Women need respect and love, not only rule....

It is often said that husbands do not want to understand their wives. I don't want to implicate all the husbands in this allegation, but most of the time such allegations come from different social contexts and this is the cause of the biggest emotional turmoil for wives. Attempts are made to impose opinions on wives and to bring a kind of control. Is it out of any fear or is it their behavior to make men a right in the society.

Honestly, they are men from an early age, they will continue to dominate in this society and this problem is created because they have grown up with this mentality from an early age.

And usually girls are raised from an early age with the title of feminine flexibility and tenderness.

But one thing everyone forgets is that even though she is a girl, she is a human being and has a full mind and heart and is an important part of this society. Just as a woman can decorate a family like a flower garden, so she can make a heap of destruction. But when it comes to a well-arranged family, all the credit goes to the men and the women are left neglected in one corner. But when it comes to family breakups, all the blame falls on that woman.

So do women just bring destruction? If so, what do women need in a man's life in a family?

Everyone wants to get a share of the prize but no one wants to take the share of shame that goes to the woman alone.

Well what do women want? Lots of money, house, car, luxury life! Of course not. They want a little happiness, a little peace and a man who understands.

There is no denying that men have a lot of responsibilities in a family because the responsibilities of the family are with the man as the head of the family but women do not sit. They also devote themselves entirely to internal family affairs.

Then I don't think there is any place for underestimating women here. But even after that there are some men in our society who want to keep themselves high because of earning money. It is very unfair to oppress their wives.

If a husband devalues ​​his wife, does not the younger son in the family, who in the future develops as a ruler or a responsible citizen of the society, receive the same education from his father?

What does the little girl who is growing up today learn from seeing such an inconsistent relationship between her parents in this family? This is what she sees her father ruling the family as a ruler and her mother behaving like a slave, meaning that the little girl will have to take the same form in the future if she goes to another family. Then this girl's self-confidence and efforts to build herself were suppressed at an early age.

So where are the problems? These problems are created by us or society is teaching us this way so we are learning.

However, it is true that we have always been formed by looking at these contexts of society but now is the time to change our own perspectives because this society is formed by us, we are not formed by society!

Our future generations will see and learn when we change ourselves, respect our spouses and always evaluate their opinions. They too may always reflect these principles of their family in the future. Confidence and self-esteem will increase in girls and families will be saved from destruction.

Original Content By @sj0820