Is it me?
Is it just me? Or you felt the same way? Do you felt inferior in the society where you lived in by now? Do you felt the pressure by those people whose expecting too much from you? How would dealt with the situation, then?
How are you my read.cash family? How's life? I hoped you're doing great amidst our current situation right now. And please, do take care of yourselves.
Laziness took place again, the reason why I didn't able to publish an article yesterday? Is it a valid reason? Nah...I supposed it isn't. XD. So, what I did, I just replied to those who left their comments in my previous articles and I left comments to other articles too.
For today's article, I just picked-out a topic that seems familiar for almost all of us. (Really?) The last time, I wrote and published an article entitled, "You Versus Yourself" which tackles about my battles against myself.
https://read.cash/@renren16/you-versus-yourself-f62d6fdd
And now, I will make an entry which tackles about my battle against the society where I lived in by now. Literally saying, I'm in a battle against the people I am with in my neighborhood.
Without any further ado, let me take you to my battle field. :-)
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The Judgers
- I don't know if I correctly identified these people. What I meant to say that these are the people that always have their opinion towards the things that I've decided to do or the things that happened to me. Let's just say, these are "Judgemental People" that surrounded me. "Alam mo yung, konting kibot, may sinasabi agad." Not knowing the whole story. "Ang masaklap hindi positive comments yung sinasabi, panay negative." At some point, this also triggers my self-pity.
The Talkers behind My back
- I supposed, we all have these kind of people in the society where we lived in, am I right? Just imagine, "Ang sarap ng usapan niyo tas yung nakatalikod ka na, ginawa kalang pulutan sa usapan nila." Okay, I will be straight forward then, "Mga Chismosa at Chismoso." What I hated the most is when MGD visited me in house. "Naririnig ko pa talaga yung iba eh." And it really irritates me.
The Watchers
- "Ayy! Ito din." What would you feel if someone seems watching you? To the point that you will felt like someone was stalking you. Are you comfortable with that? For me, "NO!" Para kasing, nakaka-iritable yung ginagawa nila. Yung alam mo yun, for instance, you are with your partner then you came across each other without saying anything. And then, you already passed each other, suddenly you just turned around, and then, "Nakatingin pala sayo yung tao na yun." It creeped me. Yikes!
The Negative Vibe Bringers
- From the word "Bring", these are the people that always brings negative vibes. Sometimes, they were the reason why I overthink things. Especially when we talk about my love life. (Bitter yarn? XD)
The "Feeling" Superiors
- These are the people that wants to rule over my life. They want to manipulate me, in the sense that, they are the ones who told me that I should do this or that, in a way that they wanted to happen. " I am not your puppet, so back off!"
The Expectators
- I know, there no such word existed. From the word "Expect", what I meant is that, these are the people that expecting too much from me. Apart from that, they are ones that want to rely on me in the near future. Actually, they are the ones that are so close to me. They said to me that, I should really seek a job which I can get a big income so that I can share it with them. That I shouldn't get married just yet, so that I can help my little cousins in their studies, especially with their financial needs. What!? (So, naging responsibility ko na pala ang pagpapa-aral sa mga anak nila.)
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"Its really hard to fit in yourself in the society like this, right? But I am still thankful that I can still stand by my own, decide by my own, and do the things which I considered valuable to me, things that brings me happiness without thinking about these people that just want to bring me down."
I have God with me in this battle. He is my ally in this battle field I'm on right now. I know I can win this fight. Whatever tactics they will do, I will definitely defeat them, because I have an ally, the Mighty One! o:-)
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Did I forget to mention something? How about you my fam? What kind of society do you lived in right now? Feel free to leave your comments down there, in the comment section and let's have a few conversations then. ;-)
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Article No.: 126Author: _renren16_Published on: 10|29|2021 @11:16 am
We also have that kind of people around us, I just don't care, I always manage to do what I want to do.