Do you believe in the existence of the perfect woman?

Each of us has a different definition of perfect. A handful thinks this word is derived perfectly, which means "complete." Perfect is defined as something that is without deficiency or defect and therefore exactly suited to its purpose.

Yes, a perfect woman does exist. She's the woman who doesn't have to worry about her weight or her hair or whether she's wearing the right clothes at the right time. She doesn't care if she doesn't have the latest fashions and she doesn't care if she doesn't know how to do the things that everyone else knows how to do. She's not afraid of being herself, which means she's not afraid of being different from everyone else—and that's something we can all learn from!

The first thing to know is that there are no perfect women. No one can be perfect, because no one is capable of being perfect. If you think you have found a woman who is perfect, you haven't.

But... if a woman looks like she's got it all together, that means she's probably not doing enough for herself in terms of her body and her mind. But maybe she just hasn't had the opportunity to open up yet and share what she knows with the world.

I don't mean to sound like some kind of feminist, but I have to say, I think it's important for women to be held accountable for their actions. The way I see it, when a woman does something wrong and gets punished for it, she deserves it. And if she doesn't deserve it? Well, that's her problem.

But what about men? Do they deserve the same treatment? I don't think so! Men should be held accountable for their actions just as much as women are. We live in a world where men are given all kinds of advantages over women—and they get away with everything! If you're an average man and your wife asks you to buy her flowers on Valentine's Day because she wants to feel appreciated and loved, do you feel like you should say no because buying flowers is too much work? Or do you go ahead and get her flowers anyway because that's what husbands do?

And then there are the times when men get away with murder and nobody talks about them doing anything wrong at all! You see these things happen all the time: A husband beats his wife up or kills her—nobody says anything about that happening! A guy rapes someone-Yes, but she's probably not you.

You are a very good person. You have so much love and kindness in your heart, and there's nothing you wouldn't do for the people you care about. You're a good listener always willing to help others out—even when it's not convenient for you. You're not afraid of being vulnerable or showing how much you care about someone else by sharing your struggles with them.

However…

You may be thinking: "I think I'm perfect! I'm not like any of those other people." But that isn't true! You are amazing just as you are. You don't need to change anything about yourself so that your friends or family will love you more (or even like you at all). We need other people around us because they make us better versions of ourselves, they make us stronger, wiser, and kinder versions of ourselves. And if someone needs help with something, then helping them is what makes them better than they were before-it doesn't matter how well-meaning or helpful that help was; it only matters if someone else benefited from it at all!

There is a theory that to look perfect, any woman must have it all together. But no one can be perfect, so how is it possible? If you think you have found a woman who is perfect, you haven’t.

Realize that the perfect woman doesn't exist and that it's your own "perfect woman" who is of the highest importance. Endeavor to be that perfect woman for yourself, with all your quirks, imperfections, and faults. Yes, you. Stop worrying about being like everyone else; you are your person. Be happy with yourself and understand how much you mean to someone else—that's what matters in the end.

*Lead Image by dimagio from Pixabay 

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