My Say: "Girls, Huwag naman Abusado!"

How do you treat your partner? Is it in a way that he or she can tolerate it? Or in a way that he/she might explode because of your inconsiderate acts?

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A wonderful day to one and all! How's everybody? Doing great? Probably, not all. I really just hoped that you are in a good state my family. ("You know what I mean.") So, please do take care of yourselves, okay?!

For today's article, I mean blog. I wanted to share, again, my own opinion/s regarding to a societal issues, (Did I use the correct word? Societal?) that maybe some of you here had experienced. Considering the fact that I am not an expert when comes to love and life advices, I will be very open for your suggestions on how to improve my pace, with regards to this matters. "Charriiisabble!"XD. I will use Tagalog-English language, so that I can emphasized some points.

As I was scrolling in my FYP (For you page), in my Tiktok account, I came across a Tiktok content about a boy and girl that were arguing.

There conversation goes like this; ("Tagalog lang para mas ma-emphasized ko:-)")

Boy: "Ang sabi ko bilhan mo lang ako nang Bio-flu."

"Tapos ano ha!? Kung anu-ano pang binibili mo!"

(may lagnat yung guy)

Girl: "Please calm down babe, maraming tao dito."

Boy: "Pinag-antay mo'ko dun, ilang oras akong nag-antay."

"Hindi mo ba maintindihan yun."

"Alam mo'ng Bio-flu lang, diba?"

"Hindi mo man lang inintindi yung mararamdaman ko, sa kaka-antay sayo."

"Alam mo'ng wala tayong enough na pera para diyan tas sige ka pa rin."

"Alam mo nakakapagod ang attitude mo."

(Naputol yung video...)

I really want to rant or something like give a negative comment, not for the people involved, but to the content owner. I really just forced myself not to. Its kind of personal thing, and the video was a stolen record. And yes! It really gained a lot of reactions, let's just say, it went viral.

"A little respect man lang sa mga nasa video."

And for those who were involved in the video, "You can talk about it at home naman eh, or some private place, hindi yung sa public talaga." But anyways, "Nangyari na ang nangyari."

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MY SAY:

"As for the girls, parang naging natural na lang talaga sa'tin yung maging pa-girl. Yung, alam mo yung mas gusto natin na tayo lang yung laging iniintindi, inuuna, at yung laging tama pagdating sa relasyon. (I know hindi naman lahat ganun.)"

At sayo naman girl na nasa video: "Girl, huwag naman abusado." Alam mo namang may sakit pala yung boyfriend mo, inuna mo talaga yung pagiging materialistic mo. Aguy! Inisip mo man lang sana yung safety muna nang partner mo diba? Very wrong ka dun.

As for my side:

"I am not saying I am a perfect partner towards MGD. At some point, umaandar din yung pagiging materialistic ko towards something, lalo na kung gusto ko talaga yung isang bagay. But, when MGD said, "Mamhie, we don't have enough money to buy that for now." Well then, bakit ko ipipilit ang hindi pa pwede, diba? I can understand that. "Grabe naman kung hindi natin ma-gets agad yung sinabi." Kaysa naman umabot pa kami sa puntong, mag-aaway lang kami dahil sa isang bagay na hindi naman ganun ka-importante, especially when MGD felt sick. I see to it that, I will set aside my own wants for his safety. "Ganun ako eh."

I am not bragging it, but I am proud, how I treated my partner, lalo na talaga kung may sakit siya. Lumalabas yung pagiging praning ko, lalo na kung may sakit siya tas hindi ko siya maalagaan kasi nandun siya sa bahay nila. Ang layo pa naman. Imagine, San Ricardo and Hilongos. Sino ba'ng hindi mag-aalala niyan? Same goes to my parents.

CLOSING THOUGHTS:

Sa isang relasyon, huwag sana natin isipin na we are superior over our partners. Hindi ganun yun. Its should be fair for the both of you. Ano ba't pinasok niyo ya'ng estado'ng yan kung hindi niyo man lang iisipin yung kapakanan nang isa't-isa, diba? "Give-and-Take." Hindi yung ikaw lang yung, take nang take at siya lang yung give nang give.

At tandaan din natin, na hindi sa lahat nang panahon, makukuha natin kung ano ang gusto natin.

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That's it for this blog my read.cash fam! I know some of you here didn't understand it all, especially because I used Tagalog words upon writing it. You can translate it naman, Hehe, would you mind? :-)

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Published on: 10/26/2021 @ 5:06 pm