I have lived many years, that is, chronologically I am old enough to say that I am a mature woman, I thank God for every year I have lived, for every experience I have overcome that has made me understand that life is that, to overcome experiences and to grow emotionally, physically and spiritually.
I have gone through a divorce, and I have overcome it emotionally for many years now, for 15 years to be exact. I have lived without a partner since then. I like my independent life, my freedom, although I will not deny it, in recent years I have wanted to have a partner, but "cupid" wants nothing to do with me. Yes, I have had a boyfriend, or at least a few months, I have tried, I never refuse to love a partner, but I have never had a commitment as a partner with anyone.
Having a couple relationship after being so long without the company of a man is to think about it and very well... I am not afraid of love, nor of life as a couple. The experience I have gained over the years without a partner has made me mature and reflect on what I want, need, and am prepared to give. I know what I can give as a person. I know that I have love in my heart, I also know that I am not perfect but I am unique and unrepeatable, thank God there are no two like me...hahaha.
I have a personality marked in great part for being sanguine, of those who make friends for their cheerful and positive way of seeing life, of those who do not stop talking and making people laugh who are next to them. Always with a good joke for every circumstance that comes to my life, as a friend of mine would say: "the soul of the party". My closest friends who know what my personality is like have always asked me: Why don't I have a partner? They have even offered themselves to be one, but they also say that they can't be one because I'm too tall for them, I'm 1,74 mt (5.70 feet) tall and most of my friends are short .... hahaha.
I don't think it's because of my height that cupid doesn't want anything to do with me. I understand that cupid has a blindfold, that's why they say that "love is blind" and that's how cupid walks around, like a cherub, all over the place throwing arrows of love left and right. I think it may be that because of my "advanced youth" I no longer believe in "blind love" and I am more inclined to reason than to emotion. In other words, I think a lot about it when an arrow scratches my heart and I take it off myself without Cupid noticing it, he has a blindfold on his eyes... hahaha.
Many people who say they don't have a partner are looking for love. They are even looking for a partner to stop being alone. Or because they are afraid of reaching old age without a partner. It is sad, that this is the reason for some people want to have a partner. I have a friend who years ago confessed to me that she regrets having accepted a man in her life, that she did not love him but accepted him as a partner only because she felt lonely, with time she realized the mistake and now suffers the consequences and now wants to free herself from the commitment with that man who took away her peace and did not give her the company she wanted.
Reflecting on the case of that friend who now has no peace or emotional tranquility, for accepting a man just to feel accompanied, I ask myself the following question: Could it be that Cupid has not flirted with me because my inner peace and tranquility are not negotiable? I value my inner peace, I value it so much that when I have toxic situations with people close to me I immediately move away from them, lest "cupid's blind man" flirts me with one of them...hahaha.
Reflection of today's story: stop running after love and start enjoying the slowness of each step you take in the company of a good and sincere friendship.
Happy love day to those of you with partners!
Happy day to all my virtual friends of read.cash!
Last tip of the day: be very careful today with cupid, because he is desperate, throwing arrows without seeing...
Be happy...
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yes you are very tall. but that must be very attractive to men. give it time, for sure that great person will come soon. i love to visualize things, i do it since i was a child, and when i was pregnant i visualized my children, their face and their lives. it's something like a mental map. you will say i'm crazy, but i believe in the law of attraction.