Do You Love Your Alone Time?
"The universe doesn't give you what you ask for with your thoughts; it gives you what you demand with your actions."
-Dr. Steve Maraboli
When a soul finds comfort through an alone time, the ability to be alone is the ability to love self unconditionally with own thoughts. A wise man once said that the universe does not give you what you ask for with your thoughts but it eventually gives you demand with your actions, and that if you desire to be alone for some time, you would know how soul-saving it could be.
Do you love your alone time?
"The strongest man in the world is he who stands most alone."
-Henrik Ibsen
Being alone may seem to be a weakness among other people. But it is a strength because not everyone can survive being alone for some time. According to Henrik Ibsen, the strongest man in the world is he who stands most alone. Do you still remember those times when you have the feeling of loving to be alone?
There are really those moments in life when we feel to be alone. Sometimes we need to embrace an alone time in order for us to cope up with life as we find out who we really are and what we really desire in the world.
Alone time could help us to think deeply and do what we really enjoy in life. It could also help meet our own emotional needs as we are more comfortable with our own thoughts when we prefer an inner peace through connecting with our own feelings.
Moreover, the more we embrace an alone time, the more we could be better toward ourselves and for someone else. Most of the time, when there is peace and solitude, the mind gains more strength and learns to depend on itself with a greater power. We just have to believe on the power of our thoughts as it could move the universe.
I personally love my alone time.
I did not realize how soul-saving my alone time is when I have learned to love spending time being alone all by myself. When I am usually alone, I get to know more of myself and see the dark sides of me that I have failed to recognize for a long span of time. It is through being alone that I can think deeply as I listen to my stories in life.
I think that being alone with my thoughts while I am going through a rough patch is not really as easy as a piece of cake, but I strongly believe that it is the way that I could help carry myself once again to stand up after I stumble down in the ground. And I think that it is the only way that I could dig down the hard roots and fix all the mess in my life.
I have even realized that at some point in life, there are really those times that I get tired of running to someone else' gentle words and comfort. Whenever I am experiencing a rough patch, I am trying to stand with my thoughts and I am learning to to sit with the discomfort at the same time, so that I can be my own helping hand that I greatly needed the most during my darkest time.
In addition, I am learning to take care and love myself in a way that no one else can. I am learning to appreciate and value my inner peace as I am believing that my peace of mind gives me comfort over my temporary feelings of sorrow and despair. And I am grasping the true purpose of every adversity in life while I learn to kneel down and pray to change myself for the better.
In conclusion, the universe gives us a horizon of what we demand with our actions as we learn to love an alone time. Spending time being alone with ourselves can truly teach us so much about life perspectives through the worst. And at the end of the day, it is ourselves that we have as a back up when there is no more shoulder to cry on. Thus, we just need the courage and commitment to do what is right even if it takes a million of struggles to pursue and even if it is the most difficult thing to do in life.
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To answer your question my dear, YES! I love my time being alone. Especially that I don't like to go outside during the day. Hehe. Well, talking about it seriously, I just want to spend much of my time in my room doing some stuffs and that goes with just spending much time to think about things, about life.