Raise your child through positive parenting !

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I am going to write today's article about positive parenting .When we become the parents of a child, parenting naturally comes between us. So what is there to write about positive parenting? Of course there is. Time is telling that now is the time to write about positive parenting .Because times have changed and we present parents are so busy that we are acting as guardians in raising the children but forgetting to communicate with the children through positive behavior.

We all know Parenting is a labor of love and a tough job. There's no manual that can prepare you for the countless life-changing decisions and responsibilities that come along with raising children. Some days, it feels like we're just barely hanging on by our fingernails while trying to do the best we can. And other days, things seem so easy and go so well! Which one are we? Good parents or bad parents? The answer is: neither! We're all doing our best based on what we know and how we feel at any given moment in time. Our only goal should be to help our kids grow into happy adults who will contribute positively to society and make us proud of them. Positive parenting helps us get there by giving us tools such.

Think about the word "parenting." It sounds like an exhausting, full-time job. And it is! But does that mean you should just do what comes naturally? What's natural for one family might not work for another. Here are some of the differences between parenting and positive parenting:

1) When you're a parent, you take care of your children all day long. When you're practicing positive parenting, your kids take care of themselves sometimes too.

2) Parenting means yelling when things don't go well (and maybe even spanking). Positive parenting means keeping calm and finding other ways to show love and discipline.

3) Parenting can be done in isolation; but parents who practice positive parenting find joy in their activities.

Positive benefits of practicing positive parenting

Positive parenting is not a lifestyle. It is not possible to master positive parenting overnight. It is a matter of practice. Positive parenting is not just about how to raise happy kids, but also includes the positive benefits of practicing it. These include an increased sense of connection with your children, better relationships with their peers and adults, less depression and anxiety in parents themselves, as well as a decreased risk of childhood obesity.

Many parents may find this ridiculous because the idea of ​​parenting comes to them as soon as they become parents and it is a very natural thing.  But there are many differences between parenting and positive parenting that I mentioned earlier in my article.

If you look at your daily routine, you will see that your daily activities have become just like the traffic rules. Just as traffic rules on the road determine when to stop and drive, your daily routine dictates to your child what to do and what not to do. We also do direction based parenting too. We always tell the children to get up, sit down, eat now.  Do it now, do it then.  In other words, we keep giving them direction all the time. The biggest mistake of this modern painting is when we don't do conscious parenting with kids.

The first condition of positive parenting is connect before you correct .We are connecting less with the kids but correcting them more.

I accept that children need guidance and that they have parental responsibility and love, but we also need to take care of how much

Self-responsibility

Self-accountability

Self-love

Self-attachments

I can instill in my child. Positive Parenting These are very important to keep in mind and the most important element of positive parenting is to create positive communication with the child.

Don't let your children's behavior define who you are as a person:

In the words of Maya Angelou, "I've learned that people will forget what you said. People will forget what you did. But people will never forget how you make them feel." This is a lesson we as parents need to keep in mind when it comes to our children's behavior and temperament.

It may seem like your child's temper tantrums are the center of your world, but they're not going to be for long. The time goes by so quickly and before you know it they'll be old enough to move out on their own or have their own kids! In order to enjoy this stage of parenting with less stress, try not letting your child's behavior define who you are as a person. Be patient and love unconditionally.

Communicate with your child and tell them what they're doing wrong, not just what they're doing right .Usually we praise children for their intelligence or smartness . Usually praise them for their natural abilities. This kind of praise is very wrong. We should praise children for their hard work and effort.

In direction-based parenting, when the child does not listen, we call the child rude. We're just directing them and we get frustrated when he can't act on that detection. Because we are trying to force kids into a certain shape .Because we do not understand the psychological pattern of the child. Never praise their intelligence or smartness because then our kids will get stuck in a fixed mindset.

But only when you remove yourself from positive parenting will you be able to understand the child's emotional movements because the child's communication with you will increase .Only then will it be easy for you to understand why a seven-year-old is lying, why a 13-year-old is arguing and why children are hiding things. Because by increasing communication with the child, you can capture your child's psychological pattern.

Our whole parenting should be to ensure the growth of the children .Children need to develop a sense of responsibility and understand that people are being suffered by their behavior.

We are fixing the time of eating, fixing the time of sleeping, fixing the time of reading but how much have we thought about how much we are building for the life of our children? The better you try to understand your child and the more positive communication you create with your child, the more positive behavior your child will give you back and only through positive parenting can this complete scenario be created.

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