 maging ina, I cannot blame her lalo na lack of support sa partner hahaayy sana maging okay na sya bhe kawawa din mga bata.
Bhe diba ikaw tayo makakarelate sa kanya. Ikaw ba namang 24/7 tapos di ka man lang tutulungan ng asawa mo. Puyat pagod, stress sama sama na. Kawawa mga bata na walang kamuwang muwang. Sana layasan na lang nya asawa nya at tulungan sya ng pamilya nya. Hindi rin natin alam kung wala ba syang ibang malalapitan. Kasi ako lalayasan ko yun iintindihin ko mga anak ko. Ang sakit bhe.
Oo nga bhe baka no choice din yan walang malapitan ba kaya nagtitiis. Tas liliit pa nang mga anak bhe wlang family planning liit nang gaps okay lang sana yan kung supportive asawa jusko. Tayo nga napapagod pa na may nag aalalay lalo na yan sya hahay kawawa talaga bhe.
Oh no,It's really sad. I am felling bad from my heart for this mother. Mother is the best gift for every childs but she is really in bad condition. father also have some task for their children's. It's tough for taking care a baby alone. Father should understand his wife's pain and also should support her.I don't know why husband wants baby but forget take care about their wife! Hope she overcome the problems with great strength!
We pray for that. I can't imagine me in her shoes. Sure I am strong but my strength has limits. Maybe she's tired of getting tired and she maybe carrying all the burden for too long now. 😔
Nabasa ko din yan ate and nakakalungkot talaga. Ramdam na ramdam ko yung pagod ng nanay. We should really need to be careful in choosing the man that we will spend the rest of our lives with.
Nakakaiyak, nakakaawa at along kawawa yung mga batang walang kamuwang muwang. We dont really know the story behind it pero dun pa lang sa 24/7 na nanay grabe na yun.
Mothers' sacrifices are immeasurable. I really felt bad for her because she was left all alone. Some guys are really useless for leaving the mom and the kids.
Mother is supreme. Weaning a child is a full-time job on its own. God help every nursing mothers because if you don't control your emotions, you may lose your mind
Napakasad nman po niyan sis and nakakaiyam para sa bata na maranansan ang ganun . Ako po tatlo ang anak ko sa panganay ko ako unang nahirapan ang aswa ko nagtatrabho sa malayo kami nasa probinsya nong nanganak ako sa panganay ko. Simula nong makuwi kmi galing hospital pagka panganak ay iyakin siya andon yung natutulog akong nakaupo karga lang siya kasi kapag nilapag iiyak. Andon yung time na inaaway ko asawa ko kasi sa mga oanahon na yun anjan dapat siya katabi nman tinutulungan ako dahil sobrang hirap tapos nabinat pa ako dahil nga iyakin panganay ko.. my times din na naiinis ako sa anak ko pero hindi ko inisip na saktan siya tulad ng nasa fb na yan. Pinagpanalangin ko nalang na lalaki din siya lilipas din yun sa una lang. Buti nlang at lagi nman akong ginagabayan ng pamilya ko especially ang mama ko kaya ngayon tatlo na anak ko kaya ko ng ihandle sila kahit na malayo parin ang tatay nila sa amin.
It make so sad even the one who think who don't have any feelings or emotions will cry coz mother is everything for us and we know importance of this relation and may Gob bless every mother with good and respectful childs and husbands.
Amen to that dear!
Grabe ang sad nong post,di ako nagalit sa ina kundi sa asawa nia. Nakaka pressure din minsan. This is the reason bakit ayokong mag asawa. Mababa ang pasensya ko at ayokong magkamali sa bandang huli Your so lucky for having a good man. Di lahat blessed kaya masasabi kong out of ten, iisa lang ang may matino at responsableng ama.
This story is very scary,,, especially for mothers who give birth and raise children but the fact is that when husband and wife establish a relationship and have children, they should be with each other at all conditions. As you described your relationship with your husband, every couple should learn from
I don't think that woman will ever forget. May God help her. I don't have a child of my own but I know that as a woman you need to talk about this thing with your husband, even doing daring stage. some men are so great that if you don't tell them that this is their responsibility they would never know, they won't do it , not because they are wicked but because they simply do not know. Like you said mothers are amazing. They are simply the best 👌❤
Women are amazing and mothers are beyond. I just wished she gets through this and the husband be the husband her wife needs and they can both look after their child.
Yeah I hope so too😔
😥😪 so much relate with this. When it feels too overwhelming you feel alone, useless, tired, at punung puno lalo na pag ung asawa mo na inaasahang katulong mo sana ay d supportive. Mapapaiyak k n lng pagkatapos mong saktan ang anak mo. Nakakabaliw tlga, you even think of killing yourself. I hope the woman will be able to seek professional help.
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