Are you in a relationship? What are you when it comes to your partner? Are you a jealous type? When it comes to his/her ex or exes, how would you react? What if that specific ex of your partner keeps bothering you or your partner, can you manage to stay still?
For today's blog, ("blogger na ba talaga ako? Haha") we will talk about "Ex/Exes." It was then initiated by ate/Ma'am @Zhyne06 , and here's the link to her artcle; https://read.cash/@Zhyne06/do-i-have-problems-with-his-exes-4bf091d8 .
From the moment that I'm able read the said article, I was then interested to join in the prompt. But because I was not feeling well for a couple of days, I failed to do it, also because I made other articles, so my mind just kept on thinking about postponing it first. Actually, in that very day, I left a comment and it really got my attention and interest. And now, I decided to finally continue writing and publish my entry for this.
You already knew that I am a jealous type of person, right from the start of my life. (May ganun??XD) Seriously, I am! Maybe because I am an only child and I adapted the environment of getting what I want and getting all the attention I need. I am not saying I am an attention seeker or something but I am just really get used to it. There were a lot of times also that I envied others, especially when they have something that I wanted to have too, but still, I tried not to force to have that something beyond my limits.
When it comes to relationships, I always informed and reminded my partner about the do's and don'ts of being in a relationship. The most important among all is to avoid making me Jealous to someone, especially when it comes to his ex or exes. But unfortunately, it never happen. A lot of times, I've been hunted by this especially when that specific ex-girlfriend kept on bothering us.
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The Social Studies Major
Few months being with MGD, I experienced being bothered by his ex-girlfriend. One time, I was just finished taking a bath. As I was going inside our room, the girl just locked it. Like what? Seriously? What's her problem? Then, while I was on the outside, waiting for them to unlock the door, I heard that they were talking about MGD, that girl with her friends, and my roommates as well. They just talked behind my back, but I heard it anyway. The girl said,
"Is she the new girlfriend of MGD?" Someone said, "Yes!" I think it was my cousin. The girl kept on saying, "Where is MGD?" I think they are just teasing me. Duh, Whatever! But actually, I was bothered. The next thing I did, I confronted MGD. He explained his side, but honestly I am not convinced, for all I know they had slept together in his room. What the fudge! He said that he will talked to her. Later on, the girl stopped bothering us.
The BSBA
Honestly, I don't have any problem with this ex-girlfriend of MGD. The only thing that bothers me is that, he somewhat like wants to kept in touch with her. I was bothered because they live in the same place. I don't know what exactly his reason or reasons for doing that, maybe he's still into her. I really don't know. Everytime they see each other, even I was there with him, they smiled at each other. Eeikks! (Jealous here! -_-) This girl was his first girlfriend/ex-girlfriend.
The MAPE Major
This girl, I can really say that she's pretty both inside and out. Actually, I like her. Well, as for MGD, I really know that he's into her. One time, we had an event at school, he saw this girl wearing a cocktail dress. Looking into him, I was like being stuck for a moment. He can't take his eyes out of her. (Mimosa, selos na selos si bakla -_-) Now, this girl is the girlfriend of one of MGD's close friends.
The English Major
This girl really gives me a headache. "The worst among them all!" Actually she is the girlfriend of my co-major and a classmate of mine as well. It so happened that MGD and I had a fight. When I checked his phone, I saw this text message, "Part, where are you?" So, I immediately asked MGD about it. He explained but I felt so numb to considered it and I am not convinced. I was really angry to know that they kept communicating each other. One time, MGD and I, as well as that ex-girlfriend of his and her boyfriend, came to the point that we talked about the issue. We also bought a witness, which was also my co-major and a close friend of the boyfriend of MGD's ex-girlfriend. I talked to girl, while MGD was with the other two. The girl said, "You don't know that MGD and I kept in touch, do you?" And I was like, "Seriously? Feeling Beautiful? Hmm..She really want a slap, huh?" Only in my mind tho. But, I really want to slap her, then tweak her just to let go of my anger, but I kept myself be still. "Lang, I'm sorry for what happened?" She added. I didn't say anything. I really just control myself not to say something terrible out of respect. Yes, even though, I was being betrayed at that time, I still have the guts to show respect to her, being an elder to me.
Fast forward, after all the talking, MGD and I had a talked. I was very angry at him. The next thing I do, I decided to broke up with him. I will not tolerate any of this anymore! We actually broke up, but later on, I gave him another, yes! Another chance to make things right, but the gap was in there already.
Aigoo! Am I bad? It was like, I making her look bad to you guys. SORRY! (β₯οΉβ₯)
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Add-On Deal!!!
-There were actually lots of random girls that keeps bothering me. (Jealousy Overload!) I already shared to you before, and that's the reason why I learned to flirt other guys and later on, cheat. I am not bragging it, and I am not proud being that kind of girl because I know in myself that I am not like that before it happened, that I was being betrayed by someone. Well, MGD can't blamed me for doing that. But, I know its not an enough reason to get a revenge. "Revenge will never be the right thing to do", after all. As a matter of fact, I've been told by my friends, to just replace MGD with another guy, but I didn't listened to them, I just followed my heart and decide for myself. Still, doubts is there!
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As for MGD and I, I really just hoped that it will never came to the point that we encountered those trials ever again. You see, I've shared a lot of happy moments about the two of us, but behind all of those, there were lots of bitter moments too. I just lifted it all to our Almighty God. He knows everything. I know, everything falls into its right place, in God's will!π
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Thank you for reading.π
Praises be all to God!π
08/25/2021
_Renren16π_
Oh, you're so scary hahaha.. The ex-girlfriend should've known their place and they should've known how scary you are π Well, you're too brave on keeping up with your relationship despite those "hindrances"
Not everybody would take a tight grip on someone who has a lot of issues with their exes. You're one strong, beautiful woman.